How to be discreet about hobby?

[Paprika]

I'm updating the list, and I thought of another one yesterday, I saw it in Wolf of Wall Street.

Calling another woman's name in your sleep.

This is why I never greet any SP by their working name like Hi Sweet Baby Jamie, just Hi is good enough.

 

[MarcoHardOnFire]

I'm updating the list, and I thought of another one yesterday, I saw it in Wolf of Wall Street.

Calling another woman's name in your sleep.

This is why I never greet any SP by their working name like Hi Sweet Baby Jamie, just Hi is good enough.

Dude, if that happens the Universe has simply decided "Fuck Paprika" and there is pretty much nothing you can do about it.

 

[Jami77]

Calling another womans name in your sleep? It was a nightmare about a boss at work, or old school teacher. Its always a nightmare.

 

[taxman69]

dont give up much personal info in your reviews either. or details on when you saw them (day /time of day)
you also have to worry about vengeful providers

 

[Sonic Temple]

I'm updating the list, and I thought of another one yesterday, I saw it in Wolf of Wall Street.

Calling another woman's name in your sleep.

This is why I never greet any SP by their working name like Hi Sweet Baby Jamie, just Hi is good enough.

....but @SweetBabyJamie is too damn fine not to be calling her name.

 

[Tiger]

The mileage is great one, they used it for catching the Green River guy, a lot of unexplained mileages while cruising the Sea-Tac Strip.

I think for the burner phone, it's better to hide it in plain sight, keep a cheap flip phone in your car, say it's for emergency in case you something happens to your smartphone. If you don't do that and she sees the phone, it will raise questions.

Personally I think using your own number if not that bad is you're using reputation agencies, again hide in plain sight, find a colleague that you don't even talk to but shares the same initials with the agency, put agency number under his name, for example, SexyFriends would be Sam Ford, then lump it together with a bunch of other colleagues you do talk to.

Good list @Paprika and good to be prepared! This is the way I think
I had a burner phone briefly, but it would raise too many questions if found

My risk with using my own phone without another e-sim is that the agency would text out of the blue, unexpectedly - HPL did this to me before and i was furious

I was in the car with wife and school drop off, not our usual routine that day. Couldn't confirm my appointment by 9am. I was fine to let it go and lose my spot... but HPL texted me!!! Luckily phone was on silent/vibrate mode. And luckily that car didn't have Apple Car Play where it shows up on the car screen. That would have been disastrous... my other car reads out the text message for you too!

I had words with HPL privately afterwards. They couldn't seem to understand how difficult a situation they put me in by contacting my unsolicited. They were angry I didn't confirm, I of course said I know didn't confirm in time... so what? That was on me and I accept the consequence of losing my spot. I told them to cancel it b/c I didn't confirm in time, but DONT TEXT ME if I don't text first. Or at least maybe send a blank text as a warning, so I could tell the wife it was a wrong number or something

In the end of it, they didn't seem to understand where I was coming from, and I stopped using them since then. They seem to be doing well now regardless

TL/DR - 1. make sure agencies don't text you uninitiated. 2. Be careful how your Bluetooth connects everything automatically eg: Carplay or even voice... I've had instances where my car arrives home, turn off the car, and I lose my sound on my mobile phone, but the conversation automatically switches to speakerphone inside the house?!?

 

[AhriAngel]

Wow guys thanks a lot for this, there are really some good tips here to help me keep my private and work life more separate

 

[coolmanfever]

Carry a alcohol whip or bottle of alcohol to remove makeup and perfume on your face for those sp like to wear scent perfume. I also request no perfume before my session but some sp seems to forgot or not being communicated..

 

[JayRoam]

I don't have an SO, so happily never have to deal with these problems. I personally love when a beautiful woman wears an alluring perfume. I love nuzzling her neck and inhaling her body scent before sliding into her pussy. It's all part of the heady experience. Her perfume usually gets on my clothes when she gives me a goodbye hug but I can enjoy that embrace fully. Later I get reminded of our passion when I catch whiffs of her scent off my clothes.

In fact, my favorite regular knows how much I love her perfume and always wears it for me. I feel bad for you guys who have to schlep around and watch your back all the time.

