All you single guys getting up there in age, whats your future marriage plans?

[superstar_88]

If the wife and 2 kids are happy with the bare minimums you might be right. Good luck with that if you ever try it. Be sure your bride-to-be is fully aware of your lifestyle and family spending expectations, including size of residence, number of cars you expect to own, vacations expected, cost of education for the children post high-school, dining out, clothing costs, proper amount of life insurance you carry, etc., etc. She may say "No thanks!"

I live more than twice as well as Rose11. Hardly bare minimum.
In fact Rose11 is shocked I am spending so much.
You need to find another wife.

 

[Rose11]

I live more than twice as well as Rose11. Hardly bare minimum.
In fact Rose11 is shocked I am spending so much.
You need to find another wife.

I'm shocked that 40K isn't enough for a family of 4. Unless you're including rent/mortgage. I was excluding that. When I say I spend 18K a year as a single person excluding mortgage, it's because I eat out every single day and book SPs. But if I was married, I would be getting food and intimacy at home so that 18K a year would be drastically less. Please keep in mind that I don't include mortgage/rent in this number. But I do include utilities and property tax.

300K for a family of 4. I can see that as a realistic figure too for an extremely rich family that lives a lavish lifestyle but 300k a year isn't obviously a middle class family because median house hold family income is around 200k. No one is running 100k+ debt a year.

 

[angrymime666]

Imho you waited too long. If you want kids your new wife will probably have to be substantially younger than you. 15 years younger at least. That may be ok when your 50, 51, or 52, but when you're 72 and she's only 57 you may find you prefer a much more sedentary life than she does, and your initial compatibilty may be strained.

Also, don't count on shaping your kids into your perfect vison of what they should become. Even with great parenting and the best of intentions you may be disappointed with how they turn out. And again there's that immense age difference. Best case if you get married this year and your wife gets pregnant right way you'll still be at least 60 when your kids are 8, and 70 when they are 18. And while mature grown-up children may be very supportive to their aging parents, don't expect that from 20 to 30 year olds...

I was in highschool in the 90s and that was the time where becoming a single mom was becoming "acceptable".

it never made sense to me why people choose to have children when they cant afford them, struggle financially, have an unstable environment for raising children, and more than likely doing it on her own.

this is why I decided to build my empire so I can be a stay at home dad if I choose. Im wiser, patient, mature and financially stable to raise a family. if Im having kids Im going to move to another country and find a low age and body count girl. vet her over a couple of years, undo my vasectomy if it works, have kids and get married.

Ive considered an older woman but they usually come with mental issues, another mans kids, run through and not agreeable. much less wear and tear on the younger models.

perfect visions... not so much. Ive seen both sides of kids the good and the bad. I see the west as a cesspool for raising kids.

there is no perfect life, but I will do my damn best to shape it into something I would want and be proud of. I have no problem walking away.

 

[xix]

Don't do what women do when they hit their 30s... find whatever they can and hitch up in desperation just to be able to tell themselves and their friends that all is good. A relationship built on that type of foundation isn't solid.

Men or women do this. Both sexes or most of them have No idea what a foundation to life is. The more stubborn the person is , the less likely life will give them better options.

 

[harryass]

being single ain't the end of the world but getting married might bring you closer to the end of your world. Marriage can be a total crap shoot and shit show. I plan to stay single - and loving it, thank you.

 

[superstar_88]

I'm shocked that 40K isn't enough for a family of 4. Unless you're including rent/mortgage. I was excluding that. When I say I spend 18K a year as a single person excluding mortgage, it's because I eat out every single day and book SPs. But if I was married, I would be getting food and intimacy at home so that 18K a year would be drastically less. Please keep in mind that I don't include mortgage/rent in this number. But I do include utilities and property tax.

300K for a family of 4. I can see that as a realistic figure too for an extremely rich family that lives a lavish lifestyle but 300k a year isn't obviously a middle class family because median house hold family income is around 200k. No one is running 100k+ debt a year.

Tell that to xHab. He likes your posts.

Hey xHab here's someone who is shocked 40K for a family of 4 is not enough. Go hound him.

 

[Rose11]

Tell that to xHab. He likes your posts.

Hey xHab here's someone who is shocked 40K for a family of 4 is not enough. Go hound him.

Lol yes. Even 160k a year is pretty crazy. Assuming cheap rent/mortgage of only $2500, and assuming you don't save a single penny, $160K+30K(rent mtge) or spending $190K a year means you make $300K pre tax. $300K pre tax isn't typical household income. $160K in expenses for 4 ppl is probably top 1% of earners. MMDAs, SPs or Luxury car collection is probably their bread and butter. Very hard to spend 40k per head otherwise. I'd be a full time job to shop around for useless stuff you don't need. That's like few hours a day plus work or school. So yes you're doing drugs probably. I believe top 5% make 250k a year and still save tons.

