How to be a bad client

[black booty lover]

I seriously don’t even know why you are arguing.

If you don’t find this thread useful, good. I made it because some people find it interesting and useful, whether they already apply those recommendations or not.

If you think “silly, everyone knows this it’s just being a good human” I have some news for you.

If you think “men doing those things won’t change just because you made a thread”. Who knows? Maybe they had no idea that sharing someone’s real name wasn’t a good idea.

Anyways, making threads on this specific board is exhausting but I keep making them because I often receive good words.

Well my intent wasn't to drag it out, but when other members gave me idiotic replies, I took the bait.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

and your showing yourself to be a complete moron. These pointers ARE NOT pointers on how to be a bad client. They are pointers on how to be bad human. These "words of wisdom" are common sense. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out you shouldn't insult people, be on time, and be respectful to someone, regardless if they are an SP or any other job. Most guys here are aware of this know how the game is played. If this was a forum full of thugs, this thread might carry some weight. If you can't wrap your head around this, then you should bounce from this thread and move along.

THATS LITERALLY HER POINT and what we are all additionally saying who are supporting this list. apparently, it is sadly not common sense to a large majority of people and its embarrassing and shocking to everyone but these people who don’t get how to adhere to these rules of civility. Using the word thug doesn’t do any good either. bad manners and lack of empathy strikes many different humans with different education levels, jobs, demographics, socioeconomic status etc etc

 

[black booty lover]

THATS LITERALLY HER POINT and what we are all additionally saying who are supporting this list. apparently, it is sadly not common sense to a large majority of people and its embarrassing and shocking to everyone but these people who don’t get how to adhere to these rules of civility. Using the word thug doesn’t do any good either. bad manners and lack of empathy strikes many different humans with different education levels, jobs, demographics, socioeconomic status etc etc

I UNDERSTAND THIS!!! What I'm saying is, more then likely these aren't the active TERB members that conduct themselves this way. It's bunch of rift raft that aren't part of this community.

I would bet my whole salary, that anybody that read this thread, DID NOT OR WOULD NOT have committed any the points on the " bad client list acts". I would love to see one TERB to be totally honest and let us know if anything on this list was something they didn't already know. If there is anyone on here they do this, they probably know it's wrong and don't give a shit.

If the word "thug" offends you, I'm not sure what to tell you other then your way to sensitive and probably part of the whole cancel culture problem. I'm not going to sit here and come up with a different term for the word "thugs" because your in mind it's politically incorrect. Ridiculous that you even bring that up as part of your response.

 

[LC18]

What I'm saying is, more then likely these aren't the active TERB members that conduct themselves this way.

The world doesn’t revolve around you. Everyone has access to this website and everyone can read my post.

It will be useful to some people, it isn’t for you. We get it. I don’t know why you’re still arguing about that. People have literally said it was useful, what are you even arguing about?

 

[black booty lover]

The world doesn’t revolve around you. Everyone has access to this website and everyone can read my post.

It will be useful to some people, it isn’t for you. We get it. I don’t know why you’re still arguing about that. People have literally said it was useful, what are you even arguing about?

One again just responding to a person that quoted me. I'm well aware "the world doesn't revolve around me". It doesn't revolve around you either. People are saying the "the thread is useful" but with no substance or real backing other then "there might be some people out there that will read this", and it will just circle back to my very logical point about who's reading it and what the outcome be. The very guys that are saying the thread is useful, are not even the guys that find it useful. I stick to my stance that the active members on this board are guys who already know all this and do one of two things:

1) They already conduct themself this way not because they want to be a good client, but because they want to be a good human

or

2) Despite knowing what's the wrong way, they don't care and conduct themselves they want cause they don't give a shit.

If people are going to quote me, I'm going to reply.

 

[Josephine]

That was so uncalled for @black booty lover . You could have just moved on like for the hundred of useless threads started by some male here you don't participate in, but you decided to pick on her. Some of you get off making women here feel uncomfortable. Unbelievable.

 

[Vera.Reis]

Don't you love how men make subjective comments in reply to subjective comments, and then call their subjective comments more logical than the other subjective comments? Truly inspiring how much confidence they have in the objectivity of their subjective comments. I need to channel this power of making myself the sole authority on subjective matters.

 

[LC18]

Anyways back to our regular program. It is clear that person’s only kick in life is arguing online with strangers. He could have literally just ignored the thread if it was so irrelevant but his life was so uninteresting, he decided to start an argument for no reason.

Thank you to everyone that chimed in, I welcome all opinions whether they’re supporting the thread or not. I just don’t see the point in arguing just for the sake of arguing.

 

[black booty lover]

That was so uncalled for @black booty lover . You could have just moved on like for the hundred of useless threads started by some male here you don't participate in, but you decided to pick on her. Some of you get off making women here feel uncomfortable. Unbelievable.

