Okay, okay, try spraying on pheromones.You’re not really getting the objective of the exercise.
How do you romance an escort?
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Most important thing is to pay attention and match them. This is a horizontal dance. Which sounds simplistic and easier said then done. However attention is a binary word, which has various levels of depth to it that don't have words. So most importantly understand how she is feeling in that given moment. And match her rhythm and then you lead her into your more rhythm effectively. As well that same woman you been before, is different person on that given day based on how she feels in the moment.
Since your a customer paying for a fantasy, most escorts just go into autoplay for a good customer service routine. But if you look at her and read in between the lines. Does she look a little tired? A little bored? Maybe the last client was an ass and she seems a little annoyed? Or a little excited. So match that energy and then bring it where you want to be together.
So that also means taking your time in each thing, not like your rushing to go from DFK to BJ to the full deal and cross things off your "agenda" trying to make your Bang Bros movie. Your agenda would the moment and being present.
Also someone else mentioned the value of being skillful in going down on her too. I will admit I am guilty of being someone in the past that skipped this part with an SPs. But now know it's an important part of the "ceremony". At the very least to get her to relax, chill and get her into a together rhythm if your not stimulating her that much. Having said that, this is all about attention too. Since everyone needs different adjustments you need to make anatomically. Which you can't always see visually, but need to pay attention to her reactions to find the right spots.
I will say doing the above myself has made all the difference. Sounds simple but it's all about the details. As I have notice in the last 4 years, I would say 90% of the SPs I've been with are usually very wet and they admit to be so. Whereas I'm embarassed to say before that it would only be a few times with a Pro. I don't think my looks changed that significantly in 4 years, but how do things definetely did. Which confirms I didn't know what I was doing before that, and I wouldn't have actually considered myself inexperienced or not knowing what I was doing. But the truth is truth.
All about being present in the moment and paying attention to the details on how that person is different today.
you don't have too but if you are paying 300+ for one hour, a hey I am stopping at Starbucks on the way can I grab you something that cost you 5$ isn't going to blow your budget and its a small and nice gesture. While some have said tips/more money sure, but bringing her favourite bottle of wine said on her website or asking her favourite coffee does show you go that tiny extra step that bring a smile
Exactly, and I feel no shame admitting the regulars who brought me coffee more than got their monies worth, extra time, more attention to detail, lil gifts in return at xmas or whatnots. Reciprocity rocks!
The coffee thing was strange to me. I've done it but then she had coffee breath during and that was not attractive (not a deal breaker and not the worst thing in the world, but not on the positive side of the ledger). Do you drink it and brush teeth or wait till afterward but then its cold? What's the optimal way to make it work?
I know I would never drink coffee or anything but water (or vodka) after brushing the teeth prior to a date. And still bring along my own mini mouthwash in case she doesnt have any.
I know I would never drink coffee or anything but water (or vodka) after brushing the teeth prior to a date. And still bring along my own mini mouthwash in case she doesnt have any.
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Something to that. Tell her you very rarely pay an escort as much as she requires, and tip her to boot. This will put her in a good mood and probably result in VIP service at least...
Exactly. I have had a couple of women who have asked if I can bring something small for them. It is unbelievable how a small gesture can result in an even more amazing session.
And like I had mentioned before, all I did once in a session is pick up her lingerie off of the floor placed it on the bed nicely folded. Under 10 seconds of work but this “gesture” impressed her immensely that resulted in a friendship.
SPs shouldn't be drinking anything provided by a client that isn't in a manufacturer's sealed bottle.
No wonder they always want me to taste what I have brought them before they do
But not by an ugly dude or some old fat.
Remember the rule of avoiding a sexual harassment charge.
1: Be attractive
2: Don't be unattractive.
I am sure when she said that she was picturing some Richard Gere type and not some Abe Vigoda looking Soggoth.
What is really sweat coming from an attractive guy or a girl can be really creepy and make your skin crawl if it comes from a fugly chud no matter how well mannered or intentioned.
I've seen this play out in the non escort world. 2 different guys, one OMG he X Y Z, other guy, ewww gross. I even had to remind her that the guy using her as a fuck toy that she loves so much did the exact same thing that she slammed the second guy for. Second guy wasn't even that much worse than the first really.
I always compliment a girl on her interpretation of Marxist Feminist Dialectic.
Even if she has no views on the subject, she doesn't want to be seen to be lacking so she plays along.
*How do you romance an escort* ?
- The same way you do any other girl.
- The same way you do any other girl.
