Guidance after seeing a escort

Firstforanything

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Hey all, I'm new here and new to all of this. I got first service yesterday been having a terrible year... I'm really paranoid as I'm new to this all and not really sure why I did it. I paid 400 for 1 hour service. She gave a "BBBJ" I wasn't aware of the stress that can bring. I also had protected sex with her and removed the condom and did get some vaginal fluids on me. I'm really paranoid and stressed the hell out this was yesterday.
 

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Hey all, I'm new here and new to all of this. I got first service yesterday been having a terrible year... I'm really paranoid as I'm new to this all and not really sure why I did it. I paid 400 for 1 hour service. She gave a "BBBJ" I wasn't aware of the stress that can bring. I also had protected sex with her and removed the condom and did get some vaginal fluids on me. I'm really paranoid and stressed the hell out this was yesterday.
I think you need to step back, take a breath and relax! For $400:for an hour I would assume you visited an upscale Lady! Most of these Providers take very good care of themselves and get tested fairly regularly as they don’t want any problems or bad reviews to kill their business! As far as BBBJ, if you’re uncomfortable with it then ask for a covered BJ, they will do what ever you want in this area. If it continues to bother you in any way, then I would forget about the hobby and find something else. All this is IMHO only! Other than that, ENJOY! I have for many years!
 

curr3n_c1000

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Hey all, I'm new here and new to all of this. I got first service yesterday been having a terrible year... I'm really paranoid as I'm new to this all and not really sure why I did it. I paid 400 for 1 hour service. She gave a "BBBJ" I wasn't aware of the stress that can bring. I also had protected sex with her and removed the condom and did get some vaginal fluids on me. I'm really paranoid and stressed the hell out this was yesterday.
Im sorry to tell you, but you have 48 hours to live.
 
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Firstforanything

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I think you need to step back, take a breath and relax! For $400:for an hour I would assume you visited an upscale Lady! Most of these Providers take very good care of themselves and get tested fairly regularly as they don’t want any problems or bad reviews to kill their business! As far as BBBJ, if you’re uncomfortable with it then ask for a covered BJ, they will do what ever you want in this area. If it continues to bother you in any way, then I would forget about the hobby and find something else. All this is IMHO only! Other than that, ENJOY! I have for many years!
I appreciate you're blunt response I really do. And I understand that didn't want to offend her or anyone else with my post. Thank you for helping me feel better that was my first time. Cheers and happy new year
 

jcpro

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I know for some it's funny for sure. I had a really terrible divorce and just testing waters on life in a different light. Little paranoid as I never did this before
If you're really paranoid, next time play doctor, first. It's just a mild kink. Bring a flashlight and a magnifying 🔎. Tell her to open wide and say "ah", then repeat downstairs. Make sure to wear gloves and a white coat.
 

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Excuse yourself and ask for a wipe or go to the bathroom and wash it off, also pee after sex (the body tends to pee anyways after sex), it helps pee out the bacteria.
 

Firstforanything

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If you're really paranoid, next time play doctor, first. It's just a mild kink. Bring a flashlight and a magnifying 🔎. Tell her to open wide and say "ah", then repeat downstairs. Make sure to wear gloves and a white coat.
Ya I can tell this is funny to you thanks for ur help
 

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I know for some it's funny for sure. I had a really terrible divorce and just testing waters on life in a different light. Little paranoid as I never did this before
Stay low for 6 months quarantine. This hobby is very stressful and requires frequent breaks to stay alive
 

jcpro

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That reminds me. I used to have a regular girl I visited every Saturday evening for couple of hours. We really used to go at it fuelled by lots of weed and other "helpers", but we always changed rubbers every half hour or so. One time we just forgot and, predictably, the rubber just let go. So, I go- the condom's gone (you can feel it)- and she answered- never mind I'm almost there! Half an hour later I'm like- if you get pregnant, I ain't paying for it, but if you gave me aids you're moving in with me. Had a good laugh, got myself tested next week and life went on. Point is- how good is your luck? And shit happens. This is not an activity that carries no risk.
 
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jcpro

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Ya I can tell this is funny to you thanks for ur help
Hey, it's a solid suggestion. In the old days, before the antibiotics, smart customers always inspected the lady.
 

Firstforanything

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That reminds me. I used to have a regular girl I visited every Saturday evening for couple of hours. We really used to go at it fuelled by lots of weed and other "helpers", but we always changed rubbers every half hour or so. One time we just forgot and, predictably, the rubber just let go. So, I go- the condom's gone (you can feel it)- and she answered- never mind I'm almost there! Half an hour later I'm like- if you get pregnant, I ain't paying for it, but if you gave me aids you're moving in with me. Had a good laugh, got myself tested next week and life went on. Point is- how good is your luck? And shit happens. This is not an activity that carries no risk.
So I assume that means you had contracted nothing. Since life went on?
 

danmand

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You are OK. You would have had to worry, if you had picked up a drunk women from a bar before closing time. Expensive SP's from reputable agencies are clean.

The only risk you take is to get emotionally attached to the women.
 

Tomoreno

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I know for some it's funny for sure. I had a really terrible divorce and just testing waters on life in a different light. Little paranoid as I never did this before
Listen, you most likely won't find much sympathy and support here. Many come here for a laugh and drama, and threads like this is a high octane fuel for both.

In all seriousness, sleep on it and let in sink in. So you had paid sex. It's as natural as eating out at a restaurant. You'll get comfortable with the idea over time. Meanwhile, don't stress too much over it.

P.S: doing it with a $400/hr SP is much safer than hooking at a bar with random chick.
 
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jcpro

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So I assume that means you had contracted nothing. Since life went on?
Still here, still clean. Hint, what you hear about price as a qualifier- don't believe it. Always use your eyes, nose and touch.
 

Prentice

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I think we all started this way more or less ... in 6 months he'll probably have at least a dozen solid reviews
 
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