Sugar Dating Experience

[Big John]

Just an update with my experience. She is 26 hot gorgeous nursing student, I am a 50+ OG married forever! The costs were: 3 lunches $220 + day hotel $140 + Gifts $120(No cash requested) = $480. Over that period we spent about 7 hours together. She was horny, so the sex was fantastic(sloppy bj, multiple positions, 69, daty, all of it!) without a condom(I'm snipped) and she considered me 'clean'(I know, I KNOW...stupid, Stupid, STUPID!!) It was fun, BUT...the time management and risk of getting caught was nerve racking and exciting(more nerve racking!) As a result, although it was fantastic, I will not dip into the sugar bowl again. She is not dramatic at all, but my time away from my SO had to be so calculated and although the fact a much younger woman wanted to have sex with me(satisfying my curiosity and ego), overall it just isn't worth the risk. I think this exercise served its purpose(Could I find a literal stranger girl, somehow convince her to have sex, for a nominal fee) I did that. It was great. Didn't feel right or possible going forward. I have business travel plans and will meet her briefly to let her know and give her some $$ to show appreciation because I'm a kind hearted sucker. Fuck, I hope she didn't really fall for me..lol

Escorts are easier and better for time management with about an hour total which can easily be done.

I wanted to share, as the thrill and ego boost were great but offset by the risks of getting caught and ruining my relationship etc...with my SO. I proved it can be done affordably with persistence! Maybe others on this journey will find this somewhat useful or think, what a stupid idiot...lol

Carry on..

Now imagine a single version of yourself met this young beautiful lady...and you can understand those of us that are single who have shared positive experiences here and laugh at the haters who claim it's impossible and we are making our experiences up.

...and the married ones who are able to get away enough to match what we single gentlemen enjoy.

 

[Bobbblitz004]

Just an update with my experience. She is 26 hot gorgeous nursing student, I am a 50+ OG married forever! The costs were: 3 lunches $220 + day hotel $140 + Gifts $120(No cash requested) = $480. Over that period we spent about 7 hours together. She was horny, so the sex was fantastic(sloppy bj, multiple positions, 69, daty, all of it!) without a condom(I'm snipped) and she considered me 'clean'(I know, I KNOW...stupid, Stupid, STUPID!!) It was fun, BUT...the time management and risk of getting caught was nerve racking and exciting(more nerve racking!) As a result, although it was fantastic, I will not dip into the sugar bowl again. She is not dramatic at all, but my time away from my SO had to be so calculated and although the fact a much younger woman wanted to have sex with me(satisfying my curiosity and ego), overall it just isn't worth the risk. I think this exercise served its purpose(Could I find a literal stranger girl, somehow convince her to have sex, for a nominal fee) I did that. It was great. Didn't feel right or possible going forward. I have business travel plans and will meet her briefly to let her know and give her some $$ to show appreciation because I'm a kind hearted sucker. Fuck, I hope she didn't really fall for me..lol

Escorts are easier and better for time management with about an hour total which can easily be done.

I wanted to share, as the thrill and ego boost were great but offset by the risks of getting caught and ruining my relationship etc...with my SO. I proved it can be done affordably with persistence! Maybe others on this journey will find this somewhat useful or think, what a stupid idiot...lol

Carry on..

Send her my way brother!

 

[Fornication]

Now imagine a single version of yourself met this young beautiful lady...and you can understand those of us that are single who have shared positive experiences here and laugh at the haters who claim it's impossible and we are making our experiences up.

...and the married ones who are able to get away enough to match what we single gentlemen enjoy.

Yes, it was awesome! I get the thrill of the hunt !! Just feel the clock is always ticking when with her and I’m kinda of looking over my shoulder.

Also, another thing single guys have is more intuition. As we were leaving the first date, she kept asking me ‘let me drive me to you car’(as we were in different lots), I said no, no it’s ok, I’m 2 min walk(also wanted to protect my identity). She told me she wanted to do untoward things in her car with me after date one!…my antenna is broken obviously

 

[dchoye]

Sad. I have a 28 yo slim Latina who has to leave Canada. She was here on a visitor visa
Would not be able too see again
Tight pussy No tats. Drama free and available given few days notice and usually spend 3-8 hours with me. Dinners, walks, showers together, more passionate sex than I experienced
Cost was 300 per visit + occasional dinner + occasional gift.
One time I had to cancel a date cause of bad cold and she responds by saying she can come over and try to nurse me to health. What a companion!
Definitely feels more GF experience than any session with an escort

 

[Fornication]

