Hi all. I had an interesting experience a while back. I saw an independent SP who asked for screening info. I gave it and we set up a time. During the session, I thought that the SP was going to do something that I don't like sexually, but then said, "I know you don't like that" and then didn't do it. Then later she said, "I know you like this" and then did something that I REALLY like. I didn't tell her either of these things in advance. I assume that she heard it from other SP's when she she did screening. I guess I never realized the depth of the info shared between SP's when screening. I always assumed it was more basic and less about specific likes/dislikes. It was a bit peculiar that she knew without me telling her, but it was also cool that she already knew what I liked and didn't like. Interesting experience for sure!
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Or your iPhone is sharing more data than you’re comfortable with.
You know…. I never thought to ask for more then just safety based questions. I have asked ethnic based ones on a couple occasions to ensure I didn’t cross a cultural boundary but never a clients likes or dislikes.
It is a juggling act for an escort to ensure we get the info we need but I feel we have a responsibility to not go too far with it.
Can’t say I know how I feel about this yet. Part of me thinks it is good, I would be able to give a better session, part of me thinks it is not needed because part of being with a new partner is learning that partner and part of me thinks this goes a little too far into intrusive. I have to think on this one a bit.
You would be surprised at how much information sp's share with each other. As much as they say your information is confidential and they dont share it with others to be on the safe side i would only share information about yourself that you are comfortable with being out in the open. In your case it worked out because you got a better experience out of it but you may not always be so lucky.
Just curious.. are you a reactive person? Otherwise, if you and I were having sex, would I be able to gauge by your body language/movements if you like something or you don't? I mean I have had clients years ago who tried hard just to lay there like a log lol.. no reactions at all. I think that many don't realize how that can affect their time with a sp.
Add "politically correct"I do not know, have never met, or ever spoken to Ms. Genesis. I must say however that is one well-articulated answer from someone that is likely intelligent, grounded and open-minded. We need some more of that.
Well done
