Ashley Madison

Sugar Dating Experience

TomFord1980

Well-known member
Jan 9, 2017
1,401
1,045
113
I'm curious to know how other people have experienced sugar dating.
I started doing it right before the pandemic... and I already don't even remember how many girls I've met up with.
I'm almost 50 and they've ranged in age from 20 to 50 with the 50 year old as well as a couple of others not even wanting any money, just a fun time.

I have a feeling that I might be better looking than most because I usually only pay a couple of hundred dollars each time we meet... and I think they like the fact that they can choose who they want to be with so it's not a SP situation.
I'm early 60's and I tried this in my mid 40's. Had 1 girl steal thousands from my home while i was sleeping after about 5 dates.

Another had a boyfriend who waited in the car while she serviced me then drove her home afterwards each time.

Stick to escorts.
 

frbase1

Active member
Nov 29, 2022
127
73
28
So what's the consensus these days on which site is the superior platform?
I checked out SDM recently and it seems decent and affordable but a smaller user base.
Seeking is still crazy expensive.
Have not really checked out the others tbh.
 

Leimonis

Well-known member
Feb 28, 2020
10,090
9,915
113
There is no consensus.
yes there is. Seeking is head and shoulders above others in terms of the sheer number of SBs. Hate it or embrace it (I do both lol).
 
Last edited:

FunInToronto2023

Well-known member
Jan 4, 2023
332
381
63
So what's the consensus these days on which site is the superior platform?
I checked out SDM recently and it seems decent and affordable but a smaller user base.
Seeking is still crazy expensive.
Have not really checked out the others tbh.
There is no consensus.

SDM definitely has a smaller user base I tried it but don't remember how much I paid (if it was a credit system likely used it up really fast). I don't think seeking is that expensive. When I used it, both times I got a 33% off discount so it was about $90 and was able to fill my phone up with girls and tons of hookups. There was another site that did a credit system but it was a waste of time except for the odd girl who had a verified video (sorry don't remember the name) where you could tell if they were actually good looking or not (the only good thing about it).
 

shack

Nitpicker Extraordinaire
Oct 2, 2001
53,471
11,639
113
Toronto
SDM definitely has a smaller user base I tried it but don't remember how much I paid (if it was a credit system likely used it up really fast). I don't think seeking is that expensive. When I used it, both times I got a 33% off discount so it was about $90 and was able to fill my phone up with girls and tons of hookups.
Right now SDM has a 3 month rate of $90-100.
 
  • Like
Reactions: RobI

frbase1

Active member
Nov 29, 2022
127
73
28
SDM definitely has a smaller user base I tried it but don't remember how much I paid (if it was a credit system likely used it up really fast). I don't think seeking is that expensive. When I used it, both times I got a 33% off discount so it was about $90 and was able to fill my phone up with girls and tons of hookups. There was another site that did a credit system but it was a waste of time except for the odd girl who had a verified video (sorry don't remember the name) where you could tell if they were actually good looking or not (the only good thing about it).
The site you are referencing with the verfiication video is SecretBenefits I believe.
Apparently it's also owned by SDM and the profiles are shared between platforms if I understand correctly.
The discount for seeking seems nice but if you only get it the one time, I guess you really have to make it count.

What would you guys say is the age range where you've had the most success?
I'm still new to the scene so I'm trying to figure out the best way to approach this.
How much should I expect to spend per meet?
 

Tha6ix

Member
Mar 30, 2021
29
29
13
The site you are referencing with the verfiication video is SecretBenefits I believe.
Apparently it's also owned by SDM and the profiles are shared between platforms if I understand correctly.
The discount for seeking seems nice but if you only get it the one time, I guess you really have to make it count.

What would you guys say is the age range where you've had the most success?
I'm still new to the scene so I'm trying to figure out the best way to approach this.
How much should I expect to spend per meet?
So far ive been on SA for a month now. I like my girls a little younger, around 20-25. So far ive hooked up with 5 sbs that ranged from 200-600. 1 actually bring a virgin. Tons of girls to select from. If someone had the time and money, you can probably have a date everyday. It's pretty wild what these girls are up for. I think my sp days are over. I'm having alot of fun sugaring.
 

frbase1

Active member
Nov 29, 2022
127
73
28
So far ive been on SA for a month now. I like my girls a little younger, around 20-25. So far ive hooked up with 5 sbs that ranged from 200-600. 1 actually bring a virgin. Tons of girls to select from. If someone had the time and money, you can probably have a date everyday. It's pretty wild what these girls are up for. I think my sp days are over. I'm having alot of fun sugaring.
Nice - do you post face pictures on your profile?
I'm trying to do a more discreet approach with sugaring tbh.
 

