It does not have to be in person. Chat on the site or offsite if you exchange contact info.
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and other sites. potential FWB or massage service . Sounds too good to be true. Then you are directed to a confirmation registration site that requires your credit card ..... WTF ! Next .
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and other sites. potential FWB or massage service . Sounds too good to be true. Then you are directed to a confirmation registration site that requires your credit card ..... WTF ! Next .
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Thanks for the tip, thought PP requires a CC and phone/address and other personal details in order to open a personal profile. I'll stick with pre-paid.
Depends on what you want:
Great sex on a regular basis? the value is in favour of SPs. A parade of young beautiful women? stick to the hobby.
If you’re looking for great sex and someone who you really like to hang out with that also likes to hang out with you, that’s what SA is about.
Be prepared to spend a lot of time and money looking for the unicorn you desire.
If you’re married and need to be discreet get ready to spend even more, on dinners, hotels, and of course your baby. That may be difficult if your SO is always keeping tabs on you. It’s difficult to disappear for a whole evening, especially with this $&@&& lockdown.
Hi team
lurker for over 10 years finally going to make a post.
With seeking, there a lot of profiles to go through and determine which are the serious ones and which are the tire kickers.
many gems in there. Pretty GND types and also some really insanely good looking ones too.
if the objective is to get a regular ongoing relationship with a girl, then SA is great. But if all Ou want is sex and meet up, bang leave, get the escort.
ive Found that It’s much like any other dating platform where men must message out relentlessly and chase the girl. Get to text and arrange a meet up.
I am in Ottawa and I have found $200-400 a meet up works. In Montreal I’ve seen more like $300-500. Plus expenses like meals, drinks and hotels. Estimated SB budget might be in the $2500/mo range or $30k/yr.
I think one could go less depending on the woman. I am a believer of “you get what you pay for”.
I’ve had about 4 relationships come from SA. One I took her to Florida with me. The other I paid off some diploma tuition so she could do whatever. The others just get spending money. Another she just meets up gets paid we cuddle sometimes fk. Another she’s very vanilla (my fav and I miss her) and I’d just spoil her with gifts using the allowance I budgeted out.
there are various ways to make it happen. But ultimately it comes down to having the actual resources to devote to a baby.
happy to answer any questions!!
lurker for over 10 years finally going to make a post.
With seeking, there a lot of profiles to go through and determine which are the serious ones and which are the tire kickers.
many gems in there. Pretty GND types and also some really insanely good looking ones too.
if the objective is to get a regular ongoing relationship with a girl, then SA is great. But if all Ou want is sex and meet up, bang leave, get the escort.
ive Found that It’s much like any other dating platform where men must message out relentlessly and chase the girl. Get to text and arrange a meet up.
I am in Ottawa and I have found $200-400 a meet up works. In Montreal I’ve seen more like $300-500. Plus expenses like meals, drinks and hotels. Estimated SB budget might be in the $2500/mo range or $30k/yr.
I think one could go less depending on the woman. I am a believer of “you get what you pay for”.
I’ve had about 4 relationships come from SA. One I took her to Florida with me. The other I paid off some diploma tuition so she could do whatever. The others just get spending money. Another she just meets up gets paid we cuddle sometimes fk. Another she’s very vanilla (my fav and I miss her) and I’d just spoil her with gifts using the allowance I budgeted out.
there are various ways to make it happen. But ultimately it comes down to having the actual resources to devote to a baby.
happy to answer any questions!!
Posting an update since it's been a while. Still seeing that chick from Brantford and now I think she wants an actual relationship, but I was talking to this 18 year old blonde chick who lives like 10 mins away, wants to meetup this Thursday for 150 and she has a pretty curvy figure so I was like what the hell, but then last night this other 18 year old brunette with a spinner figure hits me up who's pretty submissive too apparently so we get to talking and I find out both chicks are roommates and best friends who wanna see me together on Thursday for 300 :/ So I think with how too good to be true this situation sounds I def think ya boi might be losing a kidney or 2, will prob post an update on Friday
Damn. I hope you get a threesome out of this haha Good luck buddy!
