Escorts are better than hookups

[Onepumpchump]

I went through a long process of learning game, I’m pretty attractive, when I go out to clubs I can normally take a girl home.

however, I don’t really like doing that. I don’t go to clubs anymore, I don’t even have tinder, I have no interest in meeting girls for hookups.

there is something so irreplaceable about escorts, it’s like when I text a service provider, the moment I get a response from them, my heart starts racing, I get anxiety, I start to tremble, and I go and meet them, I love not knowing exactly what I’m gonna get, but I always love them. Spinners, bbw, dark, light, anything, I don’t even care I love them all. The door opens for the first time, I give them my donation and I get overwhelmed with euphoria in all of my senses before even starting, and to be honest.. I usually cum within a few seconds with escorts... but when I hookup with just a hot girl from a club, I can last pretty much as long as I want, and then I cum on demand after she is done.

and I’m not even into weird fetishes, anytime I see an sp it’s just a slow, sensual bj or cowgirl/doggy style. I’m very respectful, and the providers always appreciate me. So it’s not like it’s really all that different than a hookup.

Even the bad encounters, I don’t regret in the slightest.
im genuinely in love with escorts.
Is there anyone else on here who feels this way?

 

[RichardG2020]

I went through a long process of learning game, I’m pretty attractive, when I go out to clubs I can normally take a girl home.

however, I don’t really like doing that. I don’t go to clubs anymore, I don’t even have tinder, I have no interest in meeting girls for hookups.

there is something so irreplaceable about escorts, it’s like when I text a service provider, the moment I get a response from them, my heart starts racing, I get anxiety, I start to tremble, and I go and meet them, I love not knowing exactly what I’m gonna get, but I always love them. Spinners, bbw, dark, light, anything, I don’t even care I love them all. The door opens for the first time, I give them my donation and I get overwhelmed with euphoria in all of my senses before even starting, and to be honest.. I usually cum within a few seconds with escorts... but when I hookup with just a hot girl from a club, I can last pretty much as long as I want, and then I cum on demand after she is done.

and I’m not even into weird fetishes, anytime I see an sp it’s just a slow, sensual bj or cowgirl/doggy style. I’m very respectful, and the providers always appreciate me. So it’s not like it’s really all that different than a hookup.

Even the bad encounters, I don’t regret in the slightest.
im genuinely in love with escorts.
Is there anyone else on here who feels this way?

You have an awesome attitude, and I bet the ladies really do appreciate it.

I also have a deep and sincere appreciation for SP’s. Many of these ladies have brought me a great deal of happiness and indelible memories.

I have a positive attitude, but definitely can’t match your level of enthusiasm. I hope it never wanes for you.

 

[Gstep]

Is it shilly in here or is it just me...?

It's just that a lot of what your saying about escorts can apply to hookups as well.

"I see an sp it’s just a slow, sensual bj or cowgirl/doggy style"
Also how is that any different than a hookup? Heck you even say it yourself, that it's "not all that different than a hookup"

And the way you say some things, feels like a promotion.

That said, I don't mean to be totally dismissive of you. I do get that there are things that makes the experience with an escort different and more exciting. Not to mention the sex is often better then the average hookup as well. Should be no surprise though that is their job.

 

[Jenesis]

Is it shilly in here or is it just me...?

It's just that a lot of what your saying about escorts can apply to hookups as well.

"I see an sp it’s just a slow, sensual bj or cowgirl/doggy style"
Also how is that any different than a hookup? Heck you even say it yourself, that it's "not all that different than a hookup"

And the way you say some things, feels like a promotion.

That said, I don't mean to be totally dismissive of you. I do get that there are things that makes the experience with an escort different and more exciting. Not to mention the sex is often better then the average hookup as well. Should be no surprise though that is their job.

Seem to me like he is saying he likes the thrill of the unknown with an escort more then the trill of the chase with a hook up.

At least that is the difference that I got from the post.

And as you say, the sex is usually better. Which I would attribute to practice and experience.

So with those two combined, his posts seems very logically actually.

 

[Boss Nass]

When I was a kid we had a saying: the difference between free sex and sex you pay for is that free sex costs more. Often true. Might take half a dozen nights of wining and dining before you get lucky, but with an escort it's cheaper and quicker. And no feeling of commitment.

 

[Fun For All]

Seem to me like he is saying he likes the thrill of the unknown with an escort more then the trill of the chase with a hook up.

At least that is the difference that I got from the post.

And as you say, the sex is usually better. Which I would attribute to practice and experience.

So with those two combined, his posts seems very logically actually.

That was his opinion!

It's nice to be with someone who actually likes you and who has chosen to be with you because they do like you and not just paying to pretend.

