Appropriate age difference between client and SP??

Sandro007

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Hi Everyone. I have been a member a really long time but have not been active for quite a while.

Being 52 years old now I see SPs in their 30's or older but recently have have been really interested in seeing an SP in their early 20's. I am conflicted as I feel this is too wide of an age difference. But now I am second guessing myself and would like to get some feedback from SPs about seeing clients twice their age and feedback from other members who can share their experiences seeing SPs 25-30 years younger than their age? What are your thoughts on the limits or no limits regarding age?

I bring this up because I remember when I was in my 20's seeing SPs I had a conversation with a SP who vented about seeing older gross men. Now I feel like I am one of those gross older men.

I am sure I am not the only one that thinks about this. I would live to hear your thoughts. Please keep this conversation respectful. Thanks.
 
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y2kmark

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Hi Everyone. I have been a member a really long time but have not been active for quite a while.

Being 52 years old now I see SPs in their 30's or older but recently have have been really interested in seeing an SP in their early 20's. I am conflicted as I feel this is too wide of an age difference. But now I am second guessing myself and would like to get some feedback from SPs about seeing clients twice their age and feedback from other members who can share their experiences seeing SPs 25-30 years younger than their age? What are your thoughts on the limits or no limits regarding age?

I bring this up because I remember when I was in my 20's seeing SPs I had a conversation with a SP who vented about seeing older gross men. Now I feel like I am one of those gross older men.

I am sure I am not the only one that thinks about this. I would live to hear your thoughts. Please keep this conversation respectful. Thanks.
If a willing buyer and a willing seller are in agreement, it's appropriate.
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the sun can't shine every day🎶...
 

Sonic Temple

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I never found that an issue, if the respect is there between you both and the conversation is wonderful, age has nothing, shit I know a few 20 year old's that could give some the 50 year old's a run for their money in terms of knowledge and maturity. I say - enjoy life mate, age is a number that doesn't need to be discussed once the door is closed - escape in the fantasy and respect each other.
 

Josephine Grey

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Hi Everyone. I have been a member a really long time but have not been active for quite a while.

Being 52 years old now I see SPs in their 30's or older but recently have have been really interested in seeing an SP in their early 20's. I am conflicted as I feel this is too wide of an age difference. But now I am second guessing myself and would like to get some feedback from SPs about seeing clients twice their age and feedback from other members who can share their experiences seeing SPs 25-30 years younger than their age? What are your thoughts on the limits or no limits regarding age?

I bring this up because I remember when I was in my 20's seeing SPs I had a conversation with a SP who vented about seeing older gross men. Now I feel like I am one of those gross older men.

I am sure I am not the only one that thinks about this. I would live to hear your thoughts. Please keep this conversation respectful. Thanks.
I think you should do what you want =) sws are here to make you happy. Don't let your previous encounter dictate what other girls might think.
 

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Your age + legal age SP = fun.

Or at least I thought that was the basic equation. If the SP is not comfortable, she will have an age restriction. If you are comfortable, then give it a try. You won’t know if you have an “ick” feeling unless you try.


I think you should do what you want =) sws are here to make you happy. Don't let your previous encounter dictate what other girls might think.
We posted at the same time but clearly, I totally agree.
 
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NotADcotor

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I bring this up because I remember when I was in my 20's seeing SPs I had a conversation with a SP who vented about seeing older gross men.
They have sex with fat pigs [like me] and profoundly ugly dudes also. They fuck dudes when they are not really in the mood. It's a job and the compensation reflects this. If the only dudes who hired escorts were attractive with decent bodies the rates would drop to 30 or 40 bucks an hour.

If it makes you feel better, there is a thing called gay for pay. Dudes who are straight who fuck and are fucked by dudes just for the money... and the steroids in the case of bodybuilders. If they are willing to do it...

Also as we all know from escorts on terb, all escorts are cock hungry sluts who would just die without the unending parade of dudes banging them on the job and crave the D, no matter who ugly the silly fleshy bits attached to it are. All of them, no exceptions.
 

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They have sex with fat pigs [like me] and profoundly ugly dudes also. They fuck dudes when they are not really in the mood. It's a job and the compensation reflects this. If the only dudes who hired escorts were attractive with decent bodies the rates would drop to 30 or 40 bucks an hour.

