A Little eye opener

[Haileysavestheday]

Hey everyone

I had a bit of feels tonight and I thought I need to share this. I of course am by myself,
Aways by myself probably because of my service provider entrepreneurial activities lol.
I have been at this for about a year and a half now....and I have some clients that I saw from the very beginning
Until now. I never really sat down and thought about how attached you can get. Tonight it hit me. Without going into any descriptive details that jeopardize the discreet needs of my client I shall state a bit of it.

My client has been seeing me from the beginning... he is a tad younger and yes he was a Virgin. Please don't judge me.It was my only v card and will be. It was special but I can't help but feel like he could have had so much better lol.
He is of age by a bit so when I say young. I mean very legal! I've seen him sporadically due to his education needs and my choice for career. Well I always chuckled at how he is in love with me, it made me feel special. I was special to him and I knew he was special to me..... but... I wouldn't realize how special till tonight. He came to see me and of course we chatted and lucky for me he loves to cuddle.... and then of course we did other things... at the end of it all he decides to tell me he won't be seeing me for awhile.... although he Said 3 months... I knew it will be forever. This was it. I filled my purpose in this young man's life. He has finally finished school and now he needs to find that career. I know he will do well. I understand he needs to break the bond off. He is a man now, he has conquered the first steps in the beginning of his amazing life. I wasn't just his enter into adulthood friend. I was an ear for him to talk to, to explore and discuss the ways of his social life and instability and craziness of being his age. The unsureness, the excitement and the beginning for him is all paved out. Including losing his virginity.

I cried after he left. I didn't think I would. I didn't think perhaps it was me who so needed him. He lit up my old and weird life and made everything feel like a blessing. I will miss him dearly.... for it I who feels like I lost some sort of virginity with him. He was my first vCard as well.

Xo

 

[haplessinquiry]

If I think back to my youth, I gotta say, it's having access to service providers like you who saved my sanity. At that age of development, your hormones are raging, and you're falling in love with everything under the sun. SP's provided a much needed relief from the frustrations of starting a relationship.

 

[William St]

Hey everyone

I had a bit of feels tonight and I thought I need to share this. I of course am by myself,
Aways by myself probably because of my service provider entrepreneurial activities lol.
I have been at this for about a year and a half now....and I have some clients that I saw from the very beginning
Until now. I never really sat down and thought about how attached you can get. Tonight it hit me. Without going into any descriptive details that jeopardize the discreet needs of my client I shall state a bit of it.

My client has been seeing me from the beginning... he is a tad younger and yes he was a Virgin. Please don't judge me.It was my only v card and will be. It was special but I can't help but feel like he could have had so much better lol.
He is of age by a bit so when I say young. I mean very legal! I've seen him sporadically due to his education needs and my choice for career. Well I always chuckled at how he is in love with me, it made me feel special. I was special to him and I knew he was special to me..... but... I wouldn't realize how special till tonight. He came to see me and of course we chatted and lucky for me he loves to cuddle.... and then of course we did other things... at the end of it all he decides to tell me he won't be seeing me for awhile.... although he Said 3 months... I knew it will be forever. This was it. I filled my purpose in this young man's life. He has finally finished school and now he needs to find that career. I know he will do well. I understand he needs to break the bond off. He is a man now, he has conquered the first steps in the beginning of his amazing life. I wasn't just his enter into adulthood friend. I was an ear for him to talk to, to explore and discuss the ways of his social life and instability and craziness of being his age. The unsureness, the excitement and the beginning for him is all paved out. Including losing his virginity.

I cried after he left. I didn't think I would. I didn't think perhaps it was me who so needed him. He lit up my old and weird life and made everything feel like a blessing. I will miss him dearly.... for it I who feels like I lost some sort of virginity with him. He was my first vCard as well.

Xo

Hey, professional ladies are women too. They have emotions, and I'm glad you let yours show and told us your experience. It gives us a different perspective.

 

[BusterHighmann]

If I think back to my youth, I gotta say, it's having access to service providers like you who saved my sanity. At that age of development, your hormones are raging, and you're falling in love with everything under the sun. SP's provided a much needed relief from the frustrations of starting a relationship.

You must have had a better summer job...I couldn't put gas in my car let alone pay $240/hr to unload the chamber.

 

[vintage cruzer]

Is it me or were the sps once more caring and luving back then now they are cold and somewhat rude but back then there was a lot less fakes abd scams and they were happy to see u

 

[ralph613]

Just curious, what is stopping you from having a personal relationship with this gent?

 

[Haileysavestheday]

Just curious, what is stopping you from having a personal relationship with this gent?

I choose my job over a relationship. Also my gent is of a race where arranged marriage of some degree still happens..... I love what I do for a living. My job has no room for personal relationships on the side
.

 

[haplessinquiry]

You must have had a better summer job...I couldn't put gas in my car let alone pay $240/hr to unload the chamber.

Back then, it wasn't even close to $240. I could remember paying $80 at the time.

