Youngest Terb users

[luvdog]

The Cell has destroyed both Genders all over the world. PERIOD.

I go to a 12 step program and when the divorce women come in, it gets interesting from their point of view or narrative for awhile then it becomes depressing.

They don't want to change at all. Dating or having sex with strangers is not healing or fixing your internal issue as to why you have so many flaws.

By third date if you want to get married you should be doing the below:

- YouTube

Bekijk je favoriete video's, luister naar de muziek die je leuk vindt, upload originele content en deel alles met vrienden, familie en anderen op YouTube.

www.youtube.com

If only negotiation was that direct and simple. Lol!

LD

 

[xix]

If only negotiation was that direct and simple. Lol!

LD

You have to get them drunk first.
Then next day show them the sign paper to what they agreed. (Sarcasm)

 

[funstick]

It caught me off guard when I came to the realization that a lot of younger guys are doing this. A few SPs that I have chatted with tell me that most of their clients are in their 30s and 20s, so it's not only the Terb demographic that is getting younger. I guess I underestimated the impact of reduced opportunities for face-to-face social interaction and the upswing in some people wanting to monetize as many things as possible. One young SP told me that she would have sex for free with almost half of her clients in their 20s but can't pass up on opportunities to cash in on it.

When I started doing this I was in my 40s, looked a bit young for my age and told I was younger than most clients. Now in my 50s, I feel like I've become an old guy. One younger SP even told me I am one of the oldest guys she has seen. What a change in just a decade! Also when I started I was of the impression that I received high mileage judging by reviews from others. I suspect I now receive average mileage at best. It's just the way it is I guess.

 

[poker]

In the last few years I can't recall seeing so many young Terb members. Why all of a sudden is there such an increase in young blood? Lockdowns and restrictions likely attributed to the cause, but also a change in culture in general.

Reading about a 20 year old losing virginity to an SP brings a conflict of emotions. On one hand I'm happy for any person who finds happiness through this hobby, on the other I feel sadness for young folks who venture down this path in their 20's.

Personally I believe that 20's is too soon for this hobby. This is the time in life for trial and error, emotions, relationships etc.

What do you think?

He is a great explanation in under 5 mins.

 

[luvdog]

One young SP told me that she would have sex for free with almost half of her clients in their 20s but can't pass up on opportunities to cash in on it.

That is the general perception now.
Dating is more monetized now, just look at the rise of Only Fans.

LD

 

[Pleasure Hound]

At least with SPs there is no competition with younger men......

 

[Josephine Grey]

In the last few years I can't recall seeing so many young Terb members. Why all of a sudden is there such an increase in young blood? Lockdowns and restrictions likely attributed to the cause, but also a change in culture in general.

Reading about a 20 year old losing virginity to an SP brings a conflict of emotions. On one hand I'm happy for any person who finds happiness through this hobby, on the other I feel sadness for young folks who venture down this path in their 20's.

Personally I believe that 20's is too soon for this hobby. This is the time in life for trial and error, emotions, relationships etc.

What do you think?

I have seen a fair increase of young serious gentlemen for whom it's been really hard to date and learn. Lots of them needs serious help and guidance when it comes to sexuality.

I agree that under 30 is young a bit but if they gain more confidence and I can help them make their future partner happy, why not.

I do try to educate them a bit about seeing escort tho so they don't end up completely addicted. Which is the most dangerous thing.

 

[Tashki]

Getting into this hobby too young will affect all future relationships and this thought makes me sad.

My relationship prospects are non-existent. Women not wanting me to take them out for dinner is out of my hands.

I’m glad I started to hobby young. I don’t ever have to worry about women liking me back ever again and finally get to see women who I truly like.

 

[Ginomore]

The problem is that most women are chasing the top 20% of men.
That leaves the other 80% with with very limited options.
It’s not surprising that they turn to sps.

 

[Mr.Gr33k]

Today a video suggestion popped up on YouTube and I watched this video. Coincidentally it touched upon this thread's subject as well. I find it hard not to agree with a sentiment that if something is given with little effort from receiving party, there's little to no motivation to change and improve.

I don't agree that only 10% of the guys get all the action. I believe it's often not physical appearance but an overall appeal. It's a lot easier to blame everything and everyone rather than self improve. Giving up is the easiest thing to do. Plenty of average looking dudes are dating with success or happily married.

