Telling a partner you saw a sex worker?

[George12]

I kind of like to think I would be able to.
Has anyone told them if asked point blank if they every used a sex worker.

The consensus on reddit is most women wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone who had.
How have people here broached the subject?

Did it come up early on in your dating?

Or have you just not mentioned it?

 

[Greytop19]

Why don't you discuss this with your SO or girlfriend and report the results.
I don't think any man with common sense will bring this dark secret into a conversation.

 

[squeezer]

Except in rare situations, this is a death nail in a relationship.

The odd time you will have a spouse or GF who is also interested in engaging with a sex worker or was once a sex worker but for most women, you're dead in the water floating away.

 

[richaceg]

Take that secret to your grave if you want to keep the relationship....that's something you won't be able to get back 99% of the time...of course there are a few exceptions...

 

[Ponderling]

Wife knows I have gone to the peeler clubs.
We have also gone together a fair number of times.

Now occasionally the mood strikes me
Often too if she is doing something else in the evening. Like a theatre production that does not strike my fancy.
Often on a night with a good sports event slated to show on the big screen in the club.
So I just tell her I am off to see the peelers, and no sweat about it.

 

[squeezer]

Wife knows I have gone to the peeler clubs.
We have also gone together a fair number of times.

Now occasionally the mood strikes me
Often too if she is doing something else in the evening. Like a theatre production that does not strike my fancy.
Often on a night with a good sports event slated to show on the big screen in the club.
So I just tell her I am off to see the peelers, and no sweat about it.

Strippers are one thing, now try telling her you're going for a massage with a happy ending or if you are really feeling brave, tell her you're going to book an escort for an hour just to kill some time while she's away.

I'll hold on to your savings for you, just in case LOL

 

[escortsxxx]

Wife knows I have gone to the peeler clubs.
We have also gone together a fair number of times.

Now occasionally the mood strikes me
Often too if she is doing something else in the evening. Like a theatre production that does not strike my fancy.
Often on a night with a good sports event slated to show on the big screen in the club.
So I just tell her I am off to see the peelers, and no sweat about it.

Except in rare situations, this is a death nail in a relationship.

The odd time you will have a spouse or GF who is also interested in engaging with a sex worker or was once a sex worker but for most women, you're dead in the water floating away.

The more common subset Is when you hobby together. But even then it must be A mutual activity not something you did by yourself.

I've had the discussion with many sps Who would dump Their partner if they found out.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Take that secret to your grave if you want to keep the relationship....that's something you won't be able to get back 99% of the time...of course there are a few exceptions...

Like this.

 

[jalimon]

Unless you have an open relationship who do stuff together or just for her own pleasure just don't tell. Keep that secret for you and you only.

 

[Greytop19]

Wife knows I have gone to the peeler clubs.
We have also gone together a fair number of times.

Now occasionally the mood strikes me
Often too if she is doing something else in the evening. Like a theatre production that does not strike my fancy.
Often on a night with a good sports event slated to show on the big screen in the club.
So I just tell her I am off to see the peelers, and no sweat about it.

OP was not talking about a SC.
Tell your wife you will be gone for a couple of hours to visit a MP or SP, then report back to us.

 

[massman]

I kind of like to think I would be able to.
Has anyone told them if asked point blank if they every used a sex worker.

The consensus on reddit is most women wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone who had.
How have people here broached the subject?

Did it come up early on in your dating?

Or have you just not mentioned it?

No. Just, no.

 

[LC18]

So you basically want to tell your partner that you cheated?

I know a lot of women that would forgive their partner for cheating but I’m not sure they would if they knew it was with a sex worker. It’s just one of those things

 

[jazzbox]

Like this.
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Well, in a way, Melania is a live in SP so Stormy and her are two sides of the same coin.

 

[escortsxxx]

So you basically want to tell your partner that you cheated?

I know a lot of women that would forgive their partner for cheating but I’m not sure they would if they knew it was with a sex worker. It’s just one of those things

No it applies to I have used sex workers in my life. Personally I never cheat. But with the 1 sub set Exception where you include SP's in your relationship ... Talking about pastYusuf Sps is a no. Drug addicted alcohol addicted. Gone to prison all these things are probably better .

That means that certainly is a class of men Celebrities etc Where are sps are a given and SOS Okay with it.

Denise Richards Says Ex Charlie Sheen Once Brought a 'Hooker' to Thanksgiving Dinner

"Even a hooker deserves to have Thanksgiving dinner," Denise Richards said on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

people.com

 

[escortsxxx]

The whorephobia is quite apparent among my colleagues, so it's something I'll take to my grave. It's probably why I appreciate this forum

This is the 1st generation That's sex work is not considered A career path at school So this is likely to change.

Hey, Teen Vogue. On career day, no young girl should say 'I want to be a prostitute.' | Independent Women's Forum

It's one thing for adults to debate decriminalizing prostitution. It is entirely another to promote it as a fulfilling career choice to young girls...

www.iwf.org

Woman who quit job for sex work adds new sultry position to LinkedIn

Arielle Egozi, from New York, owned her new position - listing it on her LinkedIn profile. But it sparked a debate between users, with some calling it 'inappropriate' and others praising her 'courage.'

www.dailymail.co.uk

 

[Mr.Gr33k]

I kind of like to think I would be able to.
Has anyone told them if asked point blank if they every used a sex worker.

The consensus on reddit is most women wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone who had.
How have people here broached the subject?

Did it come up early on in your dating?

Or have you just not mentioned it?

WTF is wrong with you?

Go see a shrink or run into a wall head first or something...

 

[y2kmark]

It's a sort of catch-22 situation. If you have a partner who would be OK with a sex worker, you probably don't really need a sex worker...

 

[xix]

The more common subset Is when you hobby together. But even then it must be A mutual activity not something you did by yourself.

I've had the discussion with many sps Who would dump Their partner if they found out.

You have me confused on your last sentence.
IF the SP found out her boyfriend saw a SP before their relationship - she would dump him?
I can see during the relationship she (SP) dumped him.

Would this apply to lesbians? Two civic Les and one saw a SP before the start of their relationship. Would they break up?

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I kind of like to think I would be able to.
Has anyone told them if asked point blank if they every used a sex worker.

The consensus on reddit is most women wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone who had.
How have people here broached the subject?

Did it come up early on in your dating?

Or have you just not mentioned it?

No. But I did tell her about the time in my life when I prayed away the gay.

 

[xix]

I kind of like to think I would be able to.
Has anyone told them if asked point blank if they every used a sex worker.

The consensus on reddit is most women wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone who had.
How have people here broached the subject?

Did it come up early on in your dating?

Or have you just not mentioned it?

Reddit interesting survey. This is tough to answer. The top QUESTION I wouldn't ask my future wife although I know the answer is this

-Q how many partners have you slept (relationship ) with? - regular civic men you have met and dated. NOT one night stands.
And how many men have you had sex with? - This last question is very vague in a persons mind because they could be counting in a funny way. They will omit the boring ones.

IF she is under 18 I a sure she slept with 4 guys - One boyfriend per grade or year 9,10,11,12. I would call this average. Some ZERO others double or triple that.

Slept (relationship ) and Sex ( one night stand or weekend or whatever) is different definition to women and counting too.

Would you tell a women ( future wife) how many girlfriends and one night stands you had?

"The answer is NO and I am disgusted you would ever think of me like that."