Travelling with a SP?

[dynomyte]

Reposting here as I put in the review section by mistake.


So I have an interesting dilemma. I have a trip for two booked for end of February to Cancun but the person I was going to go with can no longer go. It is a couple's resort so taking a buddy just doesnt seem right. I can cancel by the end of January and get 50% back but I was thinking what if I took an industry lady with me instead? Could be lots of fun and just what I might need.

Here is where I am looking for guidance. I have never travelled with an SP before and wonder if any of you have and what you might suggest or caution. Maybe it's a bad idea and I should just cut my losses? What would the approach be here?

 

[buwft]

Reposting here as I put in the review section by mistake.


So I have an interesting dilemma. I have a trip for two booked for end of February to Cancun but the person I was going to go with can no longer go. It is a couple's resort so taking a buddy just doesnt seem right. I can cancel by the end of January and get 50% back but I was thinking what if I took an industry lady with me instead? Could be lots of fun and just what I might need.

Here is where I am looking for guidance. I have never travelled with an SP before and wonder if any of you have and what you might suggest or caution. Maybe it's a bad idea and I should just cut my losses? What would the approach be here?

mature Summer wanted me to take her to mexico till I told her the wife wouldn't be pleased

 

[Aleeeee]

Reposting here as I put in the review section by mistake.


So I have an interesting dilemma. I have a trip for two booked for end of February to Cancun but the person I was going to go with can no longer go. It is a couple's resort so taking a buddy just doesnt seem right. I can cancel by the end of January and get 50% back but I was thinking what if I took an industry lady with me instead? Could be lots of fun and just what I might need.

Here is where I am looking for guidance. I have never travelled with an SP before and wonder if any of you have and what you might suggest or caution. Maybe it's a bad idea and I should just cut my losses? What would the approach be here?

i dont think i would do that unless its a girl you have seen PLENTY of times and you are SURE she is not crazy or evil ! I wouldnt take the chance

 

[blacklabdog]

I've done it. We agreed first what expectations were for both. I knew beforehand we were compatible in a social setting tho we hadn't has a huge number of sessions prior

Remember it requires each will know each other's real name

 

[dynomyte]

Good point about the names and, of course, I would want to be familiar with the companion beforehand to have some sense that we could make it work. I would assume that the companion would be more concerned about the name than I would but who knows?

 

[dynomyte]

I wonder if any companions that sees this thread would comment on their experiences if they have any or their thoughts/concerns from their POV that I should consider before approaching a companion about this.

 

[ThundercatsHo]

Having had an extensive conversation and logistical chat as prep for this before the pandemic (didn’t revisit between passage of time and horrendous inflation) BlackLab is totally right - ground rules and expectations. Many of the most legitimate companions with a website or X presence lay out what is required in terms of independent time and “beauty sleep”. You sure as heck don’t want to drop north of $4k for a week to despise one another after 2 days and still need to share a room and meals. Given the sunk cost plus companion expense I’d expect if you go in expecting nothing and treating it for chats and laughs over drinks the companion cost will have the potential to bear sweeter fruit. Just my 2 cents

Thunder…Thunder…Thunder Cats Ho!!!

 

[dynomyte]

Having had an extensive conversation and logistical chat as prep for this before the pandemic (didn’t revisit between passage of time and horrendous inflation) BlackLab is totally right - ground rules and expectations. Many of the most legitimate companions with a website or X presence lay out what is required in terms of independent time and “beauty sleep”. You sure as heck don’t want to drop north of $4k for a week to despise one another after 2 days and still need to share a room and meals. Given the sunk cost plus companion expense I’d expect if you go in expecting nothing and treating it for chats and laughs over drinks the companion cost will have the potential to bear sweeter fruit. Just my 2 cents

Thunder…Thunder…Thunder Cats Ho!!!

That's exactly the mindset. Just get away and re-energize with a lady who can roll with things well and likes to have a little fun along the way. Laying out the ground rules and having expectations made clear beforehand certainly seems important.

 

[japs]

I've done it. We agreed first what expectations were for both. I knew beforehand we were compatible in a social setting tho we hadn't has a huge number of sessions prior

Remember it requires each will know each other's real name

Just wondering what expectations ended up being for you guys…

 

[Aleeeee]

Imagine if she put stuff in your luggage while you are there ! Never would do something like that

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

Reposting here as I put in the review section by mistake.


So I have an interesting dilemma. I have a trip for two booked for end of February to Cancun but the person I was going to go with can no longer go. It is a couple's resort so taking a buddy just doesnt seem right. I can cancel by the end of January and get 50% back but I was thinking what if I took an industry lady with me instead? Could be lots of fun and just what I might need.

Here is where I am looking for guidance. I have never travelled with an SP before and wonder if any of you have and what you might suggest or caution. Maybe it's a bad idea and I should just cut my losses? What would the approach be here?

So firstly I think it can be great BUT MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A CONNECTION PRIOR TO GOING!!!

it would be a horrible and awkward time if you two did not get along.

if you are going to reach out to someone I would provide ALL DETAILS for date (to and from) etc

I am just assuming but most SP will require screening & deposit for something like this…

a lot of people have travel rates on their websites or mention to email them for travel/FMTY requests

Hope you have a great trip though & I vote bring a hot girl with you

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

I wonder if any companions that sees this thread would comment on their experiences if they have any or their thoughts/concerns from their POV that I should consider before approaching a companion about this.

