How to be a bad client

[LC18]

Deposits is one of the most controversial topics on TERB, so if there's anything to argue about in this thread would be that, imho.

I, personally, dislike them because far too many hobbyists took a bullet. There's very little upside and much gambling involved with said deposits. Once you send the money, you're on the hook and are hoping for a good weather just like on TheWeatherNetwork.

All other points, I pretty much agree with. One word to help any hobbyist navigate IS RESPECT. Treat all human beings with respect and you may find yourself in a better place, especially in any given session.

Then if you wanted to be a good client you’d simply see someone who doesn’t require a deposit

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

So because there are countless other threads on the board that are pointless, I'm supposed not comment on the ones I think fall into that category?? Ultimately, commenting on threads and expressing your opinions is part of the nature of online forums. "Pointless" may not have even been the right word. I just meant that I don't think she's reaching her target audience posting this here. In fact, I don't think she's reaching anyone at all. If she think she is, she's free to keep posting all she wants, but I just think she's wasting her time. If there was an online forum where all the respected reputable escorts hung out just to chat, I wouldn't start a thread telling them "how to be a good escort". I would be preaching to the choir. If there was a way for me to reach some of the bottom feeding scamming misfits on LL that possibly lurk on other platforms, might be worth posting something a message like that on those platforms. Anyway, seeing as you find this thread so helpful, I'll move on and let you ingest all the amazing pointers your getting from it.

Well this forum could be utilized as a how to be a good escort and avoid the bad clients /what to look for in an escort and client relationship /how to identify those with dark triad traits etc.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Fair enough. And as you say you know the industry way better. I’d never argue that. Just pointing out that there are probably very few guys in this day and age, who find escorts via the internet (and lets be honest, these days it’s the only way) in the GTA who don’t know about TERB, and many of those have browsed this site for research purposes.

And BTW I do enjoy your contributions here abd don’t think they are at all pointless.

The internet is the website they post the phone number and email though …
don’t tell me you think people cruise Jarvis street still ?

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Quite likely I will put up a post on how to be a Good SP...It will start like this "Don't keep us waiting outside for long outside, I am not visiting a hospital...I paid for each minute". Stay tuned...

I hereby sentence you to one day of riding the TTC on a winter day

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Wow, you're coming up on your 25th anniversary. Do they give you a a pack of gold condoms for your dedicated years of service?

Skyn condoms are black and gold

 

[explorerzip]

Skyn condoms are black and gold

Actually, silver condoms are more appropriate for his 25th terb anniversary. Gold is for the 50th anniversary

 

[explorerzip]

The internet is the website they post the phone number and email though …
don’t tell me you think people cruise Jarvis street still ?

I think he meant to say: "Just pointing out that there are probably very few guys in this day and age, who don't find escorts via the internet (and lets be honest, these days it’s the only way) in the GTA who don’t know about TERB, and many of those have browsed this site for research purposes.

 

[black booty lover]

It's interesting that you think that I'm telling you not to comment at all. It's also funny that you started your earlier point with: "Not trying to sound rude here.." like you were trying to avoid blow back.



I do know how this forum works as I've been on it for about 18 years, which is a year longer than you. I guess that means my words carries more weight than yours. The membership start date is meaningless because there are people with much older accounts yet post much less. I am trying to sound rude, so do you realize how silly you look when you brag that you've been here for 17 years and somehow have the pulse of the board? Even if you did surveys on how the countless guys on this forum or LL think about this topic, then I'd also say you wasted your time.



There's no need to backpedal. Telling someone their post is pointless or they're wasting their time is nearly the same thing. Did the OP break any board rules by "preaching to the choir" or wasting their time? I don't get why you felt the need waste your own time to call out the OP for supposedly doing the same. The reality is that we're all wasting time by being on this forum. There are so many other things we can and should be doing.

I've wasted my own time trying to discuss this with you so I'll leave it there.

