Sugar Dating Experience

[Meaning]

Day 2:

Chatted with 2 more - one based in downtown toronto. Instantly went to text. Looked like an SP to me - she shot out $1000 ppm for afew hours + "intimacy". I said it was out of my price range and she countered saying she can lower it. I said $400 and she countered to $600. When I said I wanted to meet prior, she said it would need to be paid so I bowed out.
Talked with another girl - went to text rather quick. I asked for pics as her profile only showed headshots, sent over abunch of nudes - she said she is looking to have fun today and is eager to come over. Money hasn't been discussed yet however she really doesn't have the look I'm going for so won't be proceeding unfortunately. Looks like it could be a genuinely good time.

 

[sneakypete]

Through three weeks back on SA, I've slept with 4 girls all on the first meet. I'm also being extremely picky on looks.

I plan to explore a few more and then pick which ones (1 or 2) I'll see regularly for the next few months. I definitely like the thrill of a regular girl (you can tell by the nerves) vs an SP.

Vs SPs, maybe more costly but comparing ppm to hourly isn't exactly apples to apples. when you break it down by the hour vs an attractive indy, which is rare, I think it's pretty much break even.

I haven't tried the approach of saying whatever they quote is out of my price range, but since it's all gravy from here will give it a shot and see if I get somewhere with the bargaining.

The day use website is an amazing find, will save me a bunch on hotels so thanks to whoever threw that out there.

 

[yababy1]

Through three weeks back on SA, I've slept with 4 girls all on the first meet. I'm also being extremely picky on looks.

I plan to explore a few more and then pick which ones (1 or 2) I'll see regularly for the next few months. I definitely like the thrill of a regular girl (you can tell by the nerves) vs an SP.

Vs SPs, maybe more costly but comparing ppm to hourly isn't exactly apples to apples. when you break it down by the hour vs an attractive indy, which is rare, I think it's pretty much break even.

I haven't tried the approach of saying whatever they quote is out of my price range, but since it's all gravy from here will give it a shot and see if I get somewhere with the bargaining.

The day use website is an amazing find, will save me a bunch on hotels so thanks to whoever threw that out there.

LMAO sure you have,whatever

 

[sneakypete]

LMAO sure you have,whatever

I mean if you want some tips, happy to help someone who's struggling lol

 

[Hipjdog]

Sugar Dating compared to Escorts

Pros:

• Can see the girls face on the profile.
• Can get a sense of their actual personality on the profile.
• The actual experience is closer to that of a civilian girlfriend.
• Since the rules are less defined, you may get more bang for your buck, so to speak.

Cons:

• Much more time wasting. No way around it.
• The sites, like SA, cost money.
• It can be difficult getting on the same page with the girl as to what you both want. SP's it's obvious.
• Since it's closer to civilian dating, things can go wrong between 2 people just like any 2 people. You don't really have that with SP's.

Overall: I would say going with SP's is the better idea, because things are a lot more clear. But it's possible to find a great SB that far
exceeds the time spent with an SP if you look hard enough.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

I mean if you want some tips, happy to help someone who's struggling lol

IKR?! I have been laid on the first date so often from SA it's crazy. Unless he hasn't tried it himself or he's in the 95% of absolutely terrible guy profiles that get made I can see why he wouldn't believe.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Sugar Dating compared to Escorts

Pros:

• Can see the girls face on the profile.
• Can get a sense of their actual personality on the profile.
• The actual experience is closer to that of a civilian girlfriend.
• Since the rules are less defined, you may get more bang for your buck, so to speak.

Cons:

• Much more time wasting. No way around it.
• The sites, like SA, cost money.
• It can be difficult getting on the same page with the girl as to what you both want. SP's it's obvious.
• Since it's closer to civilian dating, things can go wrong between 2 people just like any 2 people. You don't really have that with SP's.

Overall: I would say going with SP's is the better idea, because things are a lot more clear. But it's possible to find a great SB that far
exceeds the time spent with an SP if you look hard enough.

Those are good pros/cons. I look at SP and SB as two fairly different things and not apples to apples. Several of the SB girls I've met are 9 and 10/10 in their 20 something prime and the aggressive extra-curricular is incredible. Exciting like being back in college and they love the attention and are totally into it. I've had that happen with the odd SP but they aren't nearly as good looking. It's still crazy how many girls are on that site that get so turned on by having sex with someone who is married. Some won't see you if you're married but I find most will - it must be a bit of a safety thing too because they know your situation and likely aren't just a random weirdo.

 

[Hipjdog]

IKR?! I have been laid on the first date so often from SA it's crazy. Unless he hasn't tried it himself or he's in the 95% of absolutely terrible guy profiles that get made I can see why he wouldn't believe.

Agreed. The girls gone right to bed with me the first time we met from SA, as well, though I wouldn't say it's a guarantee each time by any means. After the first meeting
if she feels safe with you and the parameters of the relationship are set she should be up for it.