Sad. I have a 28 yo slim Latina who has to leave Canada. She was here on a visitor visa
Would not be able too see again
Tight pussy No tats. Drama free and available given few days notice and usually spend 3-8 hours with me. Dinners, walks, showers together, more passionate sex than I experienced
Cost was 300 per visit + occasional dinner + occasional gift.
One time I had to cancel a date cause of bad cold and she responds by saying she can come over and try to nurse me to health. What a companion!
Definitely feels more GF experience than any session with an escort

That really sucks bro. The emotional connection is very real. It is impossible to remain impartial in these relationships. Good luck finding a new companion

 

[Bobbybacala]

IKR?! I saw a 22 year old as well and would give her 200 each time we met up. Blonde, super hot (I mean beyond hot), 5'10. I'm sure wherever she goes if she walks in a room literally every guy's jaw drops to the floor. Toned perfect body. Long legs, hips with amazing thigh gap and DD breasts that hang perfectly like tear drops. And I swear the tightest kitty ever. Unfortunately she for sure had issues but I'll always remember sliding into her from behind and she turned her head and say F me baby. So damn hot.

What website do I find these

 

[Bobbybacala]

IKR?! I saw a 22 year old as well and would give her 200 each time we met up. Blonde, super hot (I mean beyond hot), 5'10. I'm sure wherever she goes if she walks in a room literally every guy's jaw drops to the floor. Toned perfect body. Long legs, hips with amazing thigh gap and DD breasts that hang perfectly like tear drops. And I swear the tightest kitty ever. Unfortunately she for sure had issues but I'll always remember sliding into her from behind and she turned her head and say F me baby. So damn hot.

Send her my way lol

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Sad. I have a 28 yo slim Latina who has to leave Canada. She was here on a visitor visa
Would not be able too see again
Tight pussy No tats. Drama free and available given few days notice and usually spend 3-8 hours with me. Dinners, walks, showers together, more passionate sex than I experienced
Cost was 300 per visit + occasional dinner + occasional gift.
One time I had to cancel a date cause of bad cold and she responds by saying she can come over and try to nurse me to health. What a companion!
Definitely feels more GF experience than any session with an escort

So marry her!

 

[Hipjdog]

From my limited experience with the SD scene, here's what I look for:

• Girls who live locally.
• Girls who have been on the site for a few weeks or months, NOT one day or three years.
• Girls who have multiple pictures on their profile, ideally with Toronto landmarks.
• Girls who can write in complete sentences and mention non-sexual interests.
• Girls who get back to you within 24 hours.
• Girls who ask you actual questions about yourself and are concerned about their own safety.
• Girls who don't use language about being 'spoiled'.
• Girls who mention what THEY will be bringing to the arrangement, not just what they want.
• Girls who are willing to meet up within the next few days.

 

[Leimonis]

From my limited experience with the SD scene, here's what I look for:

• Girls who live locally.
• Girls who have been on the site for a few weeks or months, NOT one day or three years.
• Girls who have multiple pictures on their profile, ideally with Toronto landmarks.
• Girls who can write in complete sentences and mention non-sexual interests.
• Girls who get back to you within 24 hours.
• Girls who ask you actual questions about yourself and are concerned about their own safety.
• Girls who don't use language about being 'spoiled'.
• Girls who mention what THEY will be bringing to the arrangement, not just what they want.
• Girls who are willing to meet up within the next few days.

I largely agree with the above but at the same time imho all of those are shots in the dark.
For example, one of my red flags is when a girl responds to you but you can see that she hasn’t bothered to look at your profile. And yet one girl who turned out to be one of my best SBs of all times totally never looked and when I asked her (after I fucked her) she said something to the effect: why look when everyone just lies there.
to me it’s incredibly dumb but to them it somehow makes sense

 

[dvous11]

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[FunInToronto2023]

From my limited experience with the SD scene, here's what I look for:

• Girls who live locally.
• Girls who have been on the site for a few weeks or months, NOT one day or three years.
• Girls who have multiple pictures on their profile, ideally with Toronto landmarks.
• Girls who can write in complete sentences and mention non-sexual interests.
• Girls who get back to you within 24 hours.
• Girls who ask you actual questions about yourself and are concerned about their own safety.
• Girls who don't use language about being 'spoiled'.
• Girls who mention what THEY will be bringing to the arrangement, not just what they want.
• Girls who are willing to meet up within the next few days.

Excellent list! Also add to the multiple pictures point that if you see a profile with only 1 photo, it's usually a red flag

 

[Fornication]

From my limited experience with the SD scene, here's what I look for:

• Girls who live locally.
• Girls who have been on the site for a few weeks or months, NOT one day or three years.
• Girls who have multiple pictures on their profile, ideally with Toronto landmarks.
• Girls who can write in complete sentences and mention non-sexual interests.
• Girls who get back to you within 24 hours.
• Girls who ask you actual questions about yourself and are concerned about their own safety.
• Girls who don't use language about being 'spoiled'.
• Girls who mention what THEY will be bringing to the arrangement, not just what they want.
• Girls who are willing to meet up within the next few days.