If it makes you feel better, there is a thing called gay for pay. Dudes who are straight who fuck and are fucked by dudes just for the money... and the steroids in the case of bodybuilders. If they are willing to do it...

Also as we all know from escorts on terb, all escorts are cock hungry sluts who would just die without the unending parade of dudes banging them on the job and crave the D, no matter who ugly the silly fleshy bits attached to it are. All of them, no exceptions.
No they would not. Hot guys book a lot more then you think and for plenty of reasons.

If a woman can still get 250/hr, she is going to take that. Hot or not.

Trust me - hot guys try for cheaper rates. Young guys try for cheaper rates. All based on looks and age and all get the same response. Nope.

At least in the escort circles I am apart of. Hell, if I guy thinks he is so hot and asks for a discount a little too much, he turns ugly AF and get declined completely.
 

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Also as we all know from escorts on terb, all escorts are cock hungry sluts who would just die without the unending parade of dudes banging them on the job and crave the D, no matter who ugly the silly fleshy bits attached to it are. All of them, no exceptions.
Wow. Just, wow. :rolleyes:
 

bazokajoe

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If they get grossed out by us old guys they should put that on their website/ads.
Don't forget, cash is king.
 
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They have sex with fat pigs [like me] and profoundly ugly dudes also. They fuck dudes when they are not really in the mood. It's a job and the compensation reflects this. If the only dudes who hired escorts were attractive with decent bodies the rates would drop to 30 or 40 bucks an hour.

If it makes you feel better, there is a thing called gay for pay. Dudes who are straight who fuck and are fucked by dudes just for the money... and the steroids in the case of bodybuilders. If they are willing to do it...

Also as we all know from escorts on terb, all escorts are cock hungry sluts who would just die without the unending parade of dudes banging them on the job and crave the D, no matter who ugly the silly fleshy bits attached to it are. All of them, no exceptions.
🤯 Holy crap man, an over the top response to a reasonable question on age separation.
Uncalled for & IMHO just rude.
 

massman

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Hi Everyone. I have been a member a really long time but have not been active for quite a while.

Being 52 years old now I see SPs in their 30's or older but recently have have been really interested in seeing an SP in their early 20's. I am conflicted as I feel this is too wide of an age difference. But now I am second guessing myself and would like to get some feedback from SPs about seeing clients twice their age and feedback from other members who can share their experiences seeing SPs 25-30 years younger than their age? What are your thoughts on the limits or no limits regarding age?

I bring this up because I remember when I was in my 20's seeing SPs I had a conversation with a SP who vented about seeing older gross men. Now I feel like I am one of those gross older men.

I am sure I am not the only one that thinks about this. I would live to hear your thoughts. Please keep this conversation respectful. Thanks.
You can be an older man, without being a gross older man.

Middle aged guys are a huge part of the demographic that sees escorts, of all ages. If an escort cut out the 40-60 age range, they’d likely lose half of their clients.

One of the most consistent things I’ve learned here is that the majority of escorts value guys who respect their rates, boundaries and the agreed upon time, along with kindness and hygiene, far above youth, looks or fitness. I’ve heard more complaints about bad behaviour of younger guys here rather than older.
 

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funstick

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I think as long as the SP is comfortable with seeing you, go for it if it works for you. I am also in my 50s and make sure to avoid SPs that prefer younger guys and appreciate SPs that stipulate age limits in their ads if that is important to her. It saves us both time. While I have had some great encounters with exceptional SPs in their early 20s (and in one case 19), I find that providers in their late 20s and early 30s often work best for me and know how to deal with a guy my age. I only occasionally see someone over 40, probably because I can realistically date many women in the 40+ range in civilian life and choose to indulge with someone outside of my dating pool or someone who can provide a unique experience.
 

superman12

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I am 62 and when i started hobbying 13 years ago i had the same mindset of only seeing older more mature sp's because i thought it was weird and came off as creepy to be messaging girls half my age. As time passed i realized that sp's care more about how respectful, honest, clean, and groomed you are rather then how phtsucally attractive or how old you are. Nowadays, i see sp's in their 20's or 30's mostly amd im just upfront about my age when communicating amd it never seems to be a problem. In fact i have had a lot of 20 something sp's tell me that they actually prefer older more mature clients in there 60's and 70's because they are generally more respectful and less childish then the young guys.
 
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