I have traveled and done longer dates with some clients…

1- I required two types of screening (to know their real name & reference)
2- we had to have met prior (for dates longer than 24h)
3- I signed NDAs with a couple of them for my privacy and their (but not always as sometimes I didn’t need to identify myself, flights different times etc)

I am happy to answer more questions in my DMs if you want

 

[ThundercatsHo]

I have traveled and done longer dates with some clients…

1- I required two types of screening (to know their real name & reference)
2- we had to have met prior (for dates longer than 24h)
3- I signed NDAs with a couple of them for my privacy and their (but not always as sometimes I didn’t need to identify myself, flights different times etc)

I am happy to answer more questions in my DMs if you want

^THIS
She is a legend, and you may very well know this already, but here is your wealth of knowledge who is articulate, thorough, and a true sounding board.

The NDA would be a valuable tool and truly indicative of a companion who seems to be in it for right and honest reasons. Have a good time and let the chemistry flow. No one should expect to come back with any more than what you left but perhaps a little better friend within the hobby dynamic

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

This reminded me of something that happened a while ago.

https://www.cnn.com/2014/12/18/travel/canada-ex-girlfriend-world-trip/index.html

Maybe post it on reddit or twitter/X that you can sponsor an all expenses paid trip for one lucky lady. I'm guessing a lot of civil women would be interested.

If it's SP you prefer then why not do some research and try the local cuisine and save yourself a lot of $.

 

[cck]

I have traveled and done longer dates with some clients…

1- I required two types of screening (to know their real name & reference)
2- we had to have met prior (for dates longer than 24h)
3- I signed NDAs with a couple of them for my privacy and their (but not always as sometimes I didn’t need to identify myself, flights different times etc)

I am happy to answer more questions in my DMs if you want

Just wondering what something like that would cost per day?

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

Just wondering what something like that would cost per day?

Everyone is different

some may offer discounts for regulars or to go to a location they want to visit badly, but I can’t speak for others

 

[honeybear69]

This reminded me of something that happened a while ago.

https://www.cnn.com/2014/12/18/travel/canada-ex-girlfriend-world-trip/index.html

Maybe post it on reddit or twitter/X that you can sponsor an all expenses paid trip for one lucky lady. I'm guessing a lot of civil women would be interested.

If it's SP you prefer then why not do some research and try the local cuisine and save yourself a lot of $.

Yeah but imagine, that you would have to get to know the person before hand even if it is a Civi you found on reddit. So now you are seeing the person a few times before you go to get to know them. Then you realize that they are not exactly who you wanted to spend all that time with for a week. Or you realized that she is still married or a host of other "issues" come up.....and she last minute cancels. IF you have the money and realize that if you go with a "companion" there are a lot of hoops and regulations you will need to deal with. I think IF this is more than just fanciful chitchat I would reach our to Nadia, if she doesn't mind (maybe buy something from her wishtender as a thank you for her time to answer your questions???) and ask a few questions. Also like what was posted above go to a high-end provider online's website and there a lot of them spell out rules and regulations of spending long periods of time with them. I remember one posted a long time ago I think she was from TO and basically said, we spend 8 hours a day together the rest of the time is my personal time. Which sorta makes sense.....but you are paying for their whole trip, plus the whole 7 days, transfers, so you would need deep pockets or big inheritance from Mom and Dad. Mind you having Nadia on your arm at a tropical resort for a week away.....that is stuff that dreams are made of!!
HB69......was here?!?!?

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I've done it. We agreed first what expectations were for both. I knew beforehand we were compatible in a social setting tho we hadn't has a huge number of sessions prior

Remember it requires each will know each other's real name

No it doesn’t … this is assuming though you are travelling together but maybe checking in separately or on different flight and maybe a separate room. the agencies have suggestions on how to do this to protect both.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Having had an extensive conversation and logistical chat as prep for this before the pandemic (didn’t revisit between passage of time and horrendous inflation) BlackLab is totally right - ground rules and expectations. Many of the most legitimate companions with a website or X presence lay out what is required in terms of independent time and “beauty sleep”. You sure as heck don’t want to drop north of $4k for a week to despise one another after 2 days and still need to share a room and meals. Given the sunk cost plus companion expense I’d expect if you go in expecting nothing and treating it for chats and laughs over drinks the companion cost will have the potential to bear sweeter fruit. Just my 2 cents

Thunder…Thunder…Thunder Cats Ho!!!

Definitely helps to Do an overnight first before longer vacation. im thinking what if someone snores and such. we all need good sleep to be somewhat our minimum functioning selves. Or if someone likes sleeping warm and the other cold. Or general anxiety or sleep
disorders. Plus protecting items of value or identity

 

[blacklabdog]

No it doesn’t … this is assuming though you are travelling together but maybe checking in separately or on different flight and maybe a separate room. the agencies have suggestions on how to do this to protect both.

Separate flights and room , what's the point then?