How do you see how long they have been on the site ? I’m not using SA yet…

 

[Sugarsweet905]

How do you see how long they have been on the site ? I’m not using SA yet…

You will see a line in there profile that says "Member Since"

 

[Leimonis]

Excellent list! Also add to the multiple pictures point that if you see a profile with only 1 photo, it's usually a red flag

I think it’s time to develop a glossary or dictionary which would help new babies and daddies to navigate the sugar bowl.

for example:
Show me that you’re serious - I want freebies

Looking for a gentleman - minimum $800 for two hours

Looking for a real gentleman- $800 plus Uber

Classy - has a mirror selfie from a public restroom

Entrepreneur - recently started Onlyfans

Creative - recently started Onlyfans

Open minded - anal is still not included

etc etc

 

[RobI]

I see, but you must understand some ladies don't use photos that scream sex, but do or are open to it, they play games or don't want to make it obvious like in real life. Just approach if you are bold. Think of it like approaching women in a bar. Know what to say first, "hello"...

Yes, maybe that's worth a try, have you had any luck on Telegram here?

There are some accounts are looking to meet up, but when I got into the details it seemed very sketchy. That is they gave me an address and I knew there was nothing good at that place - I think the city converted it into a shelter a few years back lol

 

[RobI]

What website do I find these

There's a few, Seeking is the big one (though they seem to be rebranding as a meet-a-millionaire: Seeking ad: "I want to show you the Maldives", Me: "Maldives? I'll take you out for a few Mojitos" ), Sugar Daddy Meet is another one that's like Seeking, but a bit cheaper, and then there's Secret Benefits which uses this credit system I don't like much. Personally I've had most luck on SDM, but they're all free to join and look at pictures, but you can't start messaging the girls until you pay up.

I've also seen other guys post about meeting girls on Instagram, but that's a bit more work.

 

[xix]

I think and believe there is ( as there was in the physical past) now in the present is a bit of leg work to find a lady of the hour in a different way.

Historical fact?

Hear me out. Let's take the 70's. The only way you can find SP back then is word of mouth or Classifieds in the newspapers. Simple statement.
Back then you had to physically go and see for yourself.
Once that area was "raided", the SP's would move to another location. Then you had to start over again. That new area would pickup steam or more people and local people complaint to police and the raid would happen again, twice in the summer. The circle of life, it has been happening like this forever.

So the 80's took a twist and few elite people started using the BBS, Classifieds, newspaper and word of mouth still the same.
In the 90's Internet still some BBS, Classifieds, newspaper and word of mouth still the same.
Well mid 2015's or when smart phone came out BB, a paradigm shift, dating websites etc.
Now 2020's, google street view, Internet, Reviews, are new norm to the old BBS, Classifieds, newspaper and word of mouth still the same.
Once a medium has been chosen by the masses, prices seem to go up? or quality down? depends who you talk to and what you think. This is just an observation piece or writing no judgement.

So yes there are people who stay ahead of the curve because they don't want to be seen. And the middle group are people who use the common media to make contact.

You can apply this to Dating.
I also forgot that taverns, bars, clubs were around since the beginning of time till the 2015's it started to die down, thanks to Covid.

So how do you stay ahead of the curve?
My answer, going to new apps or less used apps, New social website, but ALOT patience's is required. So do you want it quick, pay for it, do you want to spend countless hours searching?
Also find the latest and newest thing to stay ahead.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Yes, maybe that's worth a try, have you had any luck on Telegram here?

There are some accounts are looking to meet up, but when I got into the details it seemed very sketchy. That is they gave me an address and I knew there was nothing good at that place - I think the city converted it into a shelter a few years back lol

Always trust your gut on those and just ignore them.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

There's a few, Seeking is the big one (though they seem to be rebranding as a meet-a-millionaire: Seeking ad: "I want to show you the Maldives", Me: "Maldives? I'll take you out for a few Mojitos" ), Sugar Daddy Meet is another one that's like Seeking, but a bit cheaper, and then there's Secret Benefits which uses this credit system I don't like much. Personally I've had most luck on SDM, but they're all free to join and look at pictures, but you can't start messaging the girls until you pay up.

I've also seen other guys post about meeting girls on Instagram, but that's a bit more work.

I'd say the re-brand for Seeking is just putting lipstick on a pig. In some ways it's not fair for new girls joining that they'll experience exotic adventures.
Not that they won't but most of us can't do that if we're married. And if not married, most of us will do this thing called "Actual Dating"