Didn't even read this response FYI. I told you I was moving on...lol, but I encourage you to keep reading this thread as this is great reading material. Hope it helps educate you so you can be a good client. There's some really helpful advice like "don't insult her". I mean thank god that was posted because I would have thought that was totally acceptable.

 

[Mr.Gr33k]

Then if you wanted to be a good client you’d simply see someone who doesn’t require a deposit

I will respectfully disagree with you on this.

Majority of the providers who require a deposit will also list an alternative such as a forum handle, ID/LinkedIn or references. This gives options and flexibility, and is the best approach imo.

Very few providers stick to Deposit Only policy. And even then, nothing is trully written in stone. Over the last few years I personally reached out to a couple of such providers via TERB DM and inquired, nicely, if perhaps a reference from another well known provider would suffice. If not, then no hard feelings and best wishes. I have only done it twice in the last few years and both providers responded by making an appointment right away. Both of those times I had a great time and have repeated with 1 of them. By asking I simply provided an option which was accepted both times. That didn't make me a bad client as per your statement.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I will respectfully disagree with you on this.

Majority of the providers who require a deposit will also list an alternative such as a forum handle, ID/LinkedIn or references. This gives options and flexibility, and is the best approach imo.

Very few providers stick to Deposit Only policy. And even then, nothing is trully written in stone. Over the last few years I personally reached out to a couple of such providers via TERB DM and inquired, nicely, if perhaps a reference from another well known provider would suffice. If not, then no hard feelings and best wishes. I have only done it twice in the last few years and both providers responded by making an appointment right away. Both of those times I had a great time and have repeated with 1 of them. By asking I simply provided an option which was accepted both times. That didn't make me a bad client as per your statement.

The first part isn't a provider who requires a deposit, it is a provider with multiple forms of screening.

The second, I would have replied that deposits are mandatory and I'm getting the vibe you wouldn't be happy with that and would try to convince me that you're somehow special so I should make an exception for you. Which wouldn't happen. Even my regulars part deposits because I'm not spending a minute of my time getting ready for an appointment that I won't get compensated for if you cancel. The deposit at least covers my prep time if you cancel or no show.

 

[Mr.Gr33k]

The first part isn't a provider who requires a deposit, it is a provider with multiple forms of screening.

The second, I would have replied that deposits are mandatory and I'm getting the vibe you wouldn't be happy with that and would try to convince me that you're somehow special so I should make an exception for you. Which wouldn't happen. Even my regulars part deposits because I'm not spending a minute of my time getting ready for an appointment that I won't get compensated for if you cancel. The deposit at least covers my prep time if you cancel or no show.

Whatever vibe you're getting is your assumptions.

Thank you for explaining the difference between providers who require a deposit to feel safe their time isn't wasted and those who use it as an option for screening. I didn't realize there was a distinction between two.

 

[black booty lover]

It's interesting that you think that I'm telling you not to comment at all. It's also funny that you started your earlier point with: "Not trying to sound rude here.." like you were trying to avoid blow back.



I do know how this forum works as I've been on it for about 18 years, which is a year longer than you. I guess that means my words carries more weight than yours. The membership start date is meaningless because there are people with much older accounts yet post much less. I am trying to sound rude, so do you realize how silly you look when you brag that you've been here for 17 years and somehow have the pulse of the board? Even if you did surveys on how the countless guys on this forum or LL think about this topic, then I'd also say you wasted your time.



There's no need to backpedal. Telling someone their post is pointless or they're wasting their time is nearly the same thing. Did the OP break any board rules by "preaching to the choir" or wasting their time? I don't get why you felt the need waste your own time to call out the OP for supposedly doing the same. The reality is that we're all wasting time by being on this forum. There are so many other things we can and should be doing.

I've wasted my own time trying to discuss this with you so I'll leave it there.

