Hobbling in the USA
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Hi buddy, I don't think you are in the right place.
But if you take the time to check out this forum - International section - you might be able to find something: https://terb.cc/xenforo/forums/escort-reviews-info-international.53/
Not sure which city/cities you are heading but here is a list:
https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/hobbying-in-vegas.787958/
https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/chicago-info-for-ladies.785677/
https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/philadelphia-sps.783128/
https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/hobbying-in-america.781320/
Good luck.
If your hobbling, you should really get it looked at!!
My first reaction.
Maybe he is looking for someone to take a sledgehammer to his ankle like Kathy Bates in the movie Misery.
Who am I to judge. I listen to BlackPink and they have had black pink in their area for ages without getting treatment.
I'm an American who lives near the border and hobbies in the GTA, but I have little knowledge of the hobbying scene in the U.S. because I simply refrain due to the spectre of law enforcement. Getting arrested for solicitation can have devastating consequences -- loss of job, sex offender status, legal costs and enormous public embarrassment. It's disheartening and enraging that these bastards spend so many resources cracking down on these business transactions between CONSENTING ADULTS with MP raids, sting operations and undercover female officers posing as sex workers.
I think strip clubs, though over-priced, are safe from LE, but if you seek an escort through the Internet, be very careful because who's to know who posted that ad.
I think strip clubs, though over-priced, are safe from LE, but if you seek an escort through the Internet, be very careful because who's to know who posted that ad.
You're better off flying back to Canada for a weekend then messing around in the USA. Jethro above has it right.
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My two cents of advise, do not hobby in the US, go north and have fun it is safer.
There are bigger issues in the US and escorts are on the top of the list. Yet they crack down because it is easy and not dangerous.
God forbid getting caught in a sting operation. The cops gloat over posting photos of the johns with names etc. Just a f**ked situation.
A man's life will be ruined in a matter of hours.
These massive busts are also low-hanging fruit for TV news and the media. I can't even imagine the humiliation of having your name and face plastered all over the news for everyone at your work, in your neighborhood, in your family to see. Not sure how you'd recover from that. And for what? Who did you harm?
Add to all this is the financial disaster. Loose a job, family, divorce, rejection by friends and then labeled a criminal for life. Good God.
There is a lot on nonsense posted in Terb about the U.S. scene, and none of it is posted by experienced U.S. mongers.
If the purpose of those posts is to assert that the Toronto / Montreal / Vancouver scene is much better than the U.S. scene, that is completely correct.
But it doesn’t benefit anyone for misinformation to be posted.
The Sugar scene is safe. There have been several prosecutions of guys using the Sugar system, and every one of them involved a minor. One was a pretty prominent attorney. Make damn sure the girl is not underaged. But hell, that is true in Canada, isn’t it?
Independent escorts who screen and charge $400 or more (likely $500 or more nowadays) are safe. Law enforcement simply doesn’t go this route. Can you ever find an exception? Of course, but very rarely. The Maine Zumba instructor is a classic example. She was teaching Zumba to women in the wealthy Maine town in the morning, fucking their husbands in the afternoon for money, and making really good porn at night after getting the kids to sleep. Pissed off the womenfolk in the village when they found out. But it was a hell of an anomaly.
There are a few longstanding agencies in large, relatively sex-work friendly, cities that are safe. Those agencies also screen like crazy, and they are careful not to draw the interest of U.S. federal law enforcement by doing interstate activities. Most don’t really operate as an agency, but instead a consortium of independents. Here you do have to evaluate the location of the agency. Arizona, Alaska and Georgia are not safe for agencies. Texas is not safe with the exception of Austin. The less safe a state is, the better off you are with independents, and the more they screen, the safer you are.
Every single day, there are hundreds of new reviews posted on TER and ECCIE. Choosing a lady with her own website and with reviews, preferably many of them, is another aspect of staying safe.
What isn’t safe? Everything not listed above.
Are there a shitload of stings and arrests in the U.S.? Yes, there are. Guess where they come from? Currently, skipthegames, other anonymous classified ads, massage parlors, and the street scene. Once the arrests almost entirely involved Backpage. Now it involves sites that are the successors to Backpage.
If you are paying less than $400-$500 an hour and/or if she doesn’t know your real name through some method of screening, you aren’t completely safe in the U.S.
But if you are doing those things, you don’t have anything to be concerned about.
This isn’t that different than Fosta/Sesta. The things that got posted on Merb/Terb that the police will start busting down hotel doors were silliness. I don’t know why Canadian posters are so willing to post that same stuff here.
Every country has some level of illegality and most importantly a system that has to be studied to see what is safe.
U.S. law enforcement is very predictable about who it goes after, and what transactions it goes after. Amazingly, there are no shortage of Johns and sex workers who operate in the very circumstances that U.S. law enforcement makes its arrests in. The simple advice is this. Buy your sex in the U.S. in the market not pursued by law enforcement. Canadians and U.S. tourists do the same thing in Canada; they operate in the market that the c-36 Prioritization Policy says is okay. The U.S. has a Prioritization Policy, too. You just learn it by studying it rather than formally reading it. I just described it for everyone.
The U.S. doesn’t want this activity out in the open. They allow private transactions between consenting adults only at a high price per hour. A terrible system compared to Canada, but let’s describe it honestly instead of fictionally.
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A person purchasing sex from skipthegames and websites such as that at a low price has quite a lot to worry about. Same with participating in any part of the low-end scene discussed on usasexguide, including going to massage parlors where his identity, including license plates, can be traced.
Your responses do not seem to recognize that there is a caste system in the U.S., and that some transactions are safe, and some definitely are not.
Well then, be afraid, be very afraid. For crying out loud, can you make up your mind already?
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You might want to grab a map and civics book.
The USA has 50 states and almost countless local jurisdictions, all governed by different prosecutors with different agendas.
And certain crimes are investigated by the federal government, while others are not.
The original posters question was not answerable, because he gave no jurisdictional details or indication of his budget.
I was just pointing out the vast differences in the scene.
This is too much for me to digest. I'm just gonna grab some lube and log on to Pornhub.
