From Ontario's definition of 'criminal harassment'.
What behaviours comprise stalking?
Stalking can include a number of different behaviours intended to control and frighten the person being stalked. Most commonly, this can involve: - repeated telephone calls (the caller may hang up or remain silent on the line) to your home, cell phone or workplace in order to “track” your whereabouts - repeated letters or stealing mail - repeated emails [threatening or obscene e-mail or text messages; spamming (in which a stalker sends a victim a multitude of junk e-mail);
live chat harassment called flaming; leaving improper messages on message boards or in guest books;
She says leave her out of the conversation, you should apologize and do so, not start flaming her.
Since the argument has boiled down to your belief that you should be able to harass women and they should deal with it if they choose to dress nicely, you should at least read the law to find out at which point it becomes criminal.
And for the sake of argument, I know you don't consider your tactics harassment but then likely the Dundas and Yonge preachers with their megaphones also think the same thing.