Given how complicated it seems to hide hobbying from an SO, why not restrict your booking to days when your SO is away? You don't have to worry about the agency texting you in the morning. There is time to buy a gift on your way to the session. And you would have plenty of time to cover your tracks post-deed (shower, wash your clothes, etc).

 

[superman12]

I don't have an SO, so happily never have to deal with these problems. I personally love when a beautiful woman wears an alluring perfume. I love nuzzling her neck and inhaling her body scent before sliding into her pussy. It's all part of the heady experience. Her perfume usually gets on my clothes when she gives me a goodbye hug but I can enjoy that embrace fully. Later I get reminded of our passion when I catch whiffs of her scent off my clothes.

In fact, my favorite regular knows how much I love her perfume and always wears it for me. I feel bad for you guys who have to schlep around and watch your back all the time.

Given how complicated it seems to hide hobbying from an SO, why not restrict your booking to days when your SO is away? You don't have to worry about the agency texting you in the morning. There is time to buy a gift on your way to the session. And you would have plenty of time to cover your tracks post-deed (shower, wash your clothes, etc).

Sometimes the SO is just not away often enough to restrict seeing sp's then. Guys with SO's just need that extra bit of stress relief more often that comes with seeing an sp and so they have to find clever ways to sneak around

 

[JayRoam]

Sometimes the SO is just not away often enough to restrict seeing sp's then. Guys with SO's just need that extra bit of stress relief more often that comes with seeing an sp and so they have to find clever ways to sneak around

Yes, I understand. I was in a sexless marriage for 12 years. But thankfully both she and I travelled a lot for work so I was able to see SPs and also have an affair with a younger woman. It definitely made it easier for me to conceal my indiscretions when my SO was away or when I was on the road.

 

[1kevin]

You worry too much.

 

[SexB]

Honestly? I'm single and stick to reputable providers so it isn't really a big deal for me.

I stick to texting and email since it's much more discrete and means you'll avoid mishearing the buzz code and suite number.

And how I spend my money is nobodies business but my own.,

 

[justbee]

Good list @Paprika and good to be prepared! This is the way I think
I had a burner phone briefly, but it would raise too many questions if found

My risk with using my own phone without another e-sim is that the agency would text out of the blue, unexpectedly - HPL did this to me before and i was furious

I was in the car with wife and school drop off, not our usual routine that day. Couldn't confirm my appointment by 9am. I was fine to let it go and lose my spot... but HPL texted me!!! Luckily phone was on silent/vibrate mode. And luckily that car didn't have Apple Car Play where it shows up on the car screen. That would have been disastrous... my other car reads out the text message for you too!

I had words with HPL privately afterwards. They couldn't seem to understand how difficult a situation they put me in by contacting my unsolicited. They were angry I didn't confirm, I of course said I know didn't confirm in time... so what? That was on me and I accept the consequence of losing my spot. I told them to cancel it b/c I didn't confirm in time, but DONT TEXT ME if I don't text first. Or at least maybe send a blank text as a warning, so I could tell the wife it was a wrong number or something

In the end of it, they didn't seem to understand where I was coming from, and I stopped using them since then. They seem to be doing well now regardless

TL/DR - 1. make sure agencies don't text you uninitiated. 2. Be careful how your Bluetooth connects everything automatically eg: Carplay or even voice... I've had instances where my car arrives home, turn off the car, and I lose my sound on my mobile phone, but the conversation automatically switches to speakerphone inside the house?!?

Anyone who know how to turn off the GPS from TESLA to avoid location be tracked.

 

[barnacler]

1) Hair on the socks! Could be dog hair ,or any colour hair that shouldn't be there. Socks are like swiffers.

I ALWAYS very carefully either take my socks off and put them in the shoes immediately without them touching anything else, or else examine the socks wen I take them off at home.

And for GAWDS sake always be sure you are never putting a sock on inside out!

2) Don't know if anyone else said this, but YOUR FRIGGIN DASHCAM is recording everywhere you go. I turn it off then return later to the exact same parking spot it was in before.

3) Separate cash billfold hidden in my car. So my actual wallet is only ever used for normal activities, in case she checks out the cash in my wallet. "Where did that $300 in your wallet go honey?"