Going to see an SP like @Amanda Labelle, getting comfortable with opposing sex, learning a thing or 2 and gaining confidence for future endeavors is a positive.

Saying that paid sex is the only option is a negative.

 

[Tashki]

Plenty of average looking dudes are dating with success or happily married.

Mmmm hmmm…and 70% of those marriages end in divorce initiated by women.

 

[Josephine Grey]

Today a video suggestion popped up on YouTube and I watched this video. Coincidentally it touched upon this thread's subject as well. I find it hard not to agree with a sentiment that if something is given with little effort from receiving party, there's little to no motivation to change and improve.

I don't agree that only 10% of the guys get all the action. I believe it's often not physical appearance but an overall appeal. It's a lot easier to blame everything and everyone rather than self improve. Giving up is the easiest thing to do. Plenty of average looking dudes are dating with success or happily married.

Going to see an SP like @Amanda Labelle, getting comfortable with opposing sex, learning a thing or 2 and gaining confidence for future endeavors is a positive.

Saying that paid sex is the only option is a negative.

I sell/do porn and provide extreme pornstar services so I am a bit in between here. I think it's not okay to watch porn in order to learn and to take for granted that this is what women truly like.

However, sometimes you need a little extra extra to get off so why not. As long as you don't spend all day inside masturbating to a point where you cannot get of on regular encounter (aka the grip).

The video is a bit shaming tho and the set up is overly dramatic

 

[Josephine Grey]

Yup and that's because average women are not giving them a chance and that's because of unrealistic standards they have due to dating apps and social media

It's both way babe you guys do the same. It's just transferring the problem on the opposite sex as an excuse to try harder. I am 35. Dating apps were not a thing or barely in my age and I faced rejection a LOT at that time too. Rejection is life.

Life won't pamper you. It will not take you by the hand and make it easier for you. It's time for the millennial to tough up!

 

[bluetors]

It was always young men. If you ask SPs, most their clients are 20s. This is not something new. I started when I was 19 with OSAP loan left overs. I'm 39 now so it's been 20 years. In 20 years I only had free intimacy 3 times (it was so much work and effort to get laid 3 times so I said forget it). I'm unique though, I don't like to date or have a girlfriend haha.

 

[bluetors]

When was the last time you had sex with a girl for free who was generally attracted to you? Was it recent? And how did it differ from having sex with an SP? Was it better or worse?

Um, 2014. It sucked because I had to go on like 3 dates to get sex, in addition to a lot of texting. It was so much work. I didn't even like her. The one prior to that, in 2012, it was some texting, and we met up coffee and had sex shortly after. I much prefered that haha. There was a age gap so I didn't try to see her again. It's not always about attraction. More about the amount of work required. Attractive partner that makes you wait can kill interest.

 

[bluetors]

Yes it's true that rejection is apart of life but at the same time you can't deny how messed up the dating scene is for both genders especially young men. Technology in general had made a lot of young people socially inept.

It's easy if you have tons of time and energy to chase and make that your entire goal. Like if you have no other problems to deal with. Lot of people work, and then there are chores. You need time to clean your car and house. Do your laundry, etc. How are you going to spend another 20 hours a week to chase women? Ssometimes there are appointments too. Dentist, etc. You have to take time off of work and make schedules happen. This is why people hate dating. It's like a job. Easier for women. Maybe 5 hours a week if they're dedicated to land many, many, quality dates.

 

[anonemouse]

I'm only 20.

No, wait, I've been on here for 20 years. Ouch. Suddenly I feel old.

 

[glamphotographer]

Some of them can't separate reality from fantasy, and agencies have had to block younger hobbyists for asking out SPs and stalking them but that's really nothing new.

 

[xix]

Some of them can't separate reality from fantasy, and agencies have had to block younger hobbyists for asking out SPs and stalking them but that's really nothing new.

When you are saying ..can't separate reality from fantasy... you mean modern women?

 

[glamphotographer]

When you are saying ..can't separate reality from fantasy... you mean modern women?

I mean they fall in love with them and don't understand that the SP is doing a job delivering a fantasy and not there looking for a BF.