I love it that the thought of bringing the virus to your family never enters the equation
which site is best for such hookups?I had success with another site, Sec.Ben, but only after a mountain of bullshit and fake profiles. I was just about to cut my losses and give up when I got lucky. Saw her for almost a year and it was worth every penny. Single mom who needed some spare cash and a FWB with no strings when her daughter was with the ex. She had a regular job and a few bills to pay, and the sex was fantastic!! More often than not she was just as horny as I was.
We met for coffee first to make sure we were both real. A girl on these sites can be just as wary of being scammed, or worse, than you are. If she's too eager that's a red flag for me, just like an indy SP who has no screening at all.
BTW has anyone had an issue using pre-paid credit cards on either SB or SA? I used to use one but now they won't work. After the AM hack a few years ago I'm not too eager to give any of these sites my CC info.
I wasn't in the SB arena for one nighters, I wanted a regular thing. It takes work to sort through the bullshit and scams so putting in the effort was worth it for me. There are success stories on here from guys looking for fast hookups but it's not my experience. SA is a monthly subscription so pick a month you have time to do a ton of leg work and go nuts to see what works. There seems to be more women on SA where I live but take that with a grain of salt as some are likely fakes. Better looking girls IMHO as well. SecBen charges for tokens that you need to send and read new messages (Once you start a conversation there is no charge) but the tokens don't expire so you can take months to be choosy and only communicate with girls who look real. As I said in my post, SB worked for me but it was a alot of effort.
Good luck
Good luck
I cant believe I didn't try this out earlier, but special thanks to ScrubFan for his post in the other thread. I may never see SP's again lol
I am in a fairly similar circumstances to him in terms of age and money I'm wiling to spend on my dick. Got some feedback from him on how i should structure the profile, and how i should approach the arrangments, and off i went.
[Side note, I'm fairly active and good looking (not in a cocky/ delusional way), i used to be pretty active on tinder, and had great results, but ive had a 2 year break from it, and saw SP's more frequently.. less drama, useless texting, and headaches.] Now, i know someones reading this like "ya, big guy, why dont you just go get girls in real life then" ... well, I'm not a huge extrovert, and im not a fan of clubbing or bars, so limited opportunities to meet women outside of work and the gym.
After 3 days on SA I have had plenty of success. Most sps are surprised when they see me for the first time, but the reaction to my presence on SA is even more shocking, leading me to believe not many young guys have tried this app out.
Anyways, in the last 3 days I have had following offers, all within the ages lf 19- 24, and i would say all are quite attractive (not DDG by my standards), but better than most escorts the guys on here tend to give high ratings to.
First lady I came to an agreement with, and we are still speaking wanted $75/day initially, however she ended up agreeing to 150-200 per visit, which i told her would probably only see her twice per month.
Another wanted an allowance of at least $100 / week for university, snd she is down to chill, dinner, drinks and as she said, " .. I smoke kush too so we could always smoke a blunt and do whatever you’re looking to do".
The last, who I actually have really great conversations with doesn't want money, we both have similar interests, so she's down to just go to the beach, chill, go on hikes etc.. not caught up in the hype of downtown drinking, clubbing, etc. She said she made it last year, has had an arrangement in the past, but would feel wrong taking money from me, however there is attraction on both levels. Supposed to meet next week.
One wants me to train her in the gym, but she's all the way in loo, but if she's attractive enough i might make a trip once or twice a week.. price hasn't be discussed.
Few $500 ppm girls, but i don't think i will participate in that, unless I find an absolute smoke show that makes me forget how to think logically.
Ive gotten a few messages from 10s, but my net worth doesn't allow me to provide the lifestyle they want, so once I make that clear they go about their business. Once you ignore those ones there are a lot of good options for any guys in their mid 20s who happen to read this.
I do well on tinder, however this app, for a young guy with a little disposable money is like tinder on steroids. Tinder is oversaturated, and a lot of girls on there really just there for conversation/ distraction. What i accomplished in 2 days on SA would probably take 4 weeks on tinder. Chicks on there have already decided they are willing to meet for some money, so when it's potentially with a younger guy they connect with it's a win/win. They know you want sex, not a relationship aswell, whereas with tinder theres a lot of beating around the bush, and useless repetitive conversations.
