Women do not make it very easy for men when it comes to dating.

[onomatopoeia]

Homeless people don't necessarily sleep on park benches or under bridges, and they often date each other. A lot of homeless men live at places like The Salvation Army or The Good Shepherd, or Seaton House, where people kicked out of the former two often end up. There are several of them in the Cabbagetown/ Regent Park/ Moss Park/ Corktown area.The womens' shelters are much more comfortable than the men's.

These places tend to have strict curfews for residents to report for the night. At the Sally Ann near Sherbourne and Queen East, those who miss curfew have to live outside for a month. I think guys living at The Good Shepherd, just north of Queen Street East and just east of Parliament Street, have to be in for the night by 7 PM, or something like that. Many of the homeless who spend their entire monthly government cheque by the 3rd of the month eat breakfast and lunch for free at The Good Shepherd, served to non residents between 9-11 AM and 2-4 PM. They get a lot of food donations there daily. For example, all of the unopened or partially eaten boxes from the First Class section of the VIA Rail trains end up there, and Starbuck's desserts that are too old to sell, but still fit for human consumption. 7-11 sandwiches don't end up there; the same ones stay on sale for months.

 

[onomatopoeia]

A buddy of mine used to say ”Homeless women are the best...you can drop them off anywhere”

You know someone's homeless if they're wearing a winter parka in the middle of July, (or they could be a Rapper), or if they're sitting buck naked in the laundromat.

Actually, many homeless people never do laundry. When the clothes they're wearing smell bad enough to offend their own nose, they throw them away, and get new free clean clothes from some charity.

 

[Jenesis]

I have two kids that I care for and raise (I'm not their dad but I am their guardian). The younger is now an early teens girl. She's being taught by social media, media, and her friends that the best way to deal with an uncomfortable situation with a boy is to simply "ignore the problem and it will go away", rather than address it. That both saddens and scares the hell out of me. Fear of even minor confrontation is not a success trait.

KK

So I missed this part so a little late but here it is......

Do you know what happens to a girl who rejects a boy? Do you know what women go through?

Yes - most women ignore men who pursue them because that is better then the possible outcome that can result for full out rejection.

I’m sorry that men are as abusive as they are and that does not negate abuse by women but for us, rejecting a person means possible rape, possible physical attack, possible social attack on SM, possible social attack at school or work, possible loss of job, possible loss of life.

So yes - girls are taught to ignore. Actually we are taught the “grey rock” method. Look it up. This is what we are taught to deal with abusers, with rejecting advances, with sexually exploitive bosses, etc.


It is safer for a woman to do nothing. That is how society is. What do you want us to do? Put out lives at risk so we can appear to have good manners?????


Do you think maybe men should be taught not to rape, not to abuse, how to deal with rejection, how to deal with their anger, how to not sexually assault women’s itch slaps on the ass as they walk by just trying to serve drinks at her minimum wage job????? Maybe that will help. Let’s teach men how to have good manners when dealing with women.

It no wonder why more women are looking to female relationships. They can’t handle men and their entitlements now-a-days.

Even this thread is an example of why we women need to grey rock. Stalkers come around and just wait for you to react to their lame attempts at baiting with insults. Some men can’t just walk away.

 

[lessjamie7]

did i just stumble onto an incel board?..............................men have never ghosted women..no,no not ever...and its never you, always them......yep thats a good way to introduce yourself to a woman.."hey you wanna fire up a dub"?

Get a hamster.

LJ

 

[Jenesis]

Firing up a dub is the best line to work with me. Just sayin’. LOL. That will get you 29 mins of free time. Then you can pay for the 30 mins of sex afterwards.

Don’t worry, I will bring my own weed. I’m just independent like that. LMAO!!!!

 

[onomatopoeia]

I think a big reason why a higher percentage of Millennial males are gay is because they'd rather bang a dude than have to put up with a radical feminist's drama.

 

[lessjamie7]

So I missed this part so a little late but here it is......

Do you know what happens to a girl who rejects a boy? Do you know what women go through?

Yes - most women ignore men who pursue them because that is better then the possible outcome that can result for full out rejection.

I’m sorry that men are as abusive as they are and that does not negate abuse by women but for us, rejecting a person means possible rape, possible physical attack, possible social attack on SM, possible social attack at school or work, possible loss of job, possible loss of life.

So yes - girls are taught to ignore. Actually we are taught the “grey rock” method. Look it up. This is what we are taught to deal with abusers, with rejecting advances, with sexually exploitive bosses, etc.


It is safer for a woman to do nothing. That is how society is. What do you want us to do? Put out lives at risk so we can appear to have good manners?????


Do you think maybe men should be taught not to rape, not to abuse, how to deal with rejection, how to deal with their anger, how to not sexually assault women’s itch slaps on the ass as they walk by just trying to serve drinks at her minimum wage job????? Maybe that will help. Let’s teach men how to have good manners when dealing with women.

I’m sorry that men are as abusive as they are.

Wouldn't want to live in your world.

LJ

 

[onomatopoeia]

Get a hamster.