 

[redshank]

 

[jeff2]

being single ain't the end of the world but getting married might bring you closer to the end of your world. Marriage can be a total crap shoot and shit show. I plan to stay single - and loving it, thank you.

Very dangerous getting married. Enjoy being single. Keep control of your money. Plus, some women cannot stand seeing a man sitting or lying down.

 

[NotADcotor]

Ive considered an older woman but they usually come with mental issues, another mans kids, run through and not agreeable. much less wear and tear on the younger models.

It gets harder the older you get unless you are Leonardo DeCrapio or someone similar.

If a woman is say over 40 and single there is probably a very good reason why she was never wifed up and it's highly unlikely because she devoted her life to Doctors without Borders.
If she is divorced, people don't learn from their past mistakes usually it's always the other persons fault, also if times get rough she pulled the plug once, it's easier to do it a second time.
I've multiple times been punished for the misdeeds of some abusive asshole, it gets old pretty much right away.
Single mothers, sorry, I don't want kids of my own, never mind someone elses, and even if I did want kids, it's pretty sad to pay the bills for another dude's kids.
Also older yeah more set in their ways.

Also if you speak to a random 20 year old, odds are more likely she will be either single or not seriously attached.
In her 40s she is much more likely to be married or based on what I said above even worse.
Never mind that most women don't age well, sure most dudes don't age well but no homo so not my circus, not my monkeys. I remember I did a search for 40 something on POF about 5 to 10 years ago and it was depressing as fuck, there were no Marisa Tormeis there, they were all old and gross. Homosexuality starts looking good beyond a certain point. I ended up finding some exceptions and among the orientals at least of he east asian sort it's much better but still. When I was on, every girl who messaged me [and I got a few] looked either 20 years older than her stated age, heavier than my 6'2 fat ass and or looked mannish. Also their profiles and messages were often lazy [hey, well tell later] and border line illiterate. It's one thing to get lazy when posting on some forum with a bunch of dudes but when I craft a letter on a dating site I take extra care to put my best foot forward. It's a bad sign when a message doesn't contain a single capital letter or any punctuation. I am far from a grammar nazi but again, best foot forward this isn't.

 

[angrymime666]

It gets harder the older you get unless you are Leonardo DeCrapio or someone similar.

If a woman is say over 40 and single there is probably a very good reason why she was never wifed up and it's highly unlikely because she devoted her life to Doctors without Borders.
If she is divorced, people don't learn from their past mistakes usually it's always the other persons fault, also if times get rough she pulled the plug once, it's easier to do it a second time.
I've multiple times been punished for the misdeeds of some abusive asshole, it gets old pretty much right away.
Single mothers, sorry, I don't want kids of my own, never mind someone elses, and even if I did want kids, it's pretty sad to pay the bills for another dude's kids.
Also older yeah more set in their ways.

Also if you speak to a random 20 year old, odds are more likely she will be either single or not seriously attached.
In her 40s she is much more likely to be married or based on what I said above even worse.
Never mind that most women don't age well, sure most dudes don't age well but no homo so not my circus, not my monkeys. I remember I did a search for 40 something on POF about 5 to 10 years ago and it was depressing as fuck, there were no Marisa Tormeis there, they were all old and gross. Homosexuality starts looking good beyond a certain point. I ended up finding some exceptions and among the orientals at least of he east asian sort it's much better but still. When I was on, every girl who messaged me [and I got a few] looked either 20 years older than her stated age, heavier than my 6'2 fat ass and or looked mannish. Also their profiles and messages were often lazy [hey, well tell later] and border line illiterate. It's one thing to get lazy when posting on some forum with a bunch of dudes but when I craft a letter on a dating site I take extra care to put my best foot forward. It's a bad sign when a message doesn't contain a single capital letter or any punctuation. I am far from a grammar nazi but again, best foot forward this isn't.

Im definitely not leo, but then again Im not looking in western countries. western woman lack the attributes I seek. there is less stigma with large age gaps. possible more realistic relationship and partner expectations.

I have a plan which is to travel around find a country to live in permanently. live as a local and meet a woman local if I choose to do so. online relationships happen but its a poor way to measure a woman, to many unknow variables, and the chance to develop oneitice.

Ill be clear; Im not willing to settle, at all. pooning and travelling is a lifestyle I could do, but it doesnt seem a long term strategy in regards to old age care. nothing is written in stone, but Ill be damned to make an emotional decision over logic for the best long term scenario.

