Thoughts on this enquiry response?

[LC18]

We just have no way to know who’s serious and who’s not. If I received a message like this I would have probably ignored it because it’s not “relevant”. It’s my booking number so if you are not trying to book you shouldn’t use it.

If the man is genuinely interested, I believe he will send a second message and inquire about a date.

With this reply, there’s no way he would ever re contact her :/

 

[jalimon]

I view every interaction with a prospective client as an opportunity for financial gain. Sometimes you just bite your lip and play the game.

Exactly. I sometime go further and show my team that a correctly fixed problem/issue with a client or potential client will very often turn them into your best and most loyal client.

 

[The Oracle]

Exactly. I sometime go further and show my team that a correctly fixed problem/issue with a client or potential client will very often turn them into your best and most loyal client.

Very well said sir

 

[Samranchoi]

Where did you yank THIS pearl from?

AFAIK, the "rule" is that a woman is allowed to make whatever rules she wants about choosing her clientele. I have heard some other WOMEN say this is "racism", but few guys.

And if a guy says he doesn't want to see black women, what's his reasoning and what are the specifics? Did he say he's into Asians? Likes blondes? That's a lot different from saying he things Blacks are "inferior" or something racist like that. We all have favourite types of escorts we like to see, based on looks.

Here you go:

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/busty-women.720485/

 

[kherg007]

Strewth! This kind of thread gives me an opening again to shamelessly sing the praises of the dinkie die Canadian ebony ladies!! Fair dinkum!! LOL

 

[mandrill]

Here you go:

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/busty-women.720485/

Now what exactly are you expecting to prove with that link?

A TERB newbie gives a huge shopping list of expectations and then says he's not interested in black women. No reason given. Guys pretty much ignore him and talk about how amazing black women are for the rest of the thread.

What should they have done?.... Hold a drumhead court martial into why he doesn't want to see black women and then refer him for counseling? Seriously?!?!

 

[mandrill]

Strewth! This kind of thread gives me an opening again to shamelessly sing the praises of the dinkie die Canadian ebony ladies!! Fair dinkum!! LOL

Opening the size of a pin hole and cobber's off and running!! - LOL!

 

[Samranchoi]

Now what exactly are you expecting to prove with that link?

A TERB newbie gives a huge shopping list of expectations and then says he's not interested in black women. No reason given. Guys pretty much ignore him and talk about how amazing black women are for the rest of the thread.

What should they have done?.... Hold a drumhead court martial into why he doesn't want to see black women and then refer him for counseling? Seriously?!?!

Why not, many women are called racists when in fact they probably are not when they have the no black restriction stated. There is a double standard on this board and that is the point. Sooner or later another thread will be started about how a provider is racist and she will receive so much negative comments over that. What this guy did was just as bad or worse as when he says, “Please not interested in ebony women”. But he gets a pass because he is a guy.

Out of all the posts where it has been said, could have or but, she made the choice to respond the way she did and did not provide any indication who the guy was. There was nothing wrong with her response but certainly there was with the guy above. Discounting women just because they are ebony

 

[luvyeah]

Why not, many women are called racists when in fact they probably are not when they have the no black restriction stated. There is a double standard on this board and that is the point. Sooner or later another thread will be started about how a provider is racist and she will receive so much negative comments over that. What this guy did was just as bad or worse as when he says, “Please not interested in ebony women”. But he gets a pass because he is a guy.

Out of all the posts where it has been said, could have or but, she made the choice to respond the way she did and did not provide any indication who the guy was. There was nothing wrong with her response but certainly there was with the guy above. Discounting women just because they are ebony

Is it also prejudice to say "please not interested in curvy women", thats fat shaming right?
Everyone loves to point fingers and quickly call opposing opinions, racists or Nazis.

It's very much different than saying, I don't wanna fuck "a fat whale" or "an adolescence boy".


Everyone has a preference and it doesn't mean you're racist or a bigot if you politely state it.
I encourage you to educate yourself: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness

 

[Samranchoi]

Is it also prejudice to say "please not interested in curvy women", thats fat shaming right?
Everyone loves to point fingers and quickly call opposing opinions, racists or Nazis.

Everyone has a preference and it doesn't mean you're racist or a bigot if you politely state it.
I encourage you to educate yourself: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness

I agree with you but the comment made was “please not interested in ebony women”. It can be a preference or it could be a racist attitude. If a women states on her ad “please no black clients” many guys on this board label her as a racist and one idiot said the agency should fire her. Men and women have preferences in who they see. Why shouldn’t a provider be allowed to let others know what she doesn’t want to receive from clients.

