How far would you go to track a crush?

[dognutz]

This guy posted on social media and in the newspaper to find her. Seems a bit excessive but I guess he was desperate for love.

I'm gutted after finding out that my train crush has a boyfriend

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER using social media to track down a woman I met on a train, I am now gutted to learn she has got a boyfriend. It took me months to find her and I now half-wish I’d never begun the…

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[Charlie_]

She probably lied about having a boyfriend. She just wanted to get rid of that creepy, desperate stalker.

 

[Pleasure Hound]

Not very far. I'm not 14 years old anymore.....

 

[richaceg]

He's only a creepy stalker if he's ugly....if he's a handsome successful man...then he's flirting....

 

[dirtyharry555]

He's only a creepy stalker if he's ugly....if he's a handsome successful man...then he's flirting....

 

[NotADcotor]

Someone told me of a friend, her boyfriend say he loved her hair and told her never to change it, so she either cut it short of shaved it off because "no man is gonna tell me what to do"
I forget what happened after but I sure hope he dumped that toxic bitch.

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[Insidious Von]

Haven't had a crush since my mid-teens. Being a feckless nimrod, it didn't end well.

I still can't figure out why anyone would find Donni obscene? She can't help it that she's built like a Commodores song. PsycheTruth (based in Austin Texas) nearly got demonetized over the complaint.

 

[Jenesis]

She probably lied about having a boyfriend. She just wanted to get rid of that creepy, desperate stalker.

Exactly!!!!! That is not romantic. That is creepy AF!!!!

 

[Jenesis]

He's only a creepy stalker if he's ugly....if he's a handsome successful man...then he's flirting....

It would still be creepy. If he was good looking and that is all she cared about, she would have made it clear on the train.

He is a creep, regardless of looks.

 

[richaceg]

It would still be creepy. If he was good looking and that is all she cared about, she would have made it clear on the train.

He is a creep, regardless of looks.

It's only creepy if he's not her type...the dynamics change or in layman's terms....she will move that goal post...

 

[Jenesis]

It's only creepy if he's not her type...the dynamics change or in layman's terms....she will move that goal post...

No. No it wouldn’t be. If she was attracted to him, the move would have been made on the train. If it didn’t, then she was not attracted to him and good looking or not, it still would have been creepy.

I don’t know why that is hard to understand. The stalking is creepy AF. I don’t care if you are Johnny fucking Depp.

The move is not moving the goal post, the move is shooting her shot or making it obvious that he can shoot his shot, on the train. Not after the train.

But hate women and their personal reasons for dating. Not like you fuck women you don’t find attractive and not like you don’t behave differently in favour of someone you find attractive but women turn down a guy she doesn’t feel is or changes up her stuff for a guy she likes and she is somehow the bad guy. Laughable.

Bottomline - the guy is a creep and I bet she sensed it from the beginning.

 

[richaceg]

No. No it wouldn’t be. If she was attracted to him, the move would have been made on the train. If it didn’t, then she was not attracted to him and good looking or not, it still would have been creepy.

I don’t know why that is hard to understand. The stalking is creepy AF. I don’t care if you are Johnny fucking Depp.

The move is not moving the goal post, the move is shooting her shot or making it obvious that he can shoot his shot, on the train. Not after the train.

But hate women and their personal reasons for dating. Not like you fuck women you don’t find attractive and not like you don’t behave differently in favour of someone you find attractive but women turn down a guy she doesn’t feel is or changes up her stuff for a guy she likes and she is somehow the bad guy. Laughable.

Bottomline - the guy is a creep and I bet she sensed it from the beginning.

He tracked her down, and reached out...he didn't tracked her down and stay hidden and just kept watching...he made his move then...he reached out, John Cusack's role in Serendipity is basically a creep if we follow your logic...

 

[onomatopoeia]

I still can't figure out why anyone would find Donni obscene? She can't help it that she's built like a Commodores song. PsycheTruth (based in Austin Texas) nearly got demonetized over the complaint.

Some of your posts remind me of Dennis Miller jokes. Donni? PsycheTruth?

 

[onomatopoeia]

This guy posted on social media and in the newspaper to find her. Seems a bit excessive but I guess he was desperate for love.

Definitely creepy. He had plenty of time to both find out if she was unattached and to exchange contact information while they were on the train. What he did only works in 90's Meg Ryan movies.

 

[benstt]

He tracked her down, and reached out...he didn't tracked her down and stay hidden and just kept watching...he made his move then...he reached out, John Cusack's role in Serendipity is basically a creep if we follow your logic...

You may need to re-watch that movie. It was mutual, Kate B was looking for Cusack too.

 

[Jenesis]

He tracked her down, and reached out...he didn't tracked her down and stay hidden and just kept watching...he made his move then...he reached out, John Cusack's role in Serendipity is basically a creep if we follow your logic...

It is CREEPY. Period. EOD.

 

[richaceg]

You may need to re-watch that movie. It was mutual, Kate B was looking for Cusack too.

So there has to be mutual search? That's what I'm saying...it's ok if the girl likes her, but if it's only the guy looking for ways...he's a creep...

 

[richaceg]

It is CREEPY. Period. EOD.

You still can't determine what's creepy or not...a guy looked for a girl, found a way to reach out...get's shut down...he gets bummed out...now if he's going to pursue the girl further...then you are right...he is now a stalker...if he stops...he's merely a guy who went out of his way to reach out to a girl...it may sound unconventional to you but there's nothing wrong reaching out to a girl...if you have no ill intentions...I'm sure there are a lot of creeps out there but they won't out themselves like this.

 

[Insidious Von]

Some of your posts remind me of Dennis Miller jokes. Donni? PsycheTruth?

Ain't she cute!

 

[poker]

He's only a creepy stalker if he's ugly....if he's a handsome successful man...then he's flirting....

its not stalking if it works…