Well I know that, I don't even like the Canadian police very much. I have never been to Moscow. But for the Russian military 1.3M is nothing. The budget is about $62B USD. The VDay parade also has a role for peace. SHowing all the weapons is an important part of deterrence. It is now part of the Russian cultural identity. Toronto shut down the city to celebrate a basketball championship...
You wish. It was the "peace and remembering" for a few decades after the war, but it become more and more "Russia against the world who wants to get rid of us" propaganda and for the last 10 years it is just that. The unwillingness of the U.S. and Europe to deal with Russian problem (other than toothless sanctions) makes Russia become more militarised and bean a more dictatorship-style country, something like North Korea. Military parades in Russia are not about peace anymore, they are about war and showing that Russia can do what they want. Crimea, Donbas (eastern Ukraine), poisoning, Navalny arrest, declaring making Navalny's organisation to be a "terrorist organisation" for organising peaceful (actually peaceful, not U.S. style) protests - and all what was done are just toothless suctions. Yes, Biden called Putin a killer, but it was not an officially issued statement, just an answer to a question. Yet, there is no personal sanctions against Putin, no attempt to assets his assets and assets of his comrades, basically, nothing. Russians need help to get rid of the current government but it seems Western leaders are just hypocrites who are all talk but no actions.