LJ

I couldn't find an image of this online, but years ago, The Eye newspaper printed a picture of a real billboard that was near the Gardiner Expressway. It was for a pet store that had extended business hours. With a picture, the caption was "Need a gerbil after 9 PM on a Saturday"? That's a 100% true story.

 

[Jenesis]

I’m sorry that men are as abusive as they are.

Wouldn't want to live in your world.

LJ

Meh - I don’t think I would want to live as a man either. You have your issues too. Freeloading women, much higher expectations regarding profession and income baring, hard labour jobs, getting the shitty end of the stick when it comes to courts and your kids. Not to mention stereo types around mental illness, emotional issues which are natural but harder for men in my opinion to get addressed.

and there are many men who deal with abusive women as well without supports at all. And get arrested when they call the cops for protection.

We both have our shitty ends of the stick.

 

[onomatopoeia]

I’m sorry that men are as abusive as they are.

Wouldn't want to live in your world.

LJ

I wouldn't even want to visit.

 

[Jenesis]

A buddy of mine used to say ”Homeless women are the best...you can drop them off anywhere”

Sad as it may be, that was kind of a funny joke. I have to admit. LOL.

I mean at least he has some good manners to drop her somewhere. Now a days you are lucky if you are provided an Uber. LOL

 

[NotADcotor]

Get a hamster.

I did that once.
It ghosted me.
The feels brah, the feels.

 

[Josephine Grey]

Honestly you guys needs to stop with those dating apps. You perpetuate the fuckery. Get out and learn to approach a woman like a man. It was working 10yrs ago. Buy her a drink, show you are interested, ask questions, be a gentlemen and conquer her. Do an activity you like and obviously you will meet people with common interest and you can develop a friendship and maybe more.

This whole swipe right generation creates a bunch of high expectations cry babies that cannot handle rejection and it goes both ways. It also made a bunch of lazy people who cannot stand up and flirt if not behind a keyboard.

People consume people literally like they handle technology. They throw you away and buy a new one when it's not working. This is a sad pattern.

Wake up!

 

[Bumblaster]

Parts of this thread are fucking hilarious!!!!!! I spit out my coffee I was laughing so hard.

I think if you get ghosted you should be happy. It is clearly not a person that you want to have in your life.

I also have no problem telling people no. I think society hasn’t gotten scared of just saying no.

I have a friend who is in this position. She is terrified of confrontation. Like terrified. I learned the hard way when she did something pretty rude to me and I called her on it. She got physically sick from the anxiety and stress and I swear all I did was get firm with her and ask her directly to explain herself. So I let people ghost. It just doesn’t bother me. I would move on. But I’m different. I know this.


Maybe her prime reason was a sponsorship?????? Who knows. That happens more then hooking up with a western man because they are truly into them and want love and marriage and all that shit. Try asking her if you moved there for her if she would still want you. It is the same with Russia and many other parts of the world.

But as pointed out saying saying that women won’t date a homeless man..... what does that mean? She is a gold digger if she doesn’t? Are you trying to say there is no in between in westerns worlds? Only in third world countries? Would you date a homeless woman? I think not. So how are we suppose to take your opinion seriously with assumptions like this?

Women in the west do have the ability to be more choosy then those in third world countries. It not even just about money. Family obligations etc. They are more reasons. And I think you know this you just didn’t like how the debate was going. But whatev.

Actually, if she was hot I would date a homeless woman!, I wouldn't care that she didn't have any money. I know, how shallow of me but men care more about her physical appearance than how much money she has. The reverse is true in the case of females. It's biology - can't fight it.

Cheers
BB

 

[Jenesis]

Actually, if she was hot I would date a homeless woman!, I wouldn't care that she didn't have any money. I know, how shallow of me but men care more about her physical appearance than how much money she has. The reverse is true in the case of females. It's biology - can't fight it.

Cheers
BB

I will have to disagree with that. You might bang a homeless women but I can’t see anyone having a long term relationship with a homeless person.

Not without intervening and helping them off the street, etc.

And it is not money that is always the issue. It would be drugs, mental health issues, etc. Stop thinking we are always talking about money because we are not.

 

[Jasmina]

This isn't the blue board. Take that shit over there.

If anyone else wants to reuse my signature pic, the web address is shown in this screen cap:

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[Jasmina]

Please feel free to follow their example.

I think a big reason why a higher percentage of Millennial males are gay is because they'd rather bang a dude than have to put up with a radical feminist's drama.

 

[Leimonis]

in fairness I would hope that women don't make it easy when it comes to dating. Because an opposite of that would be a woman of my dreams (or sister/mother/daughter) willing to date some loser. Illusions of grandeur is a problem, but it is a different issue.

 

[Tashki]

in fairness I would hope that women don't make it easy when it comes to dating. Because an opposite of that would be a woman of my dreams (or sister/mother/daughter) willing to date some loser. Illusions of grandeur is a problem, but it is a different issue.

Even when it’s hard, Women are still dating losers. Makes no difference.

 

[Leimonis]

Even when it’s hard, Women are still dating losers. Makes no difference.

So losers can get dates but you can’t?