 

[haplessinquiry]

Is it me or were the sps once more caring and luving back then now they are cold and somewhat rude but back then there was a lot less fakes abd scams and they were happy to see u

I've seen a few scams or two in the olden days too, but putting in an ad in the local newspaper classifieds were a lot more difficult to get a scam going, as you'd have to pay for the ad, with little chance of getting any return on the investment.

 

[haplessinquiry]

I choose my job over a relationship. Also my gent is of a race where arranged marriage of some degree still happens..... I love what I do for a living. My job has no room for personal relationships on the side
.

Ah, say no more, I know exactly what nationality you're talking about. But there is a silver lining here, men from that part of the world, often do come back, even after marriage.

 

[boomboom]

Hey everyone

I had a bit of feels tonight and I thought I need to share this. I of course am by myself,
Aways by myself probably because of my service provider entrepreneurial activities lol.
I have been at this for about a year and a half now....and I have some clients that I saw from the very beginning
Until now. I never really sat down and thought about how attached you can get. Tonight it hit me. Without going into any descriptive details that jeopardize the discreet needs of my client I shall state a bit of it.

My client has been seeing me from the beginning... he is a tad younger and yes he was a Virgin. Please don't judge me.It was my only v card and will be. It was special but I can't help but feel like he could have had so much better lol.
He is of age by a bit so when I say young. I mean very legal! I've seen him sporadically due to his education needs and my choice for career. Well I always chuckled at how he is in love with me, it made me feel special. I was special to him and I knew he was special to me..... but... I wouldn't realize how special till tonight. He came to see me and of course we chatted and lucky for me he loves to cuddle.... and then of course we did other things... at the end of it all he decides to tell me he won't be seeing me for awhile.... although he Said 3 months... I knew it will be forever. This was it. I filled my purpose in this young man's life. He has finally finished school and now he needs to find that career. I know he will do well. I understand he needs to break the bond off. He is a man now, he has conquered the first steps in the beginning of his amazing life. I wasn't just his enter into adulthood friend. I was an ear for him to talk to, to explore and discuss the ways of his social life and instability and craziness of being his age. The unsureness, the excitement and the beginning for him is all paved out. Including losing his virginity.

I cried after he left. I didn't think I would. I didn't think perhaps it was me who so needed him. He lit up my old and weird life and made everything feel like a blessing. I will miss him dearly.... for it I who feels like I lost some sort of virginity with him. He was my first vCard as well.

Xo

A true example of human interaction where an attachment of a small emotional feeling can happen from time to time from both sides of the story

 

[BusterHighmann]

Back then, it wasn't even close to $240. I could remember paying $80 at the time.

Well minimum wage is 10x what it was too... But it's always been a luxury good.

 

[haplessinquiry]

Well minimum wage is 10x what it was too... But it's always been a luxury good.

Minimum wage is in no way 10x what it used to be in the 1990's. At most it's 2x what it used to be.

Anyways, I did an inflation-adjustment calculation from 1990 to now, and $80 should be about $150 now, although 2022 inflation rates are likely going to be taking a major spike upwards this year, the way things are going. But $250/hr is way above inflation rate. The Avg Inflation increase between 1990 & 2022 is 90%, but at $250 it's an increase of 212.5%.


Inflation Calculator - Bank of Canada

 

[BusterHighmann]

Minimum wage is in no way 10x what it used to be in the 1990's. At most it's 2x what it used to be.

Anyways, I did an inflation-adjustment calculation from 1990 to now, and $80 should be about $150 now, although 2022 inflation rates are likely going to be taking a major spike upwards this year, the way things are going. But $250/hr is way above inflation rate. The Avg Inflation increase between 1990 & 2022 is 90%, but at $250 it's an increase of 212.5%.


Inflation Calculator - Bank of Canada

It was $1.50 in the 70's and it's $15 now.

 

[jjw99]

Ok so this thread started with a lady heart felt story but a guy she had feelings for and may never see again
And we are taking about inflation
C'mon guys we can do better than this

 

[Sonic Temple]

A true example of human interaction where an attachment of a small emotional feeling can happen from time to time from both sides of the story

Well said mate!

 

[Sonic Temple]

You seem like a beautiful soul @Haileysavestheday - you entered this mans path for a reason and you did a wonderful service. May you find many many more relationships like the one you described.

 

[Nesbot]

Ok so this thread started with a lady heart felt story but a guy she had feelings for and may never see again
And we are taking about inflation
C'mon guys we can do better than this

Lol! It’s weird what directions these discussions go in.

 

[haplessinquiry]

It was $1.50 in the 70's and it's $15 now.

Oh well, going back to the 70's is a bit before my working days. Closer to my birthing days.

 

[haplessinquiry]

Ok so this thread started with a lady heart felt story but a guy she had feelings for and may never see again
And we are taking about inflation
C'mon guys we can do better than this

Yeah, I was thinking the same, we shouldn't hijack this thread like that. I'm done with that tangent, will ignore it from now on.