Let me pick your brain

[WPLOTT]

I find that the glamour nail jobs are better suited to girls. In the end I’m wanting to spend my time with a classic woman, not a girl.

 

[rodo145]

I find that the glamour nail jobs are better suited to girls. In the end I’m wanting to spend my time with a classic woman, not a girl.

I agree I've never cared about nails being done. It's never been a plus in my eyes and only a possibility of a negative depending on what was done.

Nice smooth skin, and nice hair that looks good on the person trumps getting nails done. If I'm forced to pic I'd prefer natural nails not painted that have been shined. Tho painted nails that match a theme can be cool sometimes.

 

[Nesbot]

To guys that don't do spas: Why?

1. I hate massage tables. I’ve never been comfortable on one.

2. I simply do not get off on a handjob. Does nothing for me.

3. Most are located downtown or the west end. Out of my range.

 

[scarecrow119]

I am mostly a massage guy these days. I busted up my hip and thigh skiing a few years ago and it still gives me issues, so I kind of like not using my hips. Also, if done well, a HJ can be amazing. Slow teasing, especially in the shower, is awesome and if someone knows how to edge it is fantastic. If you combine that with someone who knows how to kiss and talk dirty, I will go for that any day.

 

[LexiLeyla]

This forums doesn't allow the discussion of BBFS so we won't even try to approach that conversation.

If a man is your boyfriend you have likely already established trust...if you haven't you shouldn't be jumping into a relationship at that point...but that's another conversation.

Neither of us are doctors but I'd be curious about the DFK vs. BBBJ and which has more risks associated with it. If anyone has more input I'd love to hear it!

But to answer your overall question about how to improve your business this is how:

- Be direct about pricing and what services you offer to avoid wasting time and disappointing either party.
- Understand that as an industry standard GFE = BBBJ DFK and CFS and offering it will foster more business.

I didn’t ask the question to improve my business, my business is fine, I started the thread and asked the question simply out of curiosity

 

[BusterHighmann]

I didn’t ask the question to improve my business, my business is fine, I started the thread and asked the question simply out of curiosity

In another thread you explained that you can't make a livable wage without clients tipping you and that if you could find a waiting job at 18/hour you would happily take it. So was that false?

 

[Rushseeking]

*Please remove if not allowed, just a question/conversation starter, something I’ve been curious about*

As a woman in this industry I’ve always had questions and some curiosity about how you men think. Meaning, what are some deciding factors when choosing spas & girls, what are some red flags you see in an ad or profile, do you do it as a preference over conventional dating, or just convenience?

again my apologies if this thread isn’t allowed, I’m not trying to advertise or discuss any services, I’m just curious to hear some different opinions and thoughts

enjoy your Frisky Friday, freaks & freakettes!

Hi babe xx
Red flags:
Unverified pics
Deposits
This is waaaay better than dating
I do both

 

[LexiLeyla]

In another thread you explained that you can't make a livable wage without clients tipping you and that if you could find a waiting job at 18/hour you would happily take it. So was that false?

You clearly take things on this page too seriously sir. I wasn’t talking about myself personally, I’m talking about a high percentage of Canadians. I was talking about Canada not having an actual reasonable livable wage. I made the comment about the happily taking a serving job at $18 an hour because I’ve worked in so many restaurants all over Canada and NEVER had the starting wage been anywhere close to $18 an hour. I made that comment out of shock & disbelief saying I don’t believe you saying there are serving jobs paying that much and if there are I’d like to know where, simply put

 

[mitchalackey59]

*Please remove if not allowed, just a question/conversation starter, something I’ve been curious about*

As a woman in this industry I’ve always had questions and some curiosity about how you men think. Meaning, what are some deciding factors when choosing spas & girls, what are some red flags you see in an ad or profile, do you do it as a preference over conventional dating, or just convenience?

again my apologies if this thread isn’t allowed, I’m not trying to advertise or discuss any services, I’m just curious to hear some different opinions and thoughts

enjoy your Frisky Friday, freaks & freakettes!