Bobbblitz004

Active member
Jul 3, 2022
147
178
43
Dude SA is garbage where are you seeing these girls? I have premium and it’s the same chicks is there a different tier here?
 

FunInToronto2023

Well-known member
Jan 4, 2023
332
381
63
The site you are referencing with the verfiication video is SecretBenefits I believe.
Apparently it's also owned by SDM and the profiles are shared between platforms if I understand correctly.
The discount for seeking seems nice but if you only get it the one time, I guess you really have to make it count.

What would you guys say is the age range where you've had the most success?
I'm still new to the scene so I'm trying to figure out the best way to approach this.
How much should I expect to spend per meet?
Yes that's right I remember that other site, didn't know they were both owned by the same company.
One thing to keep in mind is let's say you're paying $100/mo or a bit more for seeking. That's nothing really and don't lock into more than a monthly subscription in case you don't like it. If you're like me and addicted, just the dopamine of messaging and finding good looking girls that are from all backgrounds has been worth the entertainment. The anticipation of meeting and then when you meet if there's a spark, it's been really off the charts. I've had everything from free (yes some girls need to just be touched and wanted as well - and there are lots of them) to the most I ever spent for a date was 400. Ages for me have ranged from 19-50 it completely depends on the girl. The average guy will probably have to put out 500 a date and to answer your other question, I've had the most success in the 21-29 age group. All of this depends on how you present yourself (how old are you and how old do you look vs. your age? are you good looking? have a six pack? well spoken? actually a nice person who doesn't talk about themselves all date?) because if you're just going to show a photo with your stupid fancy car (I drive a stupid fancy car haha) as if that shows your worth, you'll attract a lot of girls on there for totally the wrong reasons. BTW those types all seem to look the same on the site, lip fillers, lots of makeup, thick, big fake eyelashes. I'm sure lots of guys like that but those are the profiles that most often also say 'buy me a handbag daddy'
 

Tha6ix

Member
Mar 30, 2021
29
29
13
I
I have to admit, seeking does look a bit sparse lately. I'm holding on to all my fav. bitches, out of concern that I might not be able to replenish 😟
I just renewed my month. Still lots of fish in the sea. Have a new date Monday and Thursday. Let's see how it goes
 

xix

Time Zone Traveller
Jul 27, 2002
4,354
1,507
113
La la land
I have to admit, seeking does look a bit sparse lately. I'm holding on to all my fav. bitches, out of concern that I might not be able to replenish 😟
Maybe these women made so much money that now is the time for them to travel for cheap.

They will be return for some more.
 

luvkush007.85

New member
Jan 15, 2023
7
9
3
Maybe these women made so much money that now is the time for them to travel for cheap.

They will be return for some more.
I am just starting on this hobby, Seeking asking to validate with ID and expensive.. have you guys done that, is it safe to verify ur identity for these sites?

SDM has limited options and SB is full of fake and bots.. is this really worth or better to develop hobby with escorts.. again kitchner does not have agencies and very limited trusted options.
 

shack

Nitpicker Extraordinaire
Oct 2, 2001
53,471
11,639
113
Toronto
is this really worth or better to develop hobby with escorts.. again kitchner does not have agencies and very limited trusted options.
It depends on what type of experience you're looking for.

An impersonal wham, bam, thank you ma'am with a pro or something more similar to dating?
 
  • Like
Reactions: RobI

luvkush007.85

New member
Jan 15, 2023
7
9
3
An impersonal wham, bam , than you mam in more repeated way... also something that does not make it like mechanicial and clock watching..

how to verify SPs .. kitchener i only see leolist ads and most of them i cant verify..

As a novice to this hobby in middle of cross roads now..!!
 
Toronto Escorts