It also seems like the milage on SA, for what I'll be spending will be far greater than agency sp's (and not in terms of raw sex, rather the removal of time constraints, and the enjoyment of the sex from both parties)
Obviously im not going to see all of these girls, I am coincidentally most attracted to the girl that doesn't want money, and I may try the $100/ week arrangement aswell, as that girl seems like my vibe and is also good looking.
In terms of negatives - far too many favourites from Venezuela/ brazil/ USA. Scrubs did warn me about this.
my biggest regret is not getting this app before, but when universities are fully reopen I'm sure it'll be be swarming... What a time to be alive.
Will probably post another story once my 1 month experiment on here ends, but so far so good.
I am in a fairly similar circumstances to him in terms of age and money I'm wiling to spend on my dick. Got some feedback from him on how i should structure the profile, and how i should approach the arrangments, and off i went.
[Side note, I'm fairly active and good looking (not in a cocky/ delusional way), i used to be pretty active on tinder, and had great results, but ive had a 2 year break from it, and saw SP's more frequently.. less drama, useless texting, and headaches.] Now, i know someones reading this like "ya, big guy, why dont you just go get girls in real life then" ... well, I'm not a huge extrovert, and im not a fan of clubbing or bars, so limited opportunities to meet women outside of work and the gym.
After 3 days on SA I have had plenty of success. Most sps are surprised when they see me for the first time, but the reaction to my presence on SA is even more shocking, leading me to believe not many young guys have tried this app out.
Anyways, in the last 3 days I have had following offers, all within the ages lf 19- 24, and i would say all are quite attractive (not DDG by my standards), but better than most escorts the guys on here tend to give high ratings to.
First lady I came to an agreement with, and we are still speaking wanted $75/day initially, however she ended up agreeing to 150-200 per visit, which i told her would probably only see her twice per month.
Another wanted an allowance of at least $100 / week for university, snd she is down to chill, dinner, drinks and as she said, " .. I smoke kush too so we could always smoke a blunt and do whatever you’re looking to do".
The last, who I actually have really great conversations with doesn't want money, we both have similar interests, so she's down to just go to the beach, chill, go on hikes etc.. not caught up in the hype of downtown drinking, clubbing, etc. She said she made it last year, has had an arrangement in the past, but would feel wrong taking money from me, however there is attraction on both levels. Supposed to meet next week.
One wants me to train her in the gym, but she's all the way in loo, but if she's attractive enough i might make a trip once or twice a week.. price hasn't be discussed.
Few $500 ppm girls, but i don't think i will participate in that, unless I find an absolute smoke show that makes me forget how to think logically.
Ive gotten a few messages from 10s, but my net worth doesn't allow me to provide the lifestyle they want, so once I make that clear they go about their business. Once you ignore those ones there are a lot of good options for any guys in their mid 20s who happen to read this.
I do well on tinder, however this app, for a young guy with a little disposable money is like tinder on steroids. Tinder is oversaturated, and a lot of girls on there really just there for conversation/ distraction. What i accomplished in 2 days on SA would probably take 4 weeks on tinder. Chicks on there have already decided they are willing to meet for some money, so when it's potentially with a younger guy they connect with it's a win/win. They know you want sex, not a relationship aswell, whereas with tinder theres a lot of beating around the bush, and useless repetitive conversations.
It also seems like the milage on SA, for what I'll be spending will be far greater than agency sp's (and not in terms of raw sex, rather the removal of time constraints, and the enjoyment of the sex from both parties)
Obviously im not going to see all of these girls, I am coincidentally most attracted to the girl that doesn't want money, and I may try the $100/ week arrangement aswell, as that girl seems like my vibe and is also good looking.
In terms of negatives - far too many favourites from Venezuela/ brazil/ USA. Scrubs did warn me about this.
my biggest regret is not getting this app before, but when universities are fully reopen I'm sure it'll be be swarming... What a time to be alive.
