My wife and I have gone out to strip clubs together at least a dozen times over a span of five years once kids old enough.
Just window shop when she is there.
We have conversations about the dancers on stage.
In proportion, is it live or is it Memorex sort things as to enhanced breasts, etc.
She is a huge beauty pageant fan, so she sorta sees clubs with peelers as a real life extension of pageants/
Where you advance on your conversion ability, looks, and how you carry and present yourself.
Lately I get the itch to hit the strip club about every 4-6 weeks.
Mostly on nights she is out to the theater or at a play rehearsal.
I tell her I am going, and sometimes sleep out on the bunk in my shed afterwards.
Because she comes home way late if it is opening night and she heads out for social drinks afterwards.
Of course sometimes I have different destinations than the strip club.
Oh, and like others have said, gradually accrue cash. I stash all my cash from beer store returns and trips to the scrap yard as a reason to have a cash stash/
Hand some to her when she needs some cash. And drip into it with cash back when doing the grocery shop when on your own and come home with a pile of stuff on sale so no real idea what the bill would have been. Gas expense cheques from work cashed by work receptionist from her petty cash, etc.
And have an old phone with burner prepaid sim chip.
