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Toronto Girlfriends

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Okay but my original point, was that regardless of it evolves or not, was to explorezip who said if it didn't evolve it wouldn't survive. I simply said it would, so I'm not exactly sure what point your trying to prove then.
You are playing with words now. If the industry went from internet based as the norm (right now) to street hooker pickups (like it was in the 80s) the fact that it changed is evolution. Just because it evolves into something that had already existed doesn't mean it didn't evolve. So @explorerzip is correct, if industry doesn't evolve it dies. Any change is evolution, it doesn't have to change into something that didn't exist before. That is innovation and innovation does not equal evolution.
 
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Agreed. But this goes both ways for agencies that deliberately overbook, and indies that get a better offer and cancel at the last minute. Last minute cancellations and no shows is not a phenomenon unique to the guys, and the hassles caused are just as impactful to the guys as they are to the girls. SP's time is not more valuable than the time of the hobbyists that book them. Everyone's time is equally valuable. Yet the women demand a deposit to hedge against the loss. When will the industry evolve to a point where when an indy or agency cancel last minute or no show the guy is compensated against his losses? The answer is: not soon. Funny, that. :unsure:
Most agencies already do that, at least we do. We have discussed internally about how spoiled our industry is, when companies like Air Canada will literally change your itinerary last minute and make you sleep in an airport waiting for your flight; offering no concession. The last time this happened, I received a complimentary pillow from Air Canada, nowhere near the money I had paid for my flight.

If clients are expecting free sessions from being canceled on, that is unreasonable. What kind of concessions do you feel are fair to the client? Can you give some examples?
 

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She said that for some SPs 2-3 hours cancelation notice is not sufficient. Your ethical correct is not necessarily correct to the SP, it is just what makes you feel better about your choices. Many other men have that logic and to them not showing up at all is ethically acceptable, so do you think that women should just leave it up to the client's ethics when choosing their business practices?

From our business point of view, we realized quickly that the clients who complete the screening process are hundreds of times more likely to respect and obey every other rule. As providers there is nothing more annoying that a client mansplaining what should be the right thing.

Do you know how many times we have had clients do things they were not supposed to do, and then try to justify their action with some mansplanation of why they are right and we are wrong?
Thanks for your opinion as well. I understand your frustration with the "no shows"
So why lecture me ?
 
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For me this at the heart of the issue. If no women out there were using this a scam and it was just a means of actually screening out time wasters, it would be great for everyone. The issue is it seems there are more women using at a way to scam then to actually screen, and there for can't be trusted for me.
Like I said .... To each their own!
 
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Most agencies already do that, at least we do. We have discussed internally about how spoiled our industry is, when companies like Air Canada will literally change your itinerary last minute and make you sleep in an airport waiting for your flight; offering no concession. The last time this happened, I received a complimentary pillow from Air Canada, nowhere near the money I had paid for my flight.

If clients are expecting free sessions from being canceled on, that is unreasonable. What kind of concessions do you feel are fair to the client? Can you give some examples?
I agree that expecting free sessions after a cancellation is unreasonable. Room has already been paid for, etc. I think the easiest thing to do is fully return the deposit and then offer a discount for a future session. Things get messy if you apply deposits to future sessions because you have to keep track of that somehow. I've seen a few threads where the there was a cancellation, deposits kept for a future session, and the parties couldn't agree on a make up date.
 
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I agree that expecting free sessions after a cancellation is unreasonable. Room has already been paid for, etc. I think the easiest thing to do is fully return the deposit and then offer a discount for a future session. Things get messy if you apply deposits to future sessions because you have to keep track of that somehow. I've seen a few threads where the there was a cancellation, deposits kept for a future session, and the parties couldn't agree on a make up date.
In the case of our agency, if a girl cancels we do our best to make it up to the client immediately by offering a substitution with a small discount. We only take a deposit on the first time a client books with us, so we don't have that issue of keeping track of deposits. After a client has been verified, that client can pay in cash all the time and no more deposits are needed.
 

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In the case of our agency, if a girl cancels we do our best to make it up to the client immediately by offering a substitution with a small discount. We only take a deposit on the first time a client books with us, so we don't have that issue of keeping track of deposits. After a client has been verified, that client can pay in cash all the time and no more deposits are needed.
Sounds reasonable to me. What happens if a first-timer sends you a deposit and the girl has to cancel? I'm sure you'd try to work with them to get their desired outcome be it full deposit returned, substitution with discount, or something else.
 

