ok ok, lets keep this in context. this was a response on how to help the guy from not getting caught, please do not take offense because you put guys through a screening process. you are correct, I would never be your customer as I believe you should never have access to my personal information. If guys are horny and irresponsible enough to give it to you then thats their business. You sound like a cool girl thats in this business for the business (repeat customers), so the risk is low you would violate that persons information. BUT, this industry is made up of drugged up crazy whores who may not care about the repeat business and use the info to ruin a persons life or black mail them. just sayin
And this industry is made of aggressive men who rape, beat and rob women. Who also scam women, short change them, not pay them at all, etc. There was just a guy in Durham busted for repeatedly seeing escorts and not paying them. He has been charged with like 3/4 counts of it for doing it to multiple women. There are crazies on both side sweetie. My point is your are not special. I’m am not special. Neither side is more important, or less important. There are enough to go around for you to find what you like and for me to get the clients I want without needing to stereotype the whole industry.
And just to remind you, because I didn’t take offence. I’m merely explaining. It is not her loss that she doesn’t have your money. It is never her loss. That is not how this industry works. It is not my loss that you won’t see me. It doesn’t affect my business at all. Because you are merely one out of hundreds if not thousands of men. The phone will always ring. Always. So just so you know - that opinion or that attitude of “Her loss” is laughable. Not trying to be rude - just being truthful. You personally don’t matter. Just like I personally don’t matter because there will always be whores around for you to pay to fuck.
And lastly - This industry is researchable. Meaning you can research the girls before you see them. You don’t have to see unreviewed ladies. That is your type of screening available to you. If you don’t use it - that is on you. As you said, I’m basically a sure bet. I have been reviewed plenty of times to prove that. Maybe don’t risk seeing crazy blackmailing whore by doing a bit of screening yourself with your big head before your little head takes over. Just a suggestion.
To the OP - I am truly sorry this happened to you. What you really need to do is reflect on yourself and what you truly want in life. This is a crossroads for you and now is the time to think about what you want so that going further in life you are not just going through the motions of what people expect of you.