I do this as a preference over conventional dating, it is also more convenient time wise for me as I know what I am getting out of it and I can pick someone that aligns with my personal taste. In regards to deciding factors when choosing spas, I usually go for the MA regardless of the spa they're in, I also find it easier to communicate with the MA directly as opposed to the spa.

One of my biggest red flags is someone with a bad attitude. Sometimes you can easily tell by how they communicate via text/twitter. I noticed you posted someones personal phone number on your twitter as a screenshot to a conversation you had with a potential client disagreeing with your prices. That is not okay, it is a terrible breach of trust for anyone to do that and it is a huge red flag when I see providers sharing screenshots with peoples personal information like that. Sometimes they blur out the phone number which is more reasonable. And sometimes I can understand it more when someone is violent and they share those to warn other girls about the person however it is still not a good look because you do not need to share that publicly. Regardless of that, some of your responses to this thread come off as a bit rude and like I said before - a person with a bad attitude is a big red flag for me.

 

[LexiLeyla]

I do this as a preference over conventional dating, it is also more convenient time wise for me as I know what I am getting out of it and I can pick someone that aligns with my personal taste. In regards to deciding factors when choosing spas, I usually go for the MA regardless of the spa they're in, I also find it easier to communicate with the MA directly as opposed to the spa.

One of my biggest red flags is someone with a bad attitude. Sometimes you can easily tell by how they communicate via text/twitter. I noticed you posted someones personal phone number on your twitter as a screenshot to a conversation you had with a potential client disagreeing with your prices. That is not okay, it is a terrible breach of trust for anyone to do that and it is a huge red flag when I see providers sharing screenshots with peoples personal information like that. Sometimes they blur out the phone number which is more reasonable. And sometimes I can understand it more when someone is violent and they share those to warn other girls about the person however it is still not a good look because you do not need to share that publicly. Regardless of that, some of your responses to this thread come off as a bit rude and like I said before - a person with a bad attitude is a big red flag for me.

The number I posted was actually a text app number, and an invalid number, as are most numbers that text to waste a girls time.
I apologize that you think my responses seem rude, or make it seem like I have a bad personality. If you actually had a conversation with me instead of judging my personality based on my remarks to comments that are also rude, or when I’m stating my opinions on things. If you asked anyone that knows me or any of my clients they would tell you that you’re 100% wrong and my “attitude” or poor personality comes out when necessary

 

[LexiLeyla]

I do this as a preference over conventional dating, it is also more convenient time wise for me as I know what I am getting out of it and I can pick someone that aligns with my personal taste. In regards to deciding factors when choosing spas, I usually go for the MA regardless of the spa they're in, I also find it easier to communicate with the MA directly as opposed to the spa.

One of my biggest red flags is someone with a bad attitude. Sometimes you can easily tell by how they communicate via text/twitter. I noticed you posted someones personal phone number on your twitter as a screenshot to a conversation you had with a potential client disagreeing with your prices. That is not okay, it is a terrible breach of trust for anyone to do that and it is a huge red flag when I see providers sharing screenshots with peoples personal information like that. Sometimes they blur out the phone number which is more reasonable. And sometimes I can understand it more when someone is violent and they share those to warn other girls about the person however it is still not a good look because you do not need to share that publicly. Regardless of that, some of your responses to this thread come off as a bit rude and like I said before - a person with a bad attitude is a big red flag for me.

