I know I know. I even walked her home. She didn't live far from the incall location.
Should we bring gifts to an in-call?
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Don't tell anybody but, yes, it does happens but apparently not to every client. Most of the time, it is just hanging out, shooting the breeze.
It depends. If you are seeing the same girl for a second time and you clicked the first time, show a small token of gratitude.
I agree with all of what you just said and I understand that part but he says he likes to purposefully book last app so he can go over time with SPs. Seems a bit different from what you just explained.
ummmm, maybe because they're humans and might actually have an emotional connection once in a while with a client.
That is not my point. The original commenter stated they book the last appointment in hopes of a ringing more time oats their pays session. Nothing to do with an SP choosing to sorbs time
Just to be clear, I, the original poster, did not comment that. I dont want heat. lol
Another member (not you of course) is overthinking this issue. Yes, sometimes (but not always) an SP and a client mutually decide to spend more time together. No pre-planning or nefarious intent involved at all. When it happens, it just happens.
There is a difference between booking the last appointment expecting OTC time or pressuring for OTC time and booking the last appointment because there is a chance she may choose to have you stay but you are totally cool and she doesn’t and you leave without even bringing it up. I think Dartsnis referring to the doing the latter.
Yes, it's not complicated.
Don't tell anybody but there is also a possibility she may shower with the client as he is her last appointment and she isn't too worried about messing up her hair and/or makeup.
Of course the main advantage/benefit is it eliminates the possibility of her next appointment banging on the door wanting to get in and that dreaded phone call from SP HQ with the "two minute warning".
Of course there are times when the client may want to extend the 2 hour appointment to an additional 22 hours and of course the SP is fairly compensated for the extra time in that case. That is doable because no worries about her next appointment (because there is no next appointment) banging on the door yelling "let me in!".
Ok enough, let's not agonize anymore over a bit of mutually extra time.
You should have maintained "some space" when you started seeing her.
Never get too personal, don't consider her to be your girlfriend
Next she will ask you to help pay her rent or utilities
Business is business so keep it that way.
No obligations and no feelings hurt.
I have never understood asking for rent and bills as a sex worker. I guess I just don’t get it period. I just can’t ask for help. I’m one of those people who will die fighting over asking for help. But that is just me. Which can be looked at as equally stupid because everyone needs help sometimes.
You are an exception. I appreciate you.
Asking for help is one thing, taking advantage of generosity is another.
Few years back I broke the cardinal rule and got too close and personal
and was taken for a ride. It cost me emotionally and financially. Lesson'
learned. No one to blame but myself.
I have taken help but yeah - it is pushed on me. But I am the same. I have helped a lot of people. Sadly now it has been lessons learned for me too and I don’t help as often as I use to. Also had to cut off a few people.
Understood. Ask when needed and appreciate it. Some make it a habit and that gets to be a con game.
Feed the squirrels once in your back yard, they will be back daily.
Years ago, I met this SC dancer (cute little thing). Soon thereafter, she started asking me to financially help her out with the cost of rent, cellphone, TV, etc.
I had to break the news to her that I am not her father, husband, boyfriend, etc. and those are the people she needs to turn to for help. She actually listened and never asked me again. I guess she must have turned to other patrons for "help".
Speaking of gifts, I knew this dancer, again years ago, and she told me that one of her clients brings her grapes (yes, grapes). Then she asks me: "What should I do with this crap (the grapes)?"
