Effects of hobbying
- Thread starter Ray_wf
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I like to make love to escorts and fuck them.
With all respect, that would be hilarious!
Many of us here especially us older ones have had true loves already or so we thought. Sometimes loves change over time. Sometimes we lose them due to health issues that stop an intimate relationship and sometimes men can find ourselves as widowers. So hobbying has its place for us when we don’t want to get into another relationship
if only we lived in a perfect world. Men reach their sexual market value peak at the age of 35. No woman is checking for the young guys that are fresh out of college.
I never understood the word "fucking" to mean "sex for free." That doesn't really exist.
Anyway, the "fucking" part isn't the problem. It's all the other B.S. that I'm happy to avoid by paying to play.
Also, you're right that most guys here aren't the typical guys today's women go after, but that doesn't necessarily mean what you think. Today's world is full of hot women who fuck or even have kids with complete losers.
We're living in very strange times. The streets are full of 4s and 5s who act like entitled princesses, while 8s, 9s, and 10s are just a text message away for ~$250/hour. Sure, I'd like the dream wife and all that, but finding her in the U.S. or Canada has been a lot easier said than done for the past 20+ years.
Here are some stats for you:
1. 50% of all marriages in divorce
2. 80% of all divorces are initiated by women.
3. If you get divorced, you are on the hook for child support until the child finishes university (22-24 years old). I am paying 50% of my NET income in child support.
Are those the odds you want to go against? Then be my guest. Don't believe me? Go check out the reddit divorce subreddit and see how many people are getting divorced and lose everything. Marriage is no longer viable for men in the western world. Oh, did I mention that you will most likely get falsely accused of abuse during your divorce proceedings in order to scale the custody to her favor? It's so common the lawyers call it the "silver bullet". I was falsely accused and know many fathers/husbands who have been accused of RAPE by their own wives during divorce. They ended up paying hundreds of thousands of dollars to criminal lawyers to prove their innocence. This also happened to me. These are the topics that NO ONE talks about. Just go attend your local father's/men's groups and hear all the horror stories that literally no media channel covers.
If you need more proof, just call up a couple of family/criminal lawyers (search it on google) and ask them if they have experience dealing with false abuse allegations from ex-wives/girlfriends and see what they say. It's a scary system out there. Marriage is a SCAM in this modern age.
Wouldn't go that far there. Assume your parents were married to give birth to you
i got into this hobby about 13 years ago and got into a relationship 11 years ago then got married. i slowed down quite a bit due to expense and didn't want to get caught, but it didn't stop me. on the odd time, specially when she had her period, when we argued (LOL) or while she's away, i would definitely use the opportunity to see an escort, but again definitely tons less than i used to.
mind you, i fuck my wife like i fuck a porn star, so don't have a huge urge to see too many sps either.
then this year i somehow got back to the hobby a little more just because i really missed it.
i wouldn't say this hobby would fuck up your relationship, no, but it serves its purpose well and hey, why not, life is short.
This is very much the normal attitude of men in many other parts of the world like Asia and Latin America. Seems like a contradiction especially in religious Latin America but the reality is the men consider it their natural right to have both happy marriages and a hobbying life. In some sense, I think more guys in the western world should take on this stance without the associated guilt that perhaps the churches have put on us.
Cold hard truth? That is not what fucking means.
I want to know how in the world you came up with this premise.
Once you get married you will hobby more u less your wife is already an SP then you can get a discounted rate
I don't know about others but for me, I feel and develop more love and affection towards my wife after seeing an escort or MPA. lol
It keeps our marriage happier and stronger.
It keeps our marriage happier and stronger.
Funny I hear that a lot from the blokes. They love their wives but that part of their married life dries up and this keeps them together. Back in Oz once they legalised the brothels the divorce rate went down.
Wait, does this also mean when I'm running my tongue up and down and side to side on her labia and licking her clit I'm not really performing cunnilingus, and when she's running her tongue up and down the length of my shaft and deepthroating me she's not really performing fellatio?
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Purely physical acts based on the fact you paid her. Regardless of what you tell yourself she never really wanted any of it. It’s for the money. You are still not achieving anything other than a glorified form of masterbation.
You go see an sp to fulfill some of your sexual fantasies and have a release. You have a gf or wife to build a life with and share experiences amd moments of happieness and sadness. It doesnt have to be anymore complicated then that. The guys who can decompartmentalize the two will do fine in life and relationships