Seeing as you find this thread so fruitful, despite not being an SP myself I decided I would add a few things to the bad and good comprehensive list for you:

1)Bringing gifts such a chocolate, wine is considered okay. That is GOOD!
2) Showing up on time. This also considered GOOD!
3) Not mandatory, but leaving a tip is also considered good. This is okay the the SP will not get mad at you for this.

1)Telling her she doesn't look good or having a bad hair day. Do not do this. They don't like it. This is considered bad.
2)Making them like their profession is morally wrong. Despite the fact you would be doing something morally wrong by paying for their services, do not make them feel this way. They don't like it. You will considered a "bad client".
3)Do not request bareback sex. This is very bad. This definitely puts you on "bad client" list.

I figured since there's so many TERB members that don't know this, I would pitch in my two cents. These are just a few off the top of my head. If I can think of anymore I'll add them for ya.

 

[explorerzip]

Seeing as you find this thread so fruitful, despite not being an SP myself I decided I would add a few things to the bad and good comprehensive list for you:

1)Bringing gifts such a chocolate, wine is considered okay. That is GOOD!
2) Showing up on time. This also considered GOOD!
3) Not mandatory, but leaving a tip is also considered good. This is okay the the SP will not get mad at you for this.

1)Telling her she doesn't look good or having a bad hair day. Do not do this. They don't like it. This is considered bad.
2)Making them like their profession is morally wrong. Despite the fact you would be doing something morally wrong by paying for their services, do not make them feel this way. They don't like it. You will considered a "bad client".
3)Do not request bareback sex. This is very bad. This definitely puts you on "bad client" list.

I figured since there's so many TERB members that don't know this, I would pitch in my two cents. These are just a few off the top of my head. If I can think of anymore I'll add them for ya.

Didn't even read this response FYI. I told you I was moving on...lol, but I encourage you to keep reading this thread as this is great reading material. Hope it helps educate you so you can be a good client. There's some really helpful advice like "don't insult her". I mean thank god that was posted because I would have thought that was totally acceptable.

So you didn't read my response, but now you're reading my response? Weren't you moving on?

 

[black booty lover]

So you didn't read my response, but now you're reading my response? Weren't you moving on?

Who said I read your response??? I did read this one though because it was short and wanted to see if my tips helped you at all. I mean they're as useful as the ones in the first post so I thought I would ad them.

 

[explorerzip]

Who said I read your response??? I did read this one though because it was short and wanted to see if my tips helped you at all. I mean they're as useful as the ones in the first post so I thought I would ad them.

I was good to leave you be when you said you didn't read my response, but you still came back to quote me for some reason

 

[black booty lover]

I was good to leave you be when you said you didn't read my response, but you still came back to quote me for some reason

I just explained this to you. I wanted to see if my tips helped you all. You and so many members on TERB don't know that you shouldn't insult an escort or have bad hygiene and things of this nature, so now I'm really curious to see how we can help you avoid being a bad client.

 

[explorerzip]

I just explained this to you. I wanted to see if my tips helped you all. You and so many members on TERB don't know that you shouldn't insult an escort or have bad hygiene and things of this nature, so now I'm really curious to see how we can help you avoid being a bad client.

I sadly cannot help you if this is what you think of other people.

 

[black booty lover]

I sadly cannot help you if this is what you think of other people.

I don't think this of other people. That's my whole point. You others apparently do. That's the whole basis of your argument.

 

[LC18]

All you do is lecture this board.

Who?

 

[Meaning]

Gang of butthurt, terrible clients showing themselves in this thread.

Let's parking lot the MORALLY RIGHT actions one should take when seeing a companion for the sake of the fact y'all are showing yourselves to be completely soulless & self interested.

The service & experience one receives is not composed of simply the companion and what they offer but is rather the reflection of you as the client. Lena is putting you on game foos - grab a pencil and take notes. Be better and receive better.

And if you can't do it because it's the right thing to do when sharing an intimate moment with another HUMAN, or for your own selfish endeavors, then fucken bounce from this thread and move along.