How do you romance an escort?

[Jenesis]

Ummmm, not what I've been told many, many times.

It doesn't matter in regards to the session as a whole. If a guy doesn't go down or doesn't make me cum while down, it is not going to make me feel negatively but obviously if he does make me cum down there, or in any way, I'm going to have more positive feelings. It is just natural

 

[Jasmina]

You may be doing it wrong..

Ummmm, not what I've been told many, many times.

 

[Drakarys]

Bring a portable heater to your session. Ask SP to sit on a bed, hand your donation, then put the heater beside her. Turn it on and head off to shower. When you come out all nice and clean, she should be all warmed up.

If you don't know how to go down on a lady, bring a friend who does. After he brings 'positive feelings' out of a lady, politely ask him to leave and take over.

See, it's quite simple.

 

[Fun For All]

How do you romance an escort?

You give them an envelope full of money and than leave after an hour...

 

[jcpro]

You may be doing it wrong..

Lol! On the other hand it's the same story many of us get from the MPs regarding digits- there's only so much a pussy can take.

 

[Fun For All]

Ummmm, not what I've been told many, many times.

Sure, they wouldn't lie...it's not like they're trying to keep you happy because you are paying them...

 

[bazokajoe]

Money talks, bullshit walks.

 

[Kracker]

Better ideas! I don’t mind going down on girls, I just don’t bother unless I’m pretty deeply into the girl and the session is pretty long. It can take 10-15 mins for the girl to cum and sometimes she doesn’t at all, esp if she’s seeing 5-6 guys in a day. Also not every girl likes to cum that way, and too often I’ve put in time (and let’s face it, additional health risk) down there only to find out it’s just not what the girl is into. Also a fair number of girls just kind of smell down there once things get rolling.

I’m going to try out some simple compliments - what I’m looking for is something that doesn’t add a ton of time and doesn’t make me work that hard!

 

[Uncharted]

This isn't hard.
Treat her with respect.
She isn't a product. She isn't a servant.
She is a human being, a Woman, and a Person. Treat her as such.
She has a life, and interests, and experiences.
Take the time to talk and get to know her, at least as much as she is willing to share.
Take an interest in her, as a fellow human being, not a sex doll.
Remember that really, this is barely a business transaction. Nothing is owed to you. Just because money is involved does not mean you can treat her as a piece of meat, and still get your rocks off.
She is still voluntarily offering herself to you, and that is a gift. It should be respected as such.

You walk in acting and thinking like these things are the truths that they are, you will put her at ease, and make her comfortable.

 

[NotADcotor]

Here's a secret- most professional girls(not all but most) don't really care how good you are at pussy eating. As with the bj(and everything else) it is for your pleasure only.

Every time I ask for some advice on going down [because I don't have an ego] I more often than not am told it doesn't do much for them.
Also I've read an autobiography from one girl on the west coast where she says it gets to be a bit much when you see 600 to 700 guys a year.

I figure their genitalia get enough use that they would rather not have another dude putting more friction down there
Also if guy after guy is going down there, it loses it's allure but they are expected to put on a show which must get tiresome after a while.
I mean if you had someone make you pizza or muffins 3 times a day AND you were expected to go on and on about how awesome it was, breakfast, lunch and dinner I'd bet you would get sick of it pretty fast.
Pretending some guy is the best thing ever after having it done several times every day for weeks... when they guy is some fugly chud must also be bothersome.

So sure YMMV and people are different but I'd guess if your typical escort had her way, she would prefer you just do your business and get it done.
Also when as escort talks about how much she loves the sex and how attractive her clients are etc... I suppose you believe quality is job one with ford also. It's all just marketing. Sometimes it might be true but I wouldn't put any weight in anything they claim, double plus so in public like on terb. Oh while we are at it, your employer doesn't give a fuck about you either.

As for me, if I am paying 200 to 300 dollars an hour, it's going to be about me. I prefer 2 hour sessions with loads of snuggling but it will still be about me within the limits of rules and consent of course [and that I need to point this out is pretty fucked up and sad]

 

[massman]

Like others have said, best to set the tone right from the start. Treat them like you would any woman you are going to / hope to become intimate with. Be polite, complimentary, kind. Show up clean and showered, dressed decent (whatever is comfortable for you, just not a slob). Arrive on time. Get the $$ business out of the way first. Small talk is nice to begin with, maybeDon’t be aggressive, or disrespect her boundaries. This is all common sense stuff, that a surprisingly large number of men forget.
To start the intimate stuff, start slow, kissing if she’s into it, and it’s nice to focus a bit on her. However don’t pressure yourself (or her) to make her cum. If she does, great! But for some it doesn’t happen easy, and to keep at it can be off putting. Treat her gently (unless she says “grab my hair and fuck me harder!” Lol).

key here is to remember that she is a woman. Treat her that way, and you’ll get things started on the right foot.

