How to be a bad client

[black booty lover]

That is not my point though. I am saying a) You dont know that she is preaching to the choir. Maybe there are a few assholes on here that need to hear it. You dont even know who the majority of the guys here are in the first place. So that assertion itself, isn't logical. b) Even if there are no assholes on here per your original assertion, she can still make the post, in a way to talk about something that is on her mind.

Where is the need for this post of hers to be directed at someone needing to hear it? There isn't.

And for umpteenth time, she's free to post whatever she wants, but when you start a thread, you open yourself up to both positive and negative criticism. I do not believe there are "a few assholes on here that need to hear it". Those that are assholes are aware this and will continue to be assholes. That's my who point. I don't believe she's getting through to anyone that will be willing to take her advice, hence I think she's wasting her time. I have said a bunch of times the word "pointless" may have not been the right word, but I believe she's wasting her time. I made my point and moved on, but ya'll keep quoting me and so I keep having to repeat the same thing because so many of you just aren't getting it. Your are free to think this very insightful list is changing all kinds members attitudes and behaviors if you like, but even with no factual evidence, I'm extremely confident in my assertation it's not going to change a damn thing for her or any SP on here.

If one member puts up their hand with total honesty and says "oh glad to read about point #2 as I didn't realize insulting an escort was bad", then I'll retract my comments. (Pick whatever point you want I just picked #2 as that's the most absurd one)

 

[Valcazar]

Can anyone make heads or tails of what this post was supposed to mean??

Yes.
It's not very complicated or confusing.

 

[black booty lover]

As I said before, even if what you say is true:

Where is the need for this post of hers to be directed at someone needing to hear it? There simply isn't. Who determines this need? No one.

And I said, it's the organic nature of people to respond when you start a threads. That's the nature of dialogue. My opinion is that I don't think on this particular forum it's helpful to stat a thread that comes across like your lecturing decent guys on how to be decent guys.

 

[black booty lover]

Yes.
It's not very complicated or confusing.

yeah...yeah...yeah. I understood the post. Was being sarcastic.

 

[squeezer]

And I said, it's the organic nature of people to respond when you start a threads. That's the nature of dialogue. My opinion is that I don't think on this particular forum it's helpful to stat a thread that comes across like your lecturing decent guys on how to be decent guys.

I dunno, how many times have we seen a nasty negative review go up only to be challenged by the agency or the lady to find out the parts the Terbite member left out which showed he was the nasty one? I do agree, these types of pooners will probably not change their style and then cry about why they get the bottom end of ymmv but you can't blame a lady for trying to help some of the lame clients out and yes some of them exist on this board as lurkers and posters.

 

[explorerzip]

 

[Coolsin000]

How to be a bad client:

1. Her rate is above my budget. I should convince her to lower it for me because I can find other girls for half the price.

2. She doesn’t give me what I want? I should insult her.

3. She did not answer the first time I called. I should call back 5 more times and leave an obscene voicemail. That should do it!

4. She trusted me and told me her real name. Let me tell all of my “hobby buddies”.

5. She requires a deposit but I don’t do that. I should harass her until she accepts to see me without one. The ambiance will sure be pleasant.

6. She asked me to shower but I don’t want to. I should argue for 5 mins and then go to the bathroom angrily and pretend to shower while I stand next to it.



How to be a good client:

1. Her rate is above my budget. I should find someone whose rate is within my budget.

2. She doesn’t give me what I want? I should block her and move on.

3. She did not answer the first time I called. I should be patient and wait until she calls/texts back.

4. She trusted me and told me her real name. I should still use her stage name around my “hobby buddies”.

5. She requires a deposit but I don’t do that. I should find someone who doesn’t require deposits.

6. She asked me to shower but I don’t want to. I should just do it because after all, I want to be fresh and delicious


What inspired this thread:
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Thanks beautiful for taking the time to share this list with us!

 

[Valcazar]

yeah...yeah...yeah. I understood the post. Was being sarcastic.

How was that being sarcastic?
You just basically said it was word salad you couldn't understand.

 

[Knuckle Ball]

Which one of you guys wrote this?