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Sounds reasonable to me. What happens if a first-timer sends you a deposit and the girl has to cancel? I'm sure you'd try to work with them to get their desired outcome be it full deposit returned, substitution with discount, or something else.
If the client requests it then we will refund them. We offer them a store credit first, but some people like you said, due to scheduling constraints prefer a refund.
 

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If the client requests it then we will refund them. We offer them a store credit first, but some people like you said, due to scheduling constraints prefer a refund.

That was not my experience.

You refused to refund my deposit when the only girl I was interest in seeing, cancelled. Twice, if I recall correctly.

I asked you multiple times for a refund and you gave me every reason and excuse why it was not possible.

Said the ONLY option was a credit.

To be fair, I did get to use it when the only girl I wanted to see didn't cancel her shift.

But you did not offer me a discount.

I can post screen shots of our text messages if you want to dispute what I have posted.

That was my first and last time I will ever pay a deposit in this business. And the only reason that I did break down and pay it was because I really wanted to see that girl and because I was a regular client at your Front St location for years and trusted (past tense) you, and your agency.


Let's see if you use have the integrity to not use your influence as an advertiser to get this honest post deleted
 
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You are playing with words now.
Get the f%#* out here….

no playing with words whatsoever. My point valid, clear, concise, and extremely accurate.

I’m simply telling you unlike other industries that have to choice but to evolve, this one doesn’t, at least nearly not on the same scale.
 

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That was not my experience.

You refused to refund my deposit when the only girl I was interest in seeing, cancelled. Twice, if I recall correctly.

I asked you multiple times for a refund and you gave me every reason and excuse why it was not possible.

Said the ONLY option was a credit.

To be fair, I did get to use it when the only girl I wanted to see didn't cancel her shift.

But you did not offer me a discount.

I can post screen shots of our text messages if you want to dispute what I have posted.

That was my first and last time I will ever pay a deposit in this business. And the only reason that I did break down and pay it was because I really wanted to see that girl and because I was a regular client at your Front St location for years and trusted (past tense) you, and your agency.


Let's see if you use have the integrity to not use your influence as an advertiser to get this honest post deleted
This is why I did not respond to TGFs quote of my post. Anyone with significant experience in this industry knows agencies and indies alike proudly proclaim their integrity publicly, but when it really gets down to brass tacks, it's not often they walk the talk, and when they don't, we'll, that's hard to prove without getting yourself banned for accusing a paying advertiser. Just the reality of the industry. There are so so many guys out there who naively trust and believe only to find themselves being screwed over w zero real recourse. No point debating it here, just time to walk on.
 

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Since we are on Terb my comments are only in respect to those women who advertise here and are highly respected and well reviewed. If what you say is true, how come there are so few comments on this board confirming this for the women who advertise here? Yes there are scammers and bad apples in the industry but I would say that the majority of women who advertise here do not fall into that category. If I really want to see a women who requires a deposit, I will send it and if something goes wrong and I do not receive the money back after requesting it (as long as I did nothing wrong), I will report it here but from what I can see, this is not a common occurrence. But guys here make such s big thing about it over and over.
the fact is that comment s favour those who pay this board. if any doubt exists the paid member wins. there more to it than that but there is a lot of stuff removed from here .. lets assome that all are bad faith comments but that assumes perfection
 

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I was mostly being facetious. I wasn't trying to bring my accountant and my fiscal earnings into the equation on the review board here.

I more just meant that I make enough money that I don't need to exploit people by scamming them.

But like I said it's not for everybody. And if screening and leaving a deposit isn't your thing then luckily there's a lot of providers that don't require that.

It's a big industry and there's enough room for all of us. I'm just trying to have a constructive conversation. I don't know why everybody needs to get their ass so chapped over my comments.

To discuss is healthy! 😘
I was being facetious, so don't get your tush chapped over my comments.
You are the one who mentioned your earnings.
 

