How late is too late to reply?

[LC18]

Inspired by a thread from a merb user saying a SP texted him 3 weeks after he initially contacted her.

How late is too late to reply to an inquiry? For privacy, concerns I understand that anytime I reply to someone, there’s a chance that someone else might see the notification.

Realistically, I cannot always answer right away as I have a life and I’m not on my phone 24/7.

 

[stinkynuts]

Three hours max. If the customer doesn’t hear from you, he will probably message you again at his convenience

 

[Knuckle Ball]

I think it depends on how far in advance the client is booking. When I reach out to an SP I usually state the date and time frame I am looking to book and ask if the SP will be available.

So…if I text the sp and ask if she is available later that afternoon then there is no point in her texting me back later that evening. On the other hand, if I am looking to book some time during the next day then texting me the evening before (or even that morning) is fine…but not 3 weeks later lol.

 

[shack]

Realistically, I cannot always answer right away as I have a life and I’m not on my phone 24/7.

I'm sure that you have a chance to at least peak at your phone every 3-4 hours. If it's a straight forward inquiry that involves a short answer you can reply right away.

If it's not so straightforward, you can still reply saying I'm occupied but I'll get back to you.....and you tell them your time frame.

 

[massman]

Inspired by a thread from a merb user saying a SP texted him 3 weeks after he initially contacted her.

How late is too late to reply to an inquiry? For privacy, concerns I understand that anytime I reply to someone, there’s a chance that someone else might see the notification.

Realistically, I cannot always answer right away as I have a life and I’m not on my phone 24/7.

This is why I prefer email for communication with sps, it can be asynchronous. Except if I was looking for something short notice, then I’d use text, but I rarely am.
I agree with the others though. 2-3h max. If he hasn’t heard from you and still is interested, he will message again.

 

[LC18]

I'm sure that you have a chance to at least peak at your phone every 3-4 hours. If it's a straight forward inquiry that involves a short answer you can reply right away.

If it's not so straightforward, you can still reply saying I'm occupied but I'll get back to you.....and you tell them your time frame.

I don’t carry my work phone with me so I can’t take my text messages only emails

 

[escortsxxx]

I don’t carry my work phone with me so I can’t take my text messages only emails

Here infinite. I guess it depends on the medium. 24 hours is right, Auto response might be best To express the concern. I will not be able to reply for Hours or days Please contact me again If you wish me to Contact you

 

[thumper18474]

If I'm free to play..I'll message a lady with a time in mind.
If I here back ..it's a go
If it's past my playtime window..It's a sorry But my window to play closed and ..I just won't play that day...
Sometimes if my day is wide open.. I will contact 3 or 4 and go with the 1st one to get back to me...Then The others get the...sorry I booked with someone else

 

[NotADcotor]

I once got an email 6 months later. Her reply had no reference to the time gap at all.

 

[Bobzilla]

Since I'm single & don't need to worry about anyone seeing my texts, I usually include something that says "just so you know, you can text back anytime to this number". A couple of ladies haven't understood why I've included that & questioned me on it, lol.

Apart from that, I would say that 3-4 hrs max would be fine unless the dude is trying to set something up prior to that time.

 

[Jenesis]

I'm sure that you have a chance to at least peak at your phone every 3-4 hours. If it's a straight forward inquiry that involves a short answer you can reply right away.

If it's not so straightforward, you can still reply saying I'm occupied but I'll get back to you.....and you tell them your time frame.

This is not always the case. My work phone is a second physical phone. I don’t have it around 24/7. Guys don’t care when ads were posted. They contact when they see them. This is why ladies often hide their LL ads.

NVM - just realized this was just said.

Here infinite. I guess it depends on the medium. 24 hours is right, Auto response might be best To express the concern. I will not be able to reply for Hours or days Please contact me again If you wish me to Contact you

Auto response for text only works if the person is in your contacts. Which most escorts don’t keep contacts and new clients would not get the message.

 

[LC18]

Auto response for text only works if the person is in your contacts. Which most escorts don’t keep contacts and new clients would not get the message.

If you use WhatsApp business, you can set an automated response for new contacts but I don’t recommend using it in this line of work. They’ll suspend your account

 

[xix]

Well, I think we sort of covered this.
But what if the shoes were reverse in a parallel world.

What if you ladies called,, to see a men. How long is to long for you as to the time to respond to you?

Mind you Japanese business women are doing this already.