Will probably post another story once my 1 month experiment on here ends, but so far so good.
Will be interested in how it goes. I just looked at the Sec Benefit stuff and see myself as more the Splenda Daddy vs Sugar since I am on the opposite of the age spectrum from you. I also enjoy intimacy and being a real person with personality vs just the usual sex stuff with a 10.
I was on SA but timing was bad as I was hesitant to meet during the COVID before I had been fully vaccinated. SA is expensive and I kind of like the token arrangement of SB but as an old boring guy who has no interest in the noise of modern music, drinking or clubbing I may experiment with it.
Since have been unable to travel to Canada till Aug 8th but still things are not back to normal "up there" am looking more for local gals a bit more than local strip clubs which are getting back to life slowly but with all new dancers. Am also researching a trip to TJ Mexico clubs which is far closer to me!
Sounds great. Those of us who are old geezers can't get these kind of bargains. Generally, 300 to 500 for an evening. Still SA is a good site if you want more of a connection than visiting an SP. You just have to be prepared to message a lot of women and deal with the fact that many will flake on you. I estimate that 80 percent will drop out of the site without meeting any guy.
Agree with everything you said. If you are a busy individual this app definitely isn't for you, a lot of dead end messages being sent back and forth.
I think you hit the nail on the head, and I want to be clear; I'm not getting those bargain offers from girls with 50,000 instagram followers, or the girls walking down King St on a saturday that almost have you break your neck.
Yes, I would definitely recommend trying it out!
There have been 4 extremely good looking girls that I have gotten messages from, and they all wanted to do dinner. One, who was really attractive offered 500 for sex or 350 if a dinner was involved. There was also a mind blowing duo, and a hottie from MTL who wanted to do dinner on Saturday, but I turned all 3 of them down, based off their looks I knew that was going to be a $500 bill, plus the price of admission.
I believe if you make your intentions clear on your profile you will be approached by those type of women without problem.
side note:
Just did a quick glance through my conversations,
$150 - 200 offered 6 times (have most of these girls on snap now)
$300 -400 2 times
$450- 500 6 times
90% of the girls indicate there is no time limit, they just go with the flow, or it's overnight. They don't want it to feel transactional. This automatically tends to be better bargain than SP's, however a lot more work and planning has to go into this endeavor. I'll likely still see SP's, but it will be in extreme circumstances.
If i had to guess, this would be out of ~ 40 messages, and 25 actual conversations.
A few of the girls in the 400 -500 range asked if their price was okay, meaning its probably up for negotiating, but i didn't bother and politely rejected.
The <200$ offers tend to come from university girls, or girls who by their own admission are attracted to me, and are working, just looking for a bit extra cash.
I am actually surprised with the number of seemingly normal girls there are in this city who are so open to trading sex for money in this intimate fashion, yet we still have it outlawed for
Just did a quick glance through my conversations,
$150 - 200 offered 6 times (have most of these girls on snap now)
$300 -400 2 times
$450- 500 6 times
90% of the girls indicate there is no time limit, they just go with the flow, or it's overnight. They don't want it to feel transactional. This automatically tends to be better bargain than SP's, however a lot more work and planning has to go into this endeavor. I'll likely still see SP's, but it will be a lot less than I did before.
If i had to guess, this would be out of ~ 40 messages, and 25 actual conversations.
A few of the girls in the 400 -500 range asked if their price was okay, meaning its probably up for negotiating, but i didn't bother and politely rejected.
The 200$ offers tend to come from university girls, or girls who by their own admission are attracted to me, and are working, just looking for a bit extra cash.
My brother, you and I need to start exchanging notes on SA. $150 meet up is insanely low price, maybe we can trade SBs or at least compare notes. Good find.
Meet ups with sex or for dinner and drinks?
I have used SA a few times and had no issues meeting girls I pay for a month sub and by the end of the month I have at least 10 girls that are ready to meet PPM for $300-$500 plus hotel room. I find that the girls I have met up with have all been hot 8+ and have had a great attitude. We tend to spend on average 2 hours and I find the time with them more enjoyable then most SPs.