 

[Tomoreno]

I sympathize with OP because a lot of it applies to me. Meeting with women and instantly connecting isn't new for me but there are plenty of strings attached and once in a while, drama. I've been off the dating market for years and looking for a fling on the side isn't an option really... simply no time or desire for that and it's not a cheap option by any stretch.
Escorts for me is a perfect option to supplement. Home cooking is just fine but once in a while there's that urge to dine out. Women in relationships usually get too comfortable and emotions we once had are no longer there. Even intimate moments become a routine. Joy and excitement are no longer on par with what I want. Some lucky dudes have a partner who's open minded and exploring new options and paths to better experiences is their way of staying on top.
As kids we used to get excited about every little thing and with every passing year it's harder to be excited for anything, been there done that.
For me, time is luxury these days. An hour or two here and there. The rest of the time is work and other obligations. SPs is a no brainer for someone like me. And yeah, I do feel like a little kid again at Willy Wonka factory. Which candy do I eat?
It's also very important to remember that you're not getting a THING. All these ladies are people with feelings, emotions, virtues and flaws. Respect is always a 2 way street. Play nice, be safe and rewards will be there.
Cheers

 

[John Wick]

When I was a kid we had a saying: the difference between free sex and sex you pay for is that free sex costs more. Often true. Might take half a dozen nights of wining and dining before you get lucky, but with an escort it's cheaper and quicker. And no feeling of commitment.

You were having deep, introspective conversations about sex with hookers vs. civvies 'when you were a kid'? Let me guess - you grew up deep in the Appalachian mountains and married your sister at age 9?

 

[xmontrealer]

At my age I wouldn't want to have sex with any non-working lady who would be willing to have sex with me!

Sort of like that old Groucho Marx joke: "I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member."

 

[Tomoreno]

One negative of meeting SP is not knowing where it'll take place until last moment. It adds a bit of suspense. Also, when meeting someone for the first time and knowing you're on a clock, it's not always easy to get into the right mindset. I find it hard to relax 100% because a part of you is on guard. Some men are able to go for MSOG, but I'll be lucky if I shoot just 1. Something about combination of having a dome on and being in an unfamiliar place makes it a challenge. That, however, resulted in one of the best orgasms I ever had. After a long session she was determined to drain me. During an amazing BBBJ i felt like popping but something inside me just wouldn't let go as if i had a shutter in my penis. I was on the edge for close to 2-3 minutes and finally blew my load. CIMSW made it unforgettable. I've never shot this hard ever before.
So some negatives may become a positive.

 

[malata]

it's the anticipation of first encounter of the wet kind

 

[Gentlemoan]

Every encounter with an SP for me is like meeting a new girl friend. I am no so good at hook ups, so no regrets.

 

[Fun For All]

Every encounter with an SP for me is like meeting a new girl friend. I am no so good at hook ups, so no regrets.

Wow...so all your girlfriends kick you out after an hour and a few hundred dollars?

 

[Jenesis]

That was his opinion!

It's nice to be with someone who actually likes you and who has chosen to be with you because they do like you and not just paying to pretend.

I agree that was his opinion. That is what I was saying. I replying to poster who was implying the OP was basically kissing ass. I was explaining what I thought his opinion was.

I never said that people won’t have a differing opinions. I was just clarifying his.

 

[GameBoy27]

That was his opinion!

It's nice to be with someone who actually likes you and who has chosen to be with you because they do like you and not just paying to pretend.

My sentiments exactly. SPs aside, it's women who make the decision as to who they have sex with. Let's face it, if it was easy to have no strings attached sex with any female we want, there wouldn't be much of a demand for SPs.

The way I see it, there's nothing more satisfying than when a civie is totally into you and begging for you to fuck her. Beats here's some money, I will fuck you now any day. Probably why I don't see SPs.

 

[Fun For All]

I agree that was his opinion. That is what I was saying. I replying to poster who was implying the OP was basically kissing ass. I was explaining what I thought his opinion was.

I never said that people won’t have a differing opinions. I was just clarifying his.

All I'm saying is that his opinion doesn't represent everyone...

 

[NiceShoes]

After all, sex is all psychological, whatever turns you on for that given moment.

 

[Fun For All]

After all, sex is all psychological...

You mean it's just a mind-fuck?

 

[jalimon]

That was his opinion!

It's nice to be with someone who actually likes you and who has chosen to be with you because they do like you and not just paying to pretend.

I feel for the OP. And can certainly relate. But it's true that nothing beats a girl that choose to have sex with you. That's why I suggest to wait until you are in your 40's to hobby. You can try it out before to gain some experience and confidence sexually but hobby too much younger will send you on a path that could make you miss important things in life. Having a wife/gf and kids being one of them.

Now when you reach 40 and older a big problem arise. At least if you are like me being 50 but stuck in a sex craving mindset of a 21 year old... And like most my ex was as interested at having sex with me as she would have had watching a Russian documentary on the bio-culture of sugar beets. So yes that problem of no sex lead to a divorce.

Since it's been bing bam boum with SP and arrangement all the way! Like the OP im also genuinely in love with escorts.

 

[Tomoreno]

No one should wait for a certain age to do anything. Just be honest with yourself and do what feels right, whatever it may be in life. Why regret wanting to do something and not pulling the trigger? Too often we don't pursue our passions and desires. Can't, won't, afraid, not popular or perhaps it's supposedly wrong. We all have different reasons for this hobby. What applies to you may be far from the truth for me. We're all different.