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[SinnamonFairbanks]

Thanks girl. Ik I could easily charge more but I'm very humble and I realize that the $80 I did make in 10/15 mins is the average working man's 4 hr shift. Because I did only charge $80 I refuse to deal with any bullshit. I can guarantee anyone bitter is because I've seen them once and then refused to see them again. Hey, I'd be mad too hehe. People saying "charge more" is almost funny to me. The going 30min rate for DR FS GFE is 140-160. I'm making $80 for less than 15m doing half the work. People need to do the math. Anyhow, there's a saying...you give people an inch they will take a mile. It's always something someone will find to complain about. This is life. You seem like a cool chick, some of your points are def valid. Wishing you a wonderful day & week.

That's true. I came to the same conclusion a few years ago. I just know that I don't offer bbbj and people will offer you whatever you want for it, double and triple the regular rate. I did it once for $500 It's a highly sought after service. You are hot too. A bbbj from a hot experienced woman is worth WAY more. You know what you're doing though. I hate when people try to mansplain my job to me so I'll save you the speech. You're just worth A LOT more.

I went in the opposite direction, charging less for longer sessions but everyone is different. I regret it some days when the second or 3rd hour is killing my back. I just hate dealing with new people. Most of them are unreliable and quite frankly, nuts. Like, demanding that I be somewhere in 20 minutes when it takes an hour to get there showing up an hour late and thinking they're still booked in. The list goes on and on.

STAY SAFE. You're not alone and you're gorgeous.

 

[SweetCandi_DR]

That's true. I came to the same conclusion a few years ago. I just know that I don't offer bbbj and people will offer you whatever you want for it, double and triple the regular rate. I did it once for $500 It's a highly sought after service. You are hot too. A bbbj from a hot experienced woman is worth WAY more. You know what you're doing though. I hate when people try to mansplain my job to me so I'll save you the speech. You're just worth A LOT more.

I went in the opposite direction, charging less for longer sessions but everyone is different. I regret it some days when the second or 3rd hour is killing my back. I just hate dealing with new people. Most of them are unreliable and quite frankly, nuts. Like, demanding that I be somewhere in 20 minutes when it takes an hour to get there showing up an hour late and thinking they're still booked in. The list goes on and on.

STAY SAFE. You're not alone and you're gorgeous.

I hear ya. Stay safe as well xo

 

[RebelinBed]

The problem is, that she's not anyone's intimate partner. She's basically a stranger that you buy a portion of your time from. You're meeting her for a very brief period of time and there is no intimacy. Some people come across as VERY entitled and NEEDY. It is every providers right to decide they just don't want the hassle. For $70 or $80 you have to know that there are people who will abuse that and try to take advantage and be as annoying as possible and make a provider question why they don't charge more money. Some people need to pay double for how demanding they are. MOST people are great. Don't lump yourself in and die on the hill with the guy we don't even want to make money off of. At a certain point you have to wash your hands of certain people to maintain your own peace and integrity.

If you're going in at $70 or $80 and she's doing ALL of that when she could charge way more money FYI. Like ALOT more... are you really going to defend the guy who probably went in for a bng and probably should have paid for an hour but was too cheap? Bng's ARE for minute men. They're not for someone to bust their back trying to get it done in 15 minutes when they need a hh or more. They're a reduce rate for people that honestly cum really fast and they shouldn't have to pay the same price as everyone else. They're not for people that need a long time but people who need a long time try to sneak in at a reduced rate and take up all of our time and complain that they didn't get the full experience for a fraction of the price. You have to be short with those people. Even kick them out. They don't like or respect us. They're trying to use us and take advantage. It's not easy, so treat the girls that treat you right like gold because they'll move on.

This lady is a fox. She could easily charge more money for what she provides but she doesn't. But she SHOULD *wink wink*

(Charge more money)

As it said in the post of mine that you quoted, I was not attempting to defend the OP. I was simply offering an objective, third party perspective on the subject. I have seen Candi twice now and she is a lovely and gorgeous woman. So it wasn't an attack on her either. I don't know the details of their encounter with each other so I can only speak on so much.

What I meant in saying "partner" is that, yes you're right that the client is paying for an SPs time. However, for the time you are spending with them, they are your intimate partner. They are the person you are being intimate with for that alloted time and communication from both parties is important. Both for each party:s enjoyment , safety, and boundaries. You cannot always have a good sexual experience with any intimate partner without communication. Sometimes you click and don't need to communicate, other times you do.

I feel like what I said was misinterpreted so I hope that clears it up I have nothing against you or Candi. I have and always will have the upmost respect for you ladies in this industry. Almost all of my posts on this forum will prove this as such. Especially those who are solid providers and solid people. I just always try to look at conflicts with an objective eye and try to find resolutions. That's all.

I apologize if what I said came off the wrong way but again I hope this clears it up. Other than that, I don't disagree with a single thing you said.