Thats your privilege speaking. And I clarified SOME. Repeatedly. I have many responsible women in my life. And an SO who walks the walk.
I also have over 30 years in the hospitality industry and young entitled woman are by far a larger problem in bars, restaurants and hotels than men. I have on more times than I can count heard the words "but I'M A GIRL!" and its equivalent for bad behavior and excuses. They are worse for walkouts, cheap tipping, and trying to use their looks for special privileges. And that applies to all to all social standings.
This girl in the video is a perfect example. Quite simply if a guy walked around a bar marking girls clothing up as a joke, and it was your blouse ruined, would you be laughing at the "joke"?
Stop defending this. Its 2022. Hold your sisters accountable and change the behavior.