 

[jalimon]

You may be doing it wrong..

Of course we are doing it wrong. It took about 25 times with my ex's to finally get it right! Do you think we will hit home run on the first attempt?? (ok ok some do...)

With an SP I usually say just before going down 'listen I have no clue what i'm doing but this is inviting so shut up and pretend to enjoy it, cool?' She usually laugh and pretend to enjoy it. Which makes me feel like a king!

 

[Knuckle Ball]

Call her Babe or Hun throughout your appointment rather than using her name so that she knows how much you like her.

Show up at least 5-10 minutes late so that you don’t seem desperate. Insist on having your entire 60-minute session even though you were late- nobody likes a simp.

Haggle with her about her rate once you get to the room. Chics are attracted to a man who understands The Art of the Deal.

When you go to the bathroom for your pre-session shower, just run the water and pretend to clean yourself. Soap will remove your pheromones, especially if you clean your ass because this is where most of your pheromones are located.

If you are married or have a girlfriend, make sure you tell the sp about all of your relationship problems- this will make the sp feel special compared to the b*tches and hoes you usually roll with.

Tell the SP about all of the problems you have experienced with other escorts so that she knows not to make the same mistakes. The SP will appreciate this opportunity to “do better” and it will help your relationship.

Hope this helps.

Let us know how it goes.

 

[Tashki]

- be freshly showered
- have minty fresh breath
- wash your hands
- ask if she'd like you to grab her a coffee/tea along the way
- give her a compliment that isn't expected (lovely smile, beautiful eyes, soft hair, etc)
- gentle touches (dont try to yank the nips off)

That's pretty much the whole of it. For any woman.

I agree with everything you’ve said accept for grabbing her a coffee

I’m already paying her for a session. I’m not going to pay an additional amount just to grab her a coffee.

 

[Jasmina]

There are definitely providers who arent in it for the sex, but trust me when I say they are few and far between, likely the younger ladies. And even they have horny days if you know how to push the right buttons. Some do get tired and weary due to the men who are overly aggressive down there. If the client remembers that we are hyper sensitive and knows how to work it... they can get them there. The trick is instead of more effort/harder/faster, do the opposite, slow gentle passive strokes. She will love you for it.

Lol! On the other hand it's the same story many of us get from the MPs regarding digits- there's only so much a pussy can take.

 

[Libra]

Bring flowers, donation in a thank you card, and solo Kenny G's Songbird for them on my clarinet. They are putty in my hands after that.

 

[Samranchoi]

Need to strike a balance where it is “all about them” as well as “all about me”. If you can do that with success, even if the physical attraction is not that great (and I am talking about her on you), an otherwise mediocre or average session can turn into a great one without really trying. All about your mindset before you step into the room. Keep your expectations and excitement at home. Will not be great every time but for myself, more often than not, I have had great sessions with this approach.

 

[Valcazar]

2) I like the idea of unexpected compliments. Men generally compliment obvious things like tits and ass but women obsess over hair and nails. Should be easy to compliment those, similar to escorts complimenting a client’s cock.

This is literally a trick Casanova mentions in his memoirs.
Compliment someone on something non-obvious but true.
The beautiful woman hears compliments on her beauty all the time. But if she's put some effort into the decor, or you overhear her talking about another interest - compliment that.
This doesn't just go for women, obviously. Everyone likes to be complimented for something they are proud of or like about themselves, and if it isn't something most people notice it will stand out.

 

[asuran]

Ultimately escorts are just like any other person.

A full-on romantic date, wine and dine (or any other activities to allow the comfort level or 'mood' on both sides to build) before the pleasures.
A little bit of charm, a little bit of flirtatious sweet talk to peak each other's minds.
When both sides are comfortable with each other magic can happen.

Effort and details.

 

[chrispalen]

Give her a couple of body shaking orgasms and she will want to see you again and again.

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