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An impersonal wham, bam , than you mam in more repeated way... also something that does not make it like mechanicial and clock watching..

how to verify SPs .. kitchener i only see leolist ads and most of them i cant verify..

As a novice to this hobby in middle of cross roads now..!!
I am surprised you can't find a SB when you have two universities next to you.
LL must be full of them.

Also go to Yoga for 8 weeks.

Read this

try "telegram" app
 

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SA died a few years ago. It’s full of expensive providers and a waste of time.
 

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SDM definitely has a smaller user base I tried it but don't remember how much I paid (if it was a credit system likely used it up really fast). I don't think seeking is that expensive. When I used it, both times I got a 33% off discount so it was about $90 and was able to fill my phone up with girls and tons of hookups. There was another site that did a credit system but it was a waste of time except for the odd girl who had a verified video (sorry don't remember the name) where you could tell if they were actually good looking or not (the only good thing about it).
Secret Benefits is the one with the crazy credit system. SDM is like Seeking, a monthly membership. Most of the full-time sugar babies (not the hookers, who also use these sites :) ) have profiles on at least two of these sites, so sometimes you can just message them on whichever platform is cheaper.
 

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SA died a few years ago. It’s full of expensive providers and a waste of time.
That's when they dropped the "Arrangement" from their name, I think they wanted to rebrand as more of a mainstream "elite dating" type site.

I wouldn't say they're dead, they're still the brand name for sugar dating, but there's more competition in North America and Asia.
 

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...The average guy will probably have to put out 500 a date and to answer your other question, I've had the most success in the 21-29 age group. All of this depends on how you present yourself (how old are you and how old do you look vs. your age? are you good looking? have a six pack? well spoken? actually a nice person who doesn't talk about themselves all date?) because if you're just going to show a photo with your stupid fancy car (I drive a stupid fancy car haha) as if that shows your worth, you'll attract a lot of girls on there for totally the wrong reasons. BTW those types all seem to look the same on the site, lip fillers, lots of makeup, thick, big fake eyelashes. I'm sure lots of guys like that but those are the profiles that most often also say 'buy me a handbag daddy'
100% about the "21-29 age group" :)
 

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Nice - do you post face pictures on your profile?
I'm trying to do a more discreet approach with sugaring tbh.
You could also use something like a headshot generator to produce images that aren't going to come back to you if someone runs TinyEye.

Basically, you upload a few photos of yourself and it creates "enhanced" headshots. Photos with just you in it seem to work best. The app they mention in the article is paid, but there are some free options as well.

 

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An impersonal wham, bam , than you mam in more repeated way... also something that does not make it like mechanicial and clock watching..

how to verify SPs .. kitchener i only see leolist ads and most of them i cant verify..

As a novice to this hobby in middle of cross roads now..!!
Sugaring is a good option where there's a local college/Uni and you have a bit of game - but honestly it's mostly a numbers game :)

I've pretty much given up on LeoList, it just seems about half are scammers and a bunch of links to SecretBenefits (don't recommend that site at all)
 
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not sure what you guys are talking about. When i search on seeking in the toronto area within 50km , i only see 2 pages most of them 30+ .age
and half of them have not logged in for months . this is the new reality of seeking
Something wrong there - maybe you got some filters on? If you do by recently online for the Toronto area I get a bunch, most in the 25-ish range.
 

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Some one here did when in Europe. Go to international section.

Go to post 10 and READ the WHOLE post.

Thanks, that's helpful over there. Telegram isn't that big here, unfortunately. I saw a post on using Instagram here too that might be another say of finding non-pros :)

 

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For guys new to sugaring, a couple of tips would be:

- search by recently active. Some girls create accounts and leave after a few days
- avoid anybody who is looking for "virtual/online/not ready to meet" - some are actually really new, but a lot are just looking to sell pictures
- If they ask for money upfront or eTransfers, avoid them. I've done Uber trips for people
- avoid "hooker language". Most of these girls will think you see escorts if you are talking about CIM, BBBJ, etc. Start off with how you'd speak to a regular girl you met on Bumble or Tinder.
- 20-28 is the sweet spot for suga*babies. Not to say there aren't some fun ladies you'll meet outside, but in my experience, this much older they can be jaded, younger they flake on meet-ups or are lying about their age
- Try not to piss the ladies off, especially on Seeking. They can get your account banned if the moderator feels like it. Just ignore it and move on.
 
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Thanks, that's helpful over there. Telegram isn't that big here, unfortunately. I saw a post on using Instagram here too that might be another say of finding non-pros :)

Ive met some Toronto girls who like to use Telegram. The like it because they can easily send self-destructing (disappearing) photos. You can also do video chat, so works well if one has iPhone the other Samsung.
 
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I remember my friend saying BB had a feature that tells you that there were other BB users near you. Which led to meeting or hooking up people.

I thought BB sued Google because there was an app that could this also.
But what about Whatsapp, can it tell you who is close to you? or Google chats?

I briefly read past these two wikipedia pages. IF there is a will there is away to get past $$$$.


 

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I decide to search for
"feature people near messaging apps"

To see what I get.

Apps with 'People nearby' feature
I like "hot or not" description / features
Hot or Not began as a rating site that allowed users to rate the attractiveness of photos submitted voluntarily by others. The site offers a matchmaking engine called 'Meet Me' and an extended profile feature called "Hotlists".

Top Apps like LINK - with people nearby for Android

Don't Use Telegram's New 'People Nearby' Feature

Be WARNED you are opening yourself up to danger. Read the last link.
 

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Ive met some Toronto girls who like to use Telegram. The like it because they can easily send self-destructing (disappearing) photos. You can also do video chat, so works well if one has iPhone the other Samsung.
That's true, I like it's got an auto delete-account feature too :)

I tried the "people near me", but there didn't seem to be much nearby.
 

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That's true, I like it's got an auto delete-account feature too :)

I tried the "people near me", but there didn't seem to be much nearby.
Time of day and location?
 

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North york, afternoon and evening - seems like a sausage fest mostly. There are 3-4 EE girls on, but they just look like normal glamour photos - nothing screams working girl
I see, but you must understand some ladies don't use photos that scream sex, but do or are open to it, they play games or don't want to make it obvious like in real life. Just approach if you are bold. Think of it like approaching women in a bar. Know what to say first, "hello"...
 
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