Why are most girls who put no black gentlemen on their adds end up being a scam or they take your money. I've noticed this not only me but other people too. Is there something behind this
No black gentlemen adds
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It depends who you ask. Most people here think its just based on personal experience of the SP. I only partially agree with that. I've seen plenty of ads that say "no black" and the provider has been reported as scamming or had a pimp. That's not a given though. Many SP's have their own personal preferences of intimacy, which is good for all involved. Let's remember too though, that sometimes even black SP's have that restriction. For any number of reasons.
Doesn't get me down, but I would say I am very conscious of it to make sure I am not seeing a provider who is not being taken advantage of, or who may try to take advantage of me. That doesn't mean they are up to no good. Example, I know a beautiful stripper who dabbles as an SP, and will not see black gentlemen. Its has nothing to do with scamming or anything negative. She explained her reasons and they were genuine and made sense to me. She has no problem dancing for anybody though including myself which I appreciate.
I know most dudes here don't want to talk about this, because quite frankly, it doesn't really affect them. But for me, its worth the discourse while we're on a message board.
So for all of my rambling, and to answer your question, it really depends on the provider.
Doesn't get me down, but I would say I am very conscious of it to make sure I am not seeing a provider who is not being taken advantage of, or who may try to take advantage of me. That doesn't mean they are up to no good. Example, I know a beautiful stripper who dabbles as an SP, and will not see black gentlemen. Its has nothing to do with scamming or anything negative. She explained her reasons and they were genuine and made sense to me. She has no problem dancing for anybody though including myself which I appreciate.
I know most dudes here don't want to talk about this, because quite frankly, it doesn't really affect them. But for me, its worth the discourse while we're on a message board.
So for all of my rambling, and to answer your question, it really depends on the provider.
And iam black and I've seen most girls who put no black gentlemen and the reason why most girls say they had a bad experience or some of them are pimps and even one girl told me most black guys make her uncomfortable except for me , she liked me
.There were a couple reasons. First, she mainly only had romantic relationships with black men and it made her feel a bit vulnerable dabbling in physical intimacy and faking feelings in situations where she might actually catch some. Second was the size thing. She said that she on average (despite what the internet says) that it was an issue to accommodate the size. Personally I'm average as hell, probably far below, so it shouldn't matter.
Lastly, she was already in a long term relationship with someone who would take greater offense. Those were her concerns and I respect them. She was a real cool chick. Smart, funny and had her head on straight. Hasn't been around for a while but I still think about her. Not in a weird way, but in a way like, she was fuckin smoking hot. LOL.
See the whole "pimps" thing and make them feel uncomfortable gets to me a bit. The small minority of times I've been exposed to pimps, they were white dudes posing with fake ass chains and straight bill hats, trying to stand out as much as possible. I mostly have fun at strip clubs, avoid massage as much as possible and only see SP's very rarely due to my personal situation. But when time permitted, the whole pimp thing wasn't predominately black. If anything it was middle eastern and white. But whatever. Its not up to me decide what a lady feels comfortable with. I just think the pimp excuse is lame in Ottawa. We're not in Montreal or the US.And iam black and I've seen most girls who put no black gentlemen and the reason why most girls say they had a bad experience or some of them are pimps and even one girl told me most black guys make her uncomfortable except for me , she liked me
No sorry I didn't express myself well. She's a dancer. Dancers have dancer game. She's not catching feeling for anything but money LOL. But it was the "chance" that she didn't want to play with because she was already in love with someone. I get it. Don't shit where you eat, basically.
And you're right I've also seen black SP put on their add no black men. So I guess black men put a bad reputation for themselves.
No, I'm not saying that at all. For the most part, I'm pretty sure black men in Ottawa (which is a government town) are no different than any other man. This is Ottawa, the fact that an SP would think a black client would be more of a risk than a white client absolutely doesn't hold water in my eyes. Like I said, this is not the US or Montreal. It's Ottawa. A big population with a small town mentality.
Usually SP's that say no black in this city are not locals. It's usually touring SP's or very very young SP's who I don't see anyways.
I guess that's true and some girls I notice when I say iam an older black gentleman they will see me. And don't like to see young black gents
Not necessarily.
Most of the Black SP who will put "no black" just don't want the risk of being in front of someone they know. So they will put the "no black" as a precaution.
I can understand that one cause I wouldn't be happy to run into a provider that know my real life/history.
I once to spoke a SP who posted NBG on her ad and when I asked about it, she said the only time she’s been ripped off or physically harmed was when she opened the door to a black dude. After that, no more.
BTW she’s got a review thread here and is still doing well.
BTW she’s got a review thread here and is still doing well.
This thread is going to get shut down. In Dallas about half the adds or more have a "No Black Men" policy. Yes it's blatant racism, but it's done because the many of the women have been scammed or treated poorly by black men so they use the racist filter. Don't other think this, it's not some bullshit about having a higher chance of knowing the person.
Fake adds in Canada often have this as it's a popular line with real providers, and the best faker is the best at imitating.
Fake adds in Canada often have this as it's a popular line with real providers, and the best faker is the best at imitating.
Physically harmed how like the guy punched her
. Damn I can understand now why someone would be scared don't blame her.
Damn I see. But an sp also told me some girls who scam people put no black men, because they know the black guy will fight for his money back if he got ripped of or money stolen.
Yes. That’s one reason I’ve heard as well. There are a multitude of reasons so I don’t try to decipher. I just ignore it now. Every sp has their reasons so I just keep on moving.
I've been told by someone that had NBG in their ad that the stereotypes are correct and that most black guys are packing some serious heat in their pants, and they simply can't fit during FS sessions. 