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The fact that this thread is 16 pages long just shows how much screening and deposits is becoming an issue for guys lol. My advice to them is to simply support the sp's and agencies that don't ask for deposits/ screening. The more that they are supported compared to the others who do ask for screening/deposits is how gents will have a say in how this industry eventually "evolves" in the future. Remember that at the end of the day this is just a business and a well running profitable business will try to make as much money as they possibly can. The way the majority of men spend there $ and on whom they spend there money will have a big impact on what kind of trends will be established as industry standards. The fact is currently the industry is big enough to accomodate for everyone regardless on your views on deposit/screening so really there is not much to complain about. 5-10 years down the road it may be a different story.
 
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The fact that this thread is 16 pages long just shows how much screening and deposits is becoming an issue for guys lol. My advice to them is to simply support the sp's and agencies that don't ask for deposits/ screening. The more that they are supported compared to the others who do ask for screening/deposits is how gents will have a say in how this industry eventually "evolves" in the future. Remember that at the end of the day this is just a business and a well running profitable business will try to make as much money as they possibly can. The way the majority of men spend there $ and on whom they spend there money will have a big impact on what kind of trends will be established as industry standards. The fact is currently the industry is big enough to accomodate for everyone regardless on your views on deposit/screening so really there is not much to complain about. 5-10 years down the road it may be a different story.
Exactly in the end it’s the client that is the customer, the client that pays, ultimately it will come down to what the client decides what is best for them.
 

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The fact that this thread is 16 pages long just shows how much screening and deposits is becoming an issue for guys lol. My advice to them is to simply support the sp's and agencies that don't ask for deposits/ screening. The more that they are supported compared to the others who do ask for screening/deposits is how gents will have a say in how this industry eventually "evolves" in the future. Remember that at the end of the day this is just a business and a well running profitable business will try to make as much money as they possibly can. The way the majority of men spend there $ and on whom they spend there money will have a big impact on what kind of trends will be established as industry standards. The fact is currently the industry is big enough to accomodate for everyone regardless on your views on deposit/screening so really there is not much to complain about. 5-10 years down the road it may be a different story.
Terb guys really belive that much power is thrown around here. It’s not. Pay or don’t pay. Get over it and move on. You whiners are not the majority. Next!
 

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Terb guys really belive that much power is thrown around here. It’s not. Pay or don’t pay. Get over it and move on. You whiners are not the majority. Next!
It is like customers thinking they can individually change policy at Walmart. You can boycott all you want, the masses will still go shopping there. There is no way to organize the type of boycott that would be needed. Men control the money sure but women control the pussy and too many men can’t say no to it.
 

Toronto Girlfriends

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That was not my experience.

You refused to refund my deposit when the only girl I was interest in seeing, cancelled. Twice, if I recall correctly.

I asked you multiple times for a refund and you gave me every reason and excuse why it was not possible.

Said the ONLY option was a credit.

To be fair, I did get to use it when the only girl I wanted to see didn't cancel her shift.

But you did not offer me a discount.

I can post screen shots of our text messages if you want to dispute what I have posted.

That was my first and last time I will ever pay a deposit in this business. And the only reason that I did break down and pay it was because I really wanted to see that girl and because I was a regular client at your Front St location for years and trusted (past tense) you, and your agency.


Let's see if you use have the integrity to not use your influence as an advertiser to get this honest post deleted
I am truly sorry to hear about your negative experience with getting a refund. Please allow us to offer an explanation. When we started our verification policy almost two years ago, we were severely understaffed administratively. For this reason, it was just not easy to process refunds in a timely manner. So it was decided that a store credit without expiration would be issued instead.

As you yourself have vouched, you were able to use that store credit without any hassle.

Very quickly upon adding another staff member to help us out, we were able process refunds much more rapidly. That is also the reason why we decided to start allowing clients to verify themselves via TERB. We have the staff to be able to handle more work. We are growing, evolving and adapting to the needs of our clients.

I apologize once more, and we will make it up to you for the inconvenience since your business is important to us. Please check your PM for that.

Regarding your other comments, it is fair to say that our agency is not one that has any influence on the content that is allowed or disallowed on the board. Nor do we have any input as to who is banned or not. It is a common misconception by some of the board members that agencies have this kind of pull. It is true that it is not in the best interest of TERB to allow their advertisers to be badgered by anonymous internet aliases; however, they decide what they allow or disallow.
 
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