Totally untrue and unsubstantiated.
When you start a thread in a semi-public forum preaching to the very people that pay your bills, you open it up to debate and positive criticism. The mere fact she posted things like “don’t insult an SP” is a slap in the face to not only the intelligence of some us, but ti the character of the majority of good Johns on this board. I said this once and I’ll say it again, if I posted a thread on a board that was mostly full of reliable SP’s, and told them how to be a good escort, it probably wouldn’t be met with very good responses. If told them to be a good SP, they should have good hygiene, keep their appointments, show respect and manners to their clients, they probably would tell me they are already doing this which is why they good and reputable escorts, and that they don’t need to be lectured on this.

I also already mentioned that “pointless” may have been the wrong word, but my beliefs is this thread isn’t reaching the audience she’s going for at all, so I think she’s wasting her time.

She’s preaching to the choir on this particular board.

Every thread on this board is open to criticism, and she is no different.

 

[black booty lover]

Don't you love how men make subjective comments in reply to subjective comments, and then call their subjective comments more logical than the other subjective comments? Truly inspiring how much confidence they have in the objectivity of their subjective comments. I need to channel this power of making myself the sole authority on subjective matters.

Can anyone make heads or tails of what this post was supposed to mean??

 

[massman]

Ugh. This has deteriorated to become a bit boring and increasingly irrelevant like many other threads. No need to perpetuate it.

 

[Meaning]

Gotta love how he said he's only engaging with this thread because he was being quoted. Now, nobody quotes him and he still won't stfu.

Clear intention to stymie and derail this thread.

 

[black booty lover]

Gotta love how he said he's only engaging with this thread because he was being quoted. Now, nobody quotes him and he still won't stfu.

Clear intention to stymie and derail this thread.

Sorry, maybe I should have mentioned posts that were directed at me as well. Happy there papi?

 

[Kusa]

Can anyone make heads or tails of what this post was supposed to mean??

Absolutely! It means add sugar, then more sugar, stir it for a while, then put more sugar and finally sugar...there you go.

 

[RLTF]

How to be a good client:
Show up on time. Present the envelope. Freshen up. Leave on time.

 

[Knuckle Ball]

Some of the responses in this thread are exactly the kinda things that a bad client would say.

Just saying.

 

[black booty lover]

I am not sure why you are so offended and consider this thread preaching. As a member of this forum she has a right to start threads, and if you think it is not meant to teach you anything, because you already know, you can just post a few words of support, because perhaps she has been having bad inquiries of late? (and those clients had to come from somewhere). I dont get why a thread posted by a provider has to be "useful" (as determined by you) and be relevant to the target audience (even though you have no actual data on who is or who isn't a bad client on here).

I'm not offended and I don't consider it "preaching". I'm not sure why people can't read. What I said was "in this particular forum, she's preaching to the choir". I'm basically trying to compliment all the guys on here because I believe the majority of guys here would never do anything as idiotic on her list. For God knows what reason, people like you post dumb shit like this trying debunk this theory and basically slap the other members in the face by implying that members here conduct themselves this way. Do I have data?? Of course not. I've been on the board for 17 years and seen what kind of guys on here, and despite fights and differences of opinions, when it comes to SP's they know how to treat them. The ones that don't treat SP's properly, are aware they're being jerks so they probably don't care. I'm not sure why this is so hard to sink in for some of you guys.

 

[black booty lover]

That is not my point though. I am saying a) You dont know that she is preaching to the choir. Maybe there are a few assholes on here that need to hear it. You dont even know who the majority of the guys here are in the first place. So that assertion itself, isn't logical. b) Even if there are no assholes on here per your original assertion, she can still make the post, in a way to talk about something that is on her mind.

Where is the need for this post of hers to be directed at someone needing to hear it? There isn't.

And for umpteenth time, she's free to post whatever she wants, but when you start a thread, you open yourself up to both positive and negative criticism. I do not believe there are "a few assholes on here that need to hear it". Those that are assholes are aware this and will continue to be assholes. That's my who point. I don't believe she's getting through to anyone that will be willing to take her advice, hence I think she's wasting her time. I have said a bunch of times the word "pointless" may have not been the right word, but I believe she's wasting her time. I made my point and moved on, but ya'll keep quoting me and so I keep having to repeat the same thing because so many of you just aren't getting it. Your are free to think this very insightful list is changing all kinds members attitudes and behaviors if you like, but even with no factual evidence, I'm extremely confident in my assertation it's not going to change a damn thing for her or any SP on here.

If one member puts up their hand with total honesty and says "oh glad to read about point #2 as I didn't realize insulting an escort was bad", then I'll retract my comments. (Pick whatever point you want I just picked #2 as that's the most absurd one)

 

[Valcazar]

Can anyone make heads or tails of what this post was supposed to mean??

Yes.
It's not very complicated or confusing.

 

[black booty lover]

As I said before, even if what you say is true:

Where is the need for this post of hers to be directed at someone needing to hear it? There simply isn't. Who determines this need? No one.

And I said, it's the organic nature of people to respond when you start a threads. That's the nature of dialogue. My opinion is that I don't think on this particular forum it's helpful to stat a thread that comes across like your lecturing decent guys on how to be decent guys.