 

[Hipjdog]

Those are good pros/cons. I look at SP and SB as two fairly different things and not apples to apples. Several of the SB girls I've met are 9 and 10/10 in their 20 something prime and the aggressive extra-curricular is incredible. Exciting like being back in college and they love the attention and are totally into it. I've had that happen with the odd SP but they aren't nearly as good looking. It's still crazy how many girls are on that site that get so turned on by having sex with someone who is married. Some won't see you if you're married but I find most will - it must be a bit of a safety thing too because they know your situation and likely aren't just a random weirdo.

Yes, totally agree that they're separate things that live sort of in the same world. Yes, especially since COVID I haven't found too many
SP's I'm attracted to anymore, unfortunately. I'm not married so I can't speak to your last point but yes, that sounds interesting. The girls
on SA are better looking than girls on escort listings, generally.

 

[brian4hartley]

It's still crazy how many girls are on that site that get so turned on by having sex with someone who is married. Some won't see you if you're married but I find most will - it must be a bit of a safety thing too because they know your situation and likely aren't just a random weirdo.

I've had two SBs devotedly tell me that they wanted to blow me all night, because they couldn't understand why my wife wouldn't, and they just felt that it needed to be done.

So yeah, something about being married....

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Yes, totally agree that they're separate things that live sort of in the same world. Yes, especially since COVID I haven't found too many
SP's I'm attracted to anymore, unfortunately. I'm not married so I can't speak to your last point but yes, that sounds interesting. The girls
on SA are better looking than girls on escort listings, generally.

For sure I haven't had a SP come close to several of the SB girls I've seen and they're genuinely horned up.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

I've had two SBs devotedly tell me that they wanted to blow me all night, because they couldn't understand why my wife wouldn't, and they just felt that it needed to be done.

So yeah, something about being married....

IKR?! So many of them are just desperately excited to give a BBBJ it's crazy and they must all watch porn too because they hum and give tons of eye contact (I've found) and then want to get smashed really badly

 

[GeeBee]

IKR?! I have been laid on the first date so often from SA it's crazy. Unless he hasn't tried it himself or he's in the 95% of absolutely terrible guy profiles that get made I can see why he wouldn't believe.

100%

I’ve said it before but it bears repeating. The girls will tell you that most guys on the Sugar sites are just plain jerks. Be a gentleman and treat them with respect from the first message onward and you set yourself apart from 95% of guys. Success on the first meet is absolutely possible.

 

[toronottime]

What do you guys do in terms of your profile pictures? Do you use a head shot or something more discrete and then a head shot in your private pictures? I'm not famous, married nor planning on running for office ha, ha but still wondering if I should take any steps to protect my identity.

 

[sneakypete]

It's still crazy how many girls are on that site that get so turned on by having sex with someone who is married. Some won't see you if you're married but I find most will - it must be a bit of a safety thing too because they know your situation and likely aren't just a random weirdo.

Yup. It's definitely a turn on for them, and the latter part is true too, they know you're not going to get clingy etc cuz you have a life to protect. I had one who admitted she genuinely was confused that I didn't text her all the time or anything unlike most guys who wanted to date her, just made her want me more.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

What do you guys do in terms of your profile pictures? Do you use a head shot or something more discrete and then a head shot in your private pictures? I'm not famous, married nor planning on running for office ha, ha but still wondering if I should take any steps to protect my identity.

I'd say try to make the public one super blurred and then have private ones showing yourself. And it's actually better to look through the profiles yourself and decide who you want to reach out to. Definitely be picky and 100% don't go after anyone that only has one photo (as a starter rule).

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Yup. It's definitely a turn on for them, and the latter part is true too, they know you're not going to get clingy etc cuz you have a life to protect. I had one who admitted she genuinely was confused that I didn't text her all the time or anything unlike most guys who wanted to date her, just made her want me more.

I've had that as well, I think they're used to non-stop texting meaningless day to day stuff. I've had a few actually want more of a relationship even though they know I'm married and when they realize I can't do that, some don't want to see me anymore because they realize they want something much closer to regular dating. And I always applaud them for that because they're young and beautiful with their whole lives ahead of them and I want them to be happy and healthy and find someone decent where there's at least the option for deep love and maybe more.

 

[indigo_27]

Have any of you guys sugar dated a MP or SP from well known agencies? I am wondering if any of the Allure ladies would be up for that.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Have any of you guys sugar dated a MP or SP from well known agencies? I am windering if any of the Allure ladies would be up for that.

I haven’t yet but exchanged numbers with one a couple of months ago (MP) and keep meaning to line up a date but it’s also a challenge to find time since I’m married. If I was single and into doing all this I’d have lined up several (both MP and SP) real dates by now!!

 

[Tony2000]

100%

I’ve said it before but it bears repeating. The girls will tell you that most guys on the Sugar sites are just plain jerks. Be a gentleman and treat them with respect from the first message onward and you set yourself apart from 95% of guys. Success on the first meet is absolutely possible.

Yup. I have a first-time meeting tonight with a 20-year-old cutie. She already deleted her profile because of the number of creeps on the site. All I had to do was be a gentleman and be respectful. Easy peasy.
Assuming we hit it off tonight, she has already agreed to go to a hotel.
I have found that most young women on the site will move forward on the first evening .... as long as you have some class.