I’ve also seen men post personal information or personal attacks against girls just because they were upset with the service, so let’s not even open that can of worms on terb

 

[mitchalackey59]

The number I posted was actually a text app number, and an invalid number, as are most numbers that text to waste a girls time.
I apologize that you think my responses seem rude, or make it seem like I have a bad personality. If you actually had a conversation with me instead of judging my personality based on my remarks to comments that are also rude, or when I’m stating my opinions on things. If you asked anyone that knows me or any of my clients they would tell you that you’re 100% wrong and my “attitude” or poor personality comes out when necessary

The number you posted is a real phone number, it is not a "text app" - I work in tech, it's easy to search real numbers from fake ones. You breached a potential clients privacy because they disagreed with your prices and you're trying to justify your actions with rude remarks. Where are the people that know you who can vouch for your behaviour?? Where are your good reviews?? Is there anyone at all that can speak for a good experience they have ever had with you? The answer is clear. I've never met you and never will and I doubt others will take the plunge after this.

 

[LexiLeyla]

On a side note, let me just say thank you for everyone’s opinions and input so far, I’ve been enjoying the thread, it’s been interesting seeing what everyone thinks
Also thank you to the gentlemen who have apologized on behalf of some of the men on terb, your apologies are appreciated, I’ve been in this industry long enough to know that not all men think alike

 

[MaverickPunter]

Where are the people that know you who can vouch for your behaviour?? Where are your good reviews?? Is there anyone at all that can speak for a good experience they have ever had with you? The answer is clear.

I've chatted with Lexi at one of the spas and may have bought her a drink. She's tall, lovely, and friendly. Haven't sessioned with her but wouldn't hesitate to book when things fall into place.

Lexi's lighting it up on TERB and expressing her opinions. Got to like her enthusiasm, eloquence, and fierce writing style

 

[LexiLeyla]

I've chatted with Lexi at one of the spas and may have bought her a drink. She's tall, lovely, and friendly. Haven't sessioned with her but wouldn't hesitate to book when things fall into place.

Lexi's lighting it up on TERB and expressing her opinions. Got to like her enthusiasm, eloquence, and fierce writing style

Haven't seen the attachment with a client's number. Maybe best to reformat so the number's not visible, or delete altogether?

appreciate your kind words Maverick!
It’s always a pleasure chatting with you & I do hope we have a chance to have a session together soon!

 

[BusterHighmann]

I read the entire text sceenshot that you posted on your twitter. I will attach it here and have also gone ahead and blurred out the phone number myself for their privacy. It is still on your twitter for anyone to see this persons personal phone number - which again is not a fake text app number, this is their real phone number. This number could be associated with the company/job they work for and you blasted it all over twitter because they were disagreeing about your prices. What they said to you was rude and I'm sorry that you (and many other providers) go through hell with rude messages - however privacy and discretion is huge in this industry and as someone who has repeatedly said they have been in this industry a long time you should know better than to put someones personal information out there because of a ridiculous petty squabble. As I mentioned before - men have done the same thing to providers by sharing their personal information and BOTH parties are wrong for doing so for any reason. You say you've worked all over Canada and the US - then you should know better and you clearly dont but please keep digging the whole you're under and making excuses for your terrible behaviour.

Yikes!

This is an industry where discretion is of the utmost importance. This type of behaviour should not be tolerated.

Biggest red flag right there!

 

[BusterHighmann]

You clearly take things on this page too seriously sir. I wasn’t talking about myself personally, I’m talking about a high percentage of Canadians. I was talking about Canada not having an actual reasonable livable wage. I made the comment about the happily taking a serving job at $18 an hour because I’ve worked in so many restaurants all over Canada and NEVER had the starting wage been anywhere close to $18 an hour. I made that comment out of shock & disbelief saying I don’t believe you saying there are serving jobs paying that much and if there are I’d like to know where, simply put

Oh so that was all in jest... interesting.

 

[BusterHighmann]

I've chatted with Lexi at one of the spas and may have bought her a drink. She's tall, lovely, and friendly. Haven't sessioned with her but wouldn't hesitate to book when things fall into place.

Lexi's lighting it up on TERB and expressing her opinions. Got to like her enthusiasm, eloquence, and fierce writing style

Haven't seen the attachment with a client's number. Maybe best to reformat so the number's not visible, or delete altogether?

These ladies don't make a living off chatting and drinks Maverick...