 

[black booty lover]

How was that being sarcastic?
You just basically said it was word salad you couldn't understand.

I knew what It meant, I was taking a shot at her attempt of over using words and grammar to male bash which seems to be the trendy thing do these days. Even worse when members of our own gender like you defend.it.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I UNDERSTAND THIS!!! What I'm saying is, more then likely these aren't the active TERB members that conduct themselves this way. It's bunch of rift raft that aren't part of this community.

I would bet my whole salary, that anybody that read this thread, DID NOT OR WOULD NOT have committed any the points on the " bad client list acts". I would love to see one TERB to be totally honest and let us know if anything on this list was something they didn't already know. If there is anyone on here they do this, they probably know it's wrong and don't give a shit.

If the word "thug" offends you, I'm not sure what to tell you other then your way to sensitive and probably part of the whole cancel culture problem. I'm not going to sit here and come up with a different term for the word "thugs" because your in mind it's politically incorrect. Ridiculous that you even bring that up as part of your response.

This is like a someone who uses Reddit trying to say they could never believe someone on Reddit could be/do x,y,z. Might be unbelievable - but baby , believe it

***other THAN YOU’RE way TOO sensitive

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

And I said, it's the organic nature of people to respond when you start a threads. That's the nature of dialogue. My opinion is that I don't think on this particular forum it's helpful to stat a thread that comes across like your lecturing decent guys on how to be decent guys.

If you’re “decent“ (what an aim!), then it’s not directed at you and you can stop trying to defend the non-decent guys it’s aimed at and move on

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I changed your post to reflect honesty intended all along I believe. Now it's perfect!

You red pilling?

 

[black booty lover]

If you’re “decent“ (what an aim!), then it’s not directed at you and you can stop trying to defend the non-decent guys it’s aimed at and move on

Who said I was defending non-decent guys? I said assholes will be assholes and posting this won't change their ways. Your a free to move on as well.

 

[black booty lover]

This is like a someone who uses Reddit trying to say they could never believe someone on Reddit could be/do x,y,z. Might be unbelievable - but baby , believe it

***other THAN YOU’RE way TOO sensitive

Ha! I'm the sensitive one says the guy arguing with me because of a simple comment I made about how the thread probably isn't going to change anything and is probably a waste of time.

 

[Valcazar]

I knew what It meant, I was taking a shot at her attempt of over using words and grammar to male bash which seems to be the trendy thing do these days. Even worse when members of our own gender like you defend.it.

You thought that was "male bashing"?
LOL
You're really over-sensitive man.

 

[LC18]

I’ve made the same exact thread on merb and perb and only here did I end up with trolls.

I know me or my thread ain’t the problem

 

[LC18]

I’ve added those two points as suggested by people on merb

Bad client

7. I am not sure who I want to see. I’ll just email 3-4 providers and book for the same exact time. Whoever replies first gets the prize.

8. She’s already here, I’ll pressure her to do things she hasn’t agreed to do (rate, services)

Good client

7. I have two providers I’d like to meet. I’ll just contact my first choice and if she cannot see me, I’ll contact my second choice without telling her she was my second option.

8. She’s already here, I’ll stick to what we agreed on by text message and won’t book her again if I didn’t like the service or rate.

 

[Laylalux]

I didn't read the whole thread, and maybe it has been mentioned, but....

USE MOUTHWASH!!!

Every guy wants DFK, but doesn't want to have fresh breath. Gum is not enough. Most indies I know, have mouthwash available. Use it. Without being asked to. It should be common sense.

You're a bad client when you don't use and when you have to be asked to use it. It makes me not want to kiss you at all.

 

[black booty lover]

You thought that was "male bashing"?
LOL
You're really over-sensitive man.

ha! I love how you guys call me the "sensitive" one but your all on a thread making such an issue of such a small comment I made. Definitely a case of the pot calling the kettle black.

Yeah I would say anyone who starts a sentence off with "don't you love how men" and then continues the sentence with something derogatory about men a form of male bashing.

Just so you know, I'm laughing at your responses so I'm really not sure how sensitive this makes me...lol.