Should we bring gifts to an in-call?
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It is up to you. It is not necessary.
I have a little tokens of appreciation list of gifts but that is not to pressure first time clients, it is because I have quite a few regulars like to gift at different times for different reasons.
I have had a few clients show up on a first visit with gifts and it has always been a nice surprise. I just got some purple Iris flowers which are my favourite and some awesome chocolates. A couple weeks ago. It was nice. But again, not necessary
When I was active in the hobby, I generally preferred to be the last appointment of the day. That way we could go past the time limit without worrying about the next client banging on the door and/or the call from SP HQ calling and saying "last minute of play".
It was always interesting to see what the previous clients brought as gifts. The flowers immediately go into the trash can and the chocolates go to me (ha, ha). The SP more often than not kept the liquor and Maple Leaf tickets.
It was always interesting to see what the previous clients brought as gifts. The flowers immediately go into the trash can and the chocolates go to me (ha, ha). The SP more often than not kept the liquor and Maple Leaf tickets.
Bring them a washing machine and dryer so they can always have fresh towels.
Gift are always nice - from my experience it sets a positive tone from the get-go. The effort is made though to find out what they like - example type of wine they enjoy or/and type of chocolates.
Thank you for your reply!
From an SP's perspective, what would be the nicest things clients do? Like from walking in to the end? Can you share the best experiences so I could learn?
It starts before you show up. Read her entire ad, follow the website if she has one, read her twitter. It will help you get to know her. Since each of us is different, we all prefer different things. So reading really helps you out a lot.
The rest is easy. Be clean, respectful, get donation out of the way quickly, shower if requested, respect boundaries and restrictions. The rest is how you bond invidually with each SP and figuring out what works for both of you.
Thank you. What are your thoughts when requested for a lap dance? Like thats been my fantasy since I was a teen. lol. But, how do i go about requesting for one? Pre booking? Or during the handing of donation?
Also, outfit requests? Like yoga pants and a loose crop top? Can that be requested?
Prebooking. Especially attire requests. Most girls will bring “outfits” but maybe not the type you want that day.
So pre-booking is best and let them know in the communication before hand that you would like a lap dance. Some may not offer that and some may not be prepped with music etc.
Thank you so much for your time in responding. I appreciate it.
That was exactly my experience as well. I actually received a few bottles of regifted wine since she didn’t like red.
Why would you expect an SP to be ok going over the time you paid for? Even if they were polite I consider that a gross abuse of the situation. Unless you compensated her for that time, why should you just be given more,?
I have a regular in Barrie that usually books my last appointment of the night and he has stay an additional hour one time because he was talking to me about something important to him and I wasn’t doing anything so it was ok to hand. Had I said he need to pay or said that he needs to leave when his time was up, he would have had no problem with it.
I wouldn’t recommend doing this on your first appointment, but this does happen often between reguLars with the last appointment of the shift. So you are right, but as long as the SP is okay with it, then it is Fine.
My second regular who is my bargain basement gilf surprised me last week by telling me how much she liked her favorite perfume. Went to the bathroom and brought me a nearly empty bottle as a sample to take with me so I could buy her another. Totally unprompted by me. So I thought. Why not? Googled it. $400.00 a friggin bottle! Time to put some space between us... 2 down. One to go.
Not necessarily. You can always say to her, after you see her again, that money's a bit tight at the moment so getting another bottle not possible in the foreseeable future. Depending on how she takes that news - she probably knows how much it costs, that's why she wants you to buy it - determines if you see her again or not.
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