YES I recommend it to people and I met a guy who did this - NO SEX - for 3 months and told her out right after 5 date. He got tired of the charades- He's married for 7 years now. YES men can with hold if the goal is TRUE wife.LMAO - I’m just going based off of what @xix said. 3 dates.
In my world - if I ever dated again - it would be longer than 3 dates. I mean if I am serious about building a relationship with someone for them, for who they are and them equally for who I am - I don’t want money or sex getting in the way. I have no problem paying my way. 3 dates, 10 dates - doesn’t matter. Can the guy go without sex for that long?
Yes the table has to be even with a +/- 15 % variance but there are exception to the rule and good luck finding it.This is probably where escorting has skewed my perception. If you just want sex from me - pay me for it. But if you want me for ME - sex is off the table for a long while, but then I’m not bleeding your bank account dry either.
The other thing for me is I would give up escorting. I don’t need it for the money - I own a business so I have the privilege of walking away. However if you want to be the beneficiary of that privilege - you need to earn it. I don’t know many men who would give up an extra lucrative income and sex for a woman. It is a big ask and one that wouldn’t even need to be asked if it was the right guy. So if I am willing to go that far for a relationship, you need to be bringing just as much to the table.