excuse me, we just happen to be on the same thread...and that familiar tone and familiar posts is hard to miss...didn't even knew you were an SW thought you were just WKing...
What’s with all the attitude by SP’s
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Akila Besos
to the OP
Maybe provide a general text you would normally send to an SP...
Maybe its your delivery?
And to the SPs Who have commented with out knowing how he is communicating with them
Stop assuming its his fault.
I am very polite with my text and there are some REAL MISERABLE SPs out there
Maybe provide a general text you would normally send to an SP...
Maybe its your delivery?
And to the SPs Who have commented with out knowing how he is communicating with them
Stop assuming its his fault.
I am very polite with my text and there are some REAL MISERABLE SPs out there
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Akila Besos
OP can you explain more on the possible situation you experienced so we can understand this more clearly
It can get messy in an instance, If it's a text, any person can take it the wrong way. Nobody knows what took place in their communication. He could've start politely and ended with..."what's up with the rate increase?!" which in that case he deserves all the rudeness...
My guess, it is because many SP do not understand that it is business and take it personal. For example, in general trade you can ask a person/company about specific job and the costs and can even ask for a discount or bargain over a price even when all the information about their company, services, and prices are given on their website. Rarely they will be offended and often will write a polite detailed response in hope to get your business. The same type of email in the same circumstances sent to an SP will, mots likely, lead to a rude response. IMHO, it is because many SPs do not separate business from personal life and take personal offence from business correspondence. I am not sure if it is because of self-selection of people into their line of business, inexperience (many SP are young), lack of training on interpersonal skills. Ia m sure SPs will say that it is because there are too many bad people contacting them, but, even it may be a reason, it is not an excuse for the rude behaviour of SP herself. But, of course, it is only if you want to consider it from a business point of view.
Occasionally have encountered a rude response. That’s where my communication ends and I move on to someone more customer oriented. Though to avoid misunderstanding/ rude replies I keep my questions brief and to the point. I don’t try to engage in a long text exchange. “Hi X, I saw your ad/website and thought you liked and sounded great. Can you tell me about your rates/ location/ restrictions/ extras? I’m interested in making an appointment on date:time.”
Small talk, and repeated detailed questions, especially if already on an ad or website smells like a tire kicker/ time waster to most girls. So don’t be like that. Time texting/ talking/emailing where there is little chance an appointment costs them money.
Small talk, and repeated detailed questions, especially if already on an ad or website smells like a tire kicker/ time waster to most girls. So don’t be like that. Time texting/ talking/emailing where there is little chance an appointment costs them money.
You are assuming a lot in this post. 1) We dont know what he wrote that may have illicited that response IF it was indeed even a "rude" response 2) he generalizing ALL SPs as being rude 3) Nowhere did ANY person say all clients are dicks or was it even remotely inferred.
Personally, I've never had a bad experience with a rude SP.
Best advice I can provide is to first search for others who have reviewed the SP to see if they're someone who has a good rep. If that checks out, read their ad to see if they have specific requests of you when making first contact. I always start with a polite salutation, a description of my physical appearance, my age, and then request a specific day and time to book a session.
Best advice I can provide is to first search for others who have reviewed the SP to see if they're someone who has a good rep. If that checks out, read their ad to see if they have specific requests of you when making first contact. I always start with a polite salutation, a description of my physical appearance, my age, and then request a specific day and time to book a session.
Big mistake for sp’s. It’s a business treat your customers right or you may find yourselves without really piss someone off and your reputation if you had one could suffer
BUT you must be polite to the sp to begin with
BUT you must be polite to the sp to begin with
I've never received a rude reply to a rendezvous inquiry, but I rarely have correspondence with Escorts under 30 years old.
What I really do not understand is what SPs want to achieve by rude response regardless of what kind of communication they received. If they potentially want to see that person as a client, rude response will more likely turn him away and they will lose a client. If they do not wan to see him, why they respond at all (or say something other then "sorry, I am not accepting new clients in the near future") instead of simply put him on ignore for future communication. The only reason for SP to give a rude response is to show her frustration and, possibly, get involved into future rude communication with the same person. IMHO, it shows lack of professionalism and it is irrational. And, given that this hobby involves trust that neither both party will do crazy things, it would be wise to avoid SPs that behaves irrationally. Which, naturally, leads to a conclusion that we should avoid SPs who are rude in their communication even if such rudeness was provoked.
I encourage ladies to use text replacement on their phones.
You create an acronym and phrase. Then when you type acronym, the phrase types out automatically. It saves you from having to type your rates and services over and over and you can type them out in one nice polite response and no matter how annoyed you are, you come across as customer oriented and polite.
Won’t work for all questions but will for the most frequently asked ones. Rates, services, locations, hours working, restrictions and an all booked/not working/not available message. To list a few.
You create an acronym and phrase. Then when you type acronym, the phrase types out automatically. It saves you from having to type your rates and services over and over and you can type them out in one nice polite response and no matter how annoyed you are, you come across as customer oriented and polite.
Won’t work for all questions but will for the most frequently asked ones. Rates, services, locations, hours working, restrictions and an all booked/not working/not available message. To list a few.
Nothing in the original post suggesting he is doing something to deserve it.
However unless times have changed a lot since I was in the game [and nobody else is commenting on it] if this is happening a lot to the OP, it might be reasonable to assume that being the common factor, it could be him.
However unless times have changed a lot since I was in the game [and nobody else is commenting on it] if this is happening a lot to the OP, it might be reasonable to assume that being the common factor, it could be him.
A rude response comes from a perceived rude inquiry. I've said this before, the receiver is the perceiver. No matter what the intent is, if you're perceived as rude you're done.
Look at it this way- what do you want the outcome of your inquiry to be? If you want to spend time with someone, your communication needs to be polite and tailored to the style and format she wishes to be spoken to. Easy peasy! I've turned down dates for various reasons but never had a situation where I've been declined at the initial contact. There's a difference between "Hi, I'd like to fuck you for half an hour" and "Hi XXXX, my name is XXXX. I'm a fan of a torrid 30 minute tryst and wondering if that's something you'd be interested in?"
Look at it this way- what do you want the outcome of your inquiry to be? If you want to spend time with someone, your communication needs to be polite and tailored to the style and format she wishes to be spoken to. Easy peasy! I've turned down dates for various reasons but never had a situation where I've been declined at the initial contact. There's a difference between "Hi, I'd like to fuck you for half an hour" and "Hi XXXX, my name is XXXX. I'm a fan of a torrid 30 minute tryst and wondering if that's something you'd be interested in?"