4) If you are in your own local area, and could be seen by someone you know, get some kind of huge loose hoodie, wear it going in, and put a toque on as well. Take it off when you are inside so you don't look ridiculuous.

 

[GeeBee]

Cash Flow

If you are married and want to hide cash... Check if your company allows you to have multiple bank accounts for payroll and other employee payments (Expenses/Bonus). Most modern payroll solutions offer this type of feature but employers may not turn it on.

Open a new bank account. Electronic Delivery of all statements and communication.
Put % of your paycheck in the new bank account.
Put Bonus's or Expense Reimbursements into new bank account.

A word of caution about opening a bank account.

Any account you have, even if it’s virtual, all the statements etc.. are electronic and it's only in your name, will show up on a credit report or monitoring.

Why does this matter? If you or your spouse deal with an organisation that has a data breach that organisation may offer you free monitoring to keep an eye on your finances in case your info was stolen and someone is trying to use it for identity theft. This is really common now and a lot of us have had it happen.

So if you and your spouse sign up you’ll get a list of all the accounts, credit cards and loans that you’ve ever had. A new one at the top of the list that is only in your name will raise some massive red flags when your wife sees it. Either she will think you are an identity theft victim and all hell will break loose trying to fix things (which trust me is a massive undertaking) or, if she’s the least bit suspicious of your behaviour, you’ve got some splainin’ to do my friend. Hopefully just to her and not her lawyer.

Take care my pooning friends.

 

[explorerzip]

Anyone who know how to turn off the GPS from TESLA to avoid location be tracked.

Consult your owner's manual. Or Google the model of your car to disable the GPS. Failing that, you could park your car somewhere besides the incall and walk, transit, Uber, etc. the rest of the way.

 

[explorerzip]

1) Hair on the socks! Could be dog hair ,or any colour hair that shouldn't be there. Socks are like swiffers.

I ALWAYS very carefully either take my socks off and put them in the shoes immediately without them touching anything else, or else examine the socks wen I take them off at home.

And for GAWDS sake always be sure you are never putting a sock on inside out!

2) Don't know if anyone else said this, but YOUR FRIGGIN DASHCAM is recording everywhere you go. I turn it off then return later to the exact same parking spot it was in before.

3) Separate cash billfold hidden in my car. So my actual wallet is only ever used for normal activities, in case she checks out the cash in my wallet. "Where did that $300 in your wallet go honey?"

4) If you are in your own local area, and could be seen by someone you know, get some kind of huge loose hoodie, wear it going in, and put a toque on as well. Take it off when you are inside so you don't look ridiculuous.

If you're worried about someone looking at your dashcam and take the step of turning it off, you now have a gap in your recording that needs to be explained.

A seperate wallet can be discovered by someone. You can get cash on the way to the appointment.

If you're worried about being spotted by people you know then don't make appointments in your local area. Even then, there's always a chance you might bump into someone you know. Wearing a hoodie, glasses, and toque probably makes you stand out more.

 

[justbee]

Consult your owner's manual. Or Google the model of your car to disable the GPS. Failing that, you could park your car somewhere besides the incall and walk, transit, Uber, etc. the rest of the way.

thank you. Technology making our life easier at the mean time extra work & challenges to be discreet for hobbying especially when you partner/GF is up to technology edge.

 

[barnacler]

If you're worried about someone looking at your dashcam and take the step of turning it off, you now have a gap in your recording that needs to be explained.

A seperate wallet can be discovered by someone. You can get cash on the way to the appointment.

If you're worried about being spotted by people you know then don't make appointments in your local area. Even then, there's always a chance you might bump into someone you know. Wearing a hoodie, glasses, and toque probably makes you stand out more.

No. You turn it off as you head out, you turn it back on when you get back. My car only records when on.,

Of course anything can be discovered, but that's the point - you hide it, - you can't hide your normal wallet.

Same idea with your third point - we could all be safe if we drove 100 km away each time, but that creates its own problems.

So IF ---- IF you hobby locally, wearing a hoodie is not making you stand out unless people never wear hoodies where you live.