 

[Mr.lover]

Marriage comes down to how both of you align with respect to perspectives on finances, recreation, relationship, trust and respect. Especially around finances.

If both of you have opposing perspectives then it will just lead to arguments. It takes a lot of time. Most men are egomaniac and believe they are the leader of the household. Having a shared leadership role makes a peaceful household, hence the reason to find someone who have the same perspective of life as you do.
The prettier they are the more expensive and entitled they are.

Wish I knew all this earlier in life then I wouldn't be in the mess I am in now lol.

 

[Butler1000]

Im definitely not leo, but then again Im not looking in western countries. western woman lack the attributes I seek. there is less stigma with large age gaps. possible more realistic relationship and partner expectations.

I have a plan which is to travel around find a country to live in permanently. live as a local and meet a woman local if I choose to do so. online relationships happen but its a poor way to measure a woman, to many unknow variables, and the chance to develop oneitice.

Ill be clear; Im not willing to settle, at all. pooning and travelling is a lifestyle I could do, but it doesnt seem a long term strategy in regards to old age care. nothing is written in stone, but Ill be damned to make an emotional decision over logic for the best long term scenario.

Passport bro be real. Women aren't waking up to that yet.

 

[foru2discover]

Maybe we should listen to what this guy has to say apparently its happening a lot ...finding a much younger life partner that can keep up with you and is slim and pretty. Good luck finding that in USA .

 

[Moose134]

I'm 60 and married with 2 adult kids. My advice to all single men is to not get married and to not have kids.

straight to the point.

 

[angrymime666]

Passport bro be real. Women aren't waking up to that yet.

go where you are treated best. this relates to so many different things. employers, relationships, etc.

if you are not happy with something, change it. I dont think most people are willing to do this.

 

[angrymime666]

Maybe we should listen to what this guy has to say apparently its happening a lot ...finding a much younger life partner that can keep up with you and is slim and pretty. Good luck finding that in USA .

I take a lot of these vlogs with a grain of salt. there is also the flip side of relationships gone really bad(murder, theft, etc).

be very wary when it comes to you, your money and safety. there are many chameleons out there just looking for a guy to use.

 

[angrymime666]

Marriage comes down to how both of you align with respect to perspectives on finances, recreation, relationship, trust and respect. Especially around finances.

If both of you have opposing perspectives then it will just lead to arguments. It takes a lot of time. Most men are egomaniac and believe they are the leader of the household. Having a shared leadership role makes a peaceful household, hence the reason to find someone who have the same perspective of life as you do.
The prettier they are the more expensive and entitled they are.

Wish I knew all this earlier in life then I wouldn't be in the mess I am in now lol.

there are many types of people. some are leaders, some followers and some seek a balance or shared role in a relationship.

know who you are as a person and finds someone who compliments you.

I dont agree with your belief that most men are egomaniacs. there are men out there who are but its no way near to the measure of most men. leadership is assigned to the one who is most competent or given to a person who by someone who does not desire to lead. there is only one captain of a ship. having more then one captain leads to confusion and difficulties.

 

[NotADcotor]

go where you are treated best. this relates to so many different things. employers, relationships, etc.

if you are not happy with something, change it. I dont think most people are willing to do this.

How to tell people you watch Nomad Capitalist videos without actually saying it?
[It's a line buddy uses a lot]

 

[NotADcotor]

I take a lot of these vlogs with a grain of salt. there is also the flip side of relationships gone really bad(murder, theft, etc).

be very wary when it comes to you, your money and safety. there are many chameleons out there just looking for a guy to use.

There are two guys of guys married to Filipinas. ATM machines and liars.
Thailand seems almost as bad. Sure sometimes it works out brilliant but there are a lot of problems involved. Double plus so in the Philippines. It's a very poor country, hot and humid, loud.
I suppose it's better than being forever alone or even forever Stallone for those swole bros.

I find it funny when they say never bring them back to your country because of feminism. No my Dahommies, you don't bring them back because over there you with your citizenship and wealth are the "Chad Thundercock" whereas back in your own country you are just another scrub among many, where as she goes from being just one of many desperate girls who being a cute exotic who has options and after a while, citizenship and half your shit. Sure not always but you will never know till it happens and even if she doesn't leave your ass, it's more likely because she is traditional minded or just is willing to settle, not because she loves your Jurassic cock.

There are also issues with those from weather countries like Japan.

But again, better than being forever alone for some people at least.

If you want to wife up, go to Elbonia or the Grand Duchy of Fennwick. Trust me.