How far would you go to track a crush?

[onomatopoeia]

It's probably not a good idea to try to find a woman this way, if you live in Palmdale, California:

Los Angeles hit-and-run driver who plowed into mom and baby in stolen car is murdered after light sentence

A Los Angeles teen who ran over a mother walking her baby in a stroller and received just a few months of camp as punishment was gunned down in Palmdale, California.

www.foxnews.com

The guy can't see past the end of his own nose. He gave no thought to the possible negative effects his search might have, because it doesn't seem to have occurred to him that maybe this woman didn't want to be found by him. Beyond the potential embarrassment of having friends and family noticing the public display of unrequited affection, her boyfriend could be one of those guys with severe jealousy, who reacts to infidelities which exist only in his imagination.

He had his chance while they were on the train, and he blew it.

 

[Jenesis]

You still can't determine what's creepy or not...a guy looked for a girl, found a way to reach out...get's shut down...he gets bummed out...now if he's going to pursue the girl further...then you are right...he is now a stalker...if he stops...he's merely a guy who went out of his way to reach out to a girl...it may sound unconventional to you but there's nothing wrong reaching out to a girl...if you have no ill intentions...I'm sure there are a lot of creeps out there but they won't out themselves like this.

Sorry but taking an ad out in the paper is creep AF.

It doesn’t matter the “intentions”. The action itself is creepy.

I don’t know what else to say dude. That is just how it is.

 

[richaceg]

Sorry but taking an ad out in the paper is creep AF.

It doesn’t matter the “intentions”. The action itself is creepy.

I don’t know what else to say dude. That is just how it is.

Your opinion doesn't mean that's what it is...My opinion doesn't mean he isn't a creep...his method was lame...the guys said, he blew his chance on the train... don't know what to say to you either...you can judge people all you want...doesn't mean their a creep IRL....the girl shut her down politely....now it's up to him to prove everybody if he's a creep / stalker or just a lame guy with lame methods of going after a chick...like i said...they're creepy when their ugly...

 

[benstt]

So there has to be mutual search? That's what I'm saying...it's ok if the girl likes her, but if it's only the guy looking for ways...he's a creep...

It would be creepy either way.

 

[xix]

What if the role is reverse?

Then there is the LBQT.....

 

[richaceg]

It would be creepy either way.

Meh, people are just labeling just base on their own biases....he like the chicken, found a way to reach out, if he stops after he got shut down, nothing more like who doesn't have game...if it was Harry styles reaching out the situation would be totally different....

 

[benstt]

Meh, people are just labeling just base on their own biases....he like the chicken, found a way to reach out, if he stops after he got shut down, nothing more like who doesn't have game...if it was Harry styles reaching out the situation would be totally different....

Frankly this just comes across as oh-woe-is-me incel talk.

 

[Fun For All]

Exactly!!!!! That is not romantic. That is creepy AF!!!!

You’ve been stalking me for awhile and I don’t find it creepy…

 

[basketcase]

She probably lied about having a boyfriend. She just wanted to get rid of that creepy, desperate stalker.

If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, it means go away, not that she'll think about you when they break up.
If a girl tells you she's busy that night, it means go away, not that she'll go out with you on another day.
If a girl tells you your such a good friend, it means she doesn't want to date you (though you may get a night or two when she's depressed).
Pretty much if you ask a girl out and she says anything other than yes, it means no.

And if you keep trying after she's said no, you're in creep territory. If you then blame her for it, you're an incel.

Of course we all have crushes but if you're over 16 you got to realize the most you'll get out of it is some spank-bank material.



p.s. It would be nice if more women realized that it's okay to simply tell a guy no instead of not wanting to hurt feelings. Sadly typical guy communication and girl communication are so different.

 

[onomatopoeia]

If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, it means go away, not that she'll think about you when they break up.
If a girl tells you she's busy that night, it means go away, not that she'll go out with you on another day.
If a girl tells you your such a good friend, it means she doesn't want to date you (though you may get a night or two when she's depressed).
Pretty much if you ask a girl out and she says anything other than yes, it means no.

And if you keep trying after she's said no, you're in creep territory. If you then blame her for it, you're an incel.

Of course we all have crushes but if you're over 16 you got to realize the most you'll get out of it is some spank-bank material.



p.s. It would be nice if more women realized that it's okay to simply tell a guy no instead of not wanting to hurt feelings. Sadly typical guy communication and girl communication are so different.

Blame the movies. Over and over, the man and woman have a hostile exchange when they first meet, and they're a couple by the beginning of the third act. Perfect examples: Han Solo and Princess Leia, or every Elvis Presley movie.

 

[Resetset]

Don't pursue women. It's very dangerous if you do. Walk away.Do not make eye contact with them.

 

[y2kmark]

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Bet she never heard of Locks of Love...

 

[richaceg]

Frankly this just comes across as oh-woe-is-me incel talk.

.people need to understand some guys just don't have game and it have unconventional way to pursue a crush....if he stops after getting shutdown by the chick....that just a dude that got shut down....if we label them creepy, all dudes going to the club toseek the ladies they didn't know are creepy then? That's just simp talk....

 

[Frankfooter]

It is CREEPY. Period. EOD.

Creepy like this.

 

[Jenesis]

Creepy like this.

OMG! The lyrics to this song are creepy AF too.

I get the idea of intention and clearly, this song is a good example. It is meant to be a love song but it is anything but that. The intention was good, the action was creepy as fuck. Some people need to learn and understand the difference. Good intentions don’t negate negative behaviours.

 

[Frankfooter]

OMG! The lyrics to this song are creepy AF too.

I get the idea of intention and clearly, this song is a good example. It is meant to be a love song but it is anything but that. The intention was good, the action was creepy as fuck. Some people need to learn and understand the difference. Good intentions don’t negate negative behaviours.

That song has always struck me as the stalkers anthem.
Creepy AF.

 

[Jenesis]

That song has always struck me as the stalkers anthem.
Creepy AF.

Every time I hear it, I hear my ex’s voice ….. He still stalks me to the day and we have spoken in years now.

Fun fact - I never use to advertise with a phone number, I only used email and my private number for regulars - which he had and was blocked from.

When I started touring last year I got one. I posted the number here on TERB, first time it was posted ANYWHERE and in less than 4 hrs, he was messaging me on the new phone number. Again, not having spoken in forever and within 4 hrs - he was messaging me.

And this is not the first time. I get clues that he has read posts from here ALL THE TIME.

And when I do, I sing that stupid song changing the lyrics to “Every post you make, every pic you take, everything you say, any time of day - I’ll keep stalking you”.

Which is why it is so funny you picked that song to put here. LOL.

 

[richaceg]

Creepy like this.

That's definitely a stalker move...but...the guy in the topic didn't do that...

 

[Jenesis]

That's definitely a stalker move...but...the guy in the topic didn't do that...

One is a song written to no one and one took ads out to find someone. They are both creepy but one more so and it ain’t the song written

intention doesn’t negate negative behaviour. LOL.

Notice you are the only one defending this guy???? Why is that????

 

[richaceg]

One is a song written to no one and one took ads out to find someone. They are both creepy but one more so and it ain’t the song written

intention doesn’t negate negative behaviour. LOL.

Notice you are the only one defending this guy???? Why is that????

not defending the guy...keep laughing...that's your opinion...don't find it creepy some do...don't give a shit about it...some are judgemental,,,some aren't...if he was good looking...some girls would be envious to the lady....maybe the lady was genuinely in a relationship hence the shut down....girls find ugly guys approaching them creepy....handsome...he's flirting...some guys just don't speak because they might get labeled creepy too...i just don't give a fuck...