Spoiling?

[CuddleBuddy2]

Some clients and providers are into Financial Domination (FinDom). Not my thing.

If I ever got asked by a provider to "spoil" her, that would be an instant block . Unless if by spoiling she meant COF

 

[maurice93]

It's certainly becoming more and more normal (social media impact) and SP's are apparently getting more comfortable asking to be spoiled seeing how normalized it is. Not all of course.

A few weeks back I saw a tweet from a local asking "Someone send me $2000 now.. Thanks".

 

[Daddy2021]

It's certainly becoming more and more normal (social media impact) and SP's are apparently getting more comfortable asking to be spoiled on social media seeing how normalized it is. Not all of course.

A few weeks back I saw a tweet from a local asking "Someone send me $2000 now.. Thanks".

I gather many are sending money and wish list gifts or they would stop posting it. I figure if they want to give its none of my business. I worry about what I’m doing not what anyone else is.

 

[maurice93]

I gather many are sending money and wish list gifts or they would stop posting it. I figure if they want to give its none of my business. I worry about what I’m doing not what anyone else is.

I’m not condemning either party. Merely saying it’s much more normalized now.

 

[slobbyist]

Reading the recent posts. I am glad to see most terbies have a backbone after all.

As a slobbyist, I intentionally avoid all providers that are constantly asking for expensive gifts, money or posting expensive meals or trips that supposedly paid by the FinDom hobbyists

To each their own.

 

[ShanOtt]

Reading the recent posts. I am glad to see most terbies have a backbone after all.

As a slobbyist, I intentionally avoid all providers that are constantly asking for expensive gifts, money or posting expensive meals or trips that supposedly paid by the FinDom hobbyists

To each their own.

I think you’re conflating findom and escorting. There’s a pretty big difference between the two.

Obviously there’s a demographic of escorts who feel comfortable asking or implying gifts should be the standard expectation for their clients. Just avoid those ones if you don’t like it. Or book them, but she’s not holding a gun to your head to provide a gift.
If you feel bad about not being able to provide that, or if they make you feel bad about it, don’t see them. They aren’t the provider for you. Simple as that.

Now in my case, if I’ve built a really great connection with a regular provider, I don’t mind treating them to something nice, or something they may have mentioned they like. I’m not forking out 1000s on gifts though.
If it’s a birthday or holiday I like to show a little appreciation and I feel good about it. The thought is almost always reciprocated by the provider as well.

To each their own!

 

[JDavis]

Bringing a drink to share or a sweet treat at most is where I draw the line. Earn your own money and buy your own shit, and stop being selfish.

 

[honeybear69]

Reading the recent posts. I am glad to see most terbies have a backbone after all.

As a slobbyist, I intentionally avoid all providers that are constantly asking for expensive gifts, money or posting expensive meals or trips that supposedly paid by the FinDom hobbyists

To each their own.

Ya....I agree.....I have a wife for that!!
HB69.....was here!?!?!!!

 

[Daddy2021]

Reading the recent posts. I am glad to see most terbies have a backbone after all.

As a slobbyist, I intentionally avoid all providers that are constantly asking for expensive gifts, money or posting expensive meals or trips that supposedly paid by the FinDom hobbyists

To each their own.

Why do you care? If it doesn’t affect you then it shouldn’t matter. They are escorts. Hustle is the name of the game. Why shun them for playing with willing players. What does it have to do with you? Are you pretending they are not hustlers in your head? Because I assure you, asking for gifts or not their end game is all the same.do you like to pretend they are all here out of their willingness to service us? Some are nicer girls than others? If so you may be the problem, not them. At least it’s honest and not trying to fool themselves.

 

[slobbyist]

To each their own.