 

[luvyeah]

I agree with you but the comment made was “please not interested in ebony women”. It can be a preference or it could be a racist attitude. If a women states on her ad “please no black clients” many guys on this board label her as a racist and one idiot said the agency should fire her. Men and women have preferences in who they see. Why shouldn’t a provider be allowed to let others know what she doesn’t want to receive from clients.

I actually had a conversation recently with a provider about this sort of thing, and they faced a lot of heat because they ask for age and ethnicity, as they always have - but because it was shortly after the Floyd incident, many were quick to jump the gun and deem her a racist. Despite never having a "please no black clients" in her ad and seeing anyone respectful.

If you look hard enough, you'll interpret and find everyone has something that could resemble a racist attitude.
People claim lots of things, most of it means nothing and has no merit.

Why would I care if someone brands anyone a racist, but can't provide evidence?

 

[kherg007]

I think give we're visual creatures, that means for good or ill appearance matters in this line of work (and resources expended based upon this, be it ethnic, size of boobs, bums, or other festivities upon which to be engaged). Thus I'm inclined to give blokes and ladies wide latitude on their preferences before getting anywhere near the "r" word. Maybe things get stated un-artfully, but that's all it was. My concern was that the recs i made are ladies I so adore thus I felt bad the OP would miss out on their charms.

 

[The Oracle]

You can carry the sales analogy too far though. If this girl is charging $500 per hour, she needs 4 client-hours per week to generate a cash income of $100,000 and she may be uninterested in working any more. That means she needs a core client group of 8-10 guys and some add-ins each month to replace attrition and round up the $$$$.

If you need less than 0.1% of the potential client pool to operate your business at a $100,000 p.a. profit, why bother being nice to people?[/QUOTE

Why bother being nice to people? How about treating people the way you want to be treated.

I understand your I'll call it black and white no nonsense point of view here as well though.

I've just adjusted to a more hopeful and positive approach as I've aged when dealing with people I guess.

If they let me down why that's on them I figure. I just keep on moving.......

 

[fall]

I agree with you but the comment made was “please not interested in ebony women”. It can be a preference or it could be a racist attitude. If a women states on her ad “please no black clients” many guys on this board label her as a racist and one idiot said the agency should fire her. Men and women have preferences in who they see. Why shouldn’t a provider be allowed to let others know what she doesn’t want to receive from clients.

The difference is that the client is a person, while SP is both a person and commodity. In regular business, It would be racist to refuse black clients or to refuse a service from a black sale person, but it is not racist to chose the product the person buys. So, if someone refuse to go to a massage studio because the receptionist there is black or refuse to call an agency because the owner or phone girl is black - it is racism. Is someone do not want to have sex with black person - it is personal preferences. So, there is nothing racist in clients refusing black SPs. With SPs who refuse black clients because of personal sex preferences, it can also be seeing as non-racist as long as it is believed that nonmonetary cost of business (i.e., girl unwillingness to have sex with strangers) is higher if such stranger is black. I guess, if SPs could price differentiate, many would have had different fees based of ethnicity, age, and fitness state of the clients (e.g., a fat black old guy is a much harder job then a fit white mid-age dude, hence, the price for the job must be different)

 

[sp free]

The “no black gents” is about BEHAVIOUR.

 

[mandrill]

Why not, many women are called racists when in fact they probably are not when they have the no black restriction stated. There is a double standard on this board and that is the point. Sooner or later another thread will be started about how a provider is racist and she will receive so much negative comments over that. What this guy did was just as bad or worse as when he says, “Please not interested in ebony women”. But he gets a pass because he is a guy.

Out of all the posts where it has been said, could have or but, she made the choice to respond the way she did and did not provide any indication who the guy was. There was nothing wrong with her response but certainly there was with the guy above. Discounting women just because they are ebony

The overwhelming attitude on this board to women having a "no black gents" policy is that it's such an intimate personal choice that it's not appropriate to discuss whether the escort is racist or not. Now this bright line has glimmered a little over the last couple of years and may flicker even more in the wake of George Floyd, but it still represents the mainstream view.

 

[Lovely_Lovelynn]

Honestly, I lose my shit on time wasters on a regular basis.

Can I handle things in a better way?

Of course!

Will I going forward?

Probably not.

 

[Lovely_Lovelynn]

She confirms she's in only for the business. I am out.

That's why I tend to only see girl that do not consider escorting a real job. And why I see many girl that are supposedly "retired"

Bless your delusional heart.

This is a job.

YOU contact US, not the other way around.



End of story.

 

[kherg007]

But isn't the fantasy part of the gig, the thing that separates the great ladies from the also-rans? I've used the metaphor pro WWE wrestling for this industry - don't ask if it's real, only ask if you were entertained. If an actor in a play just read their lines...then said hey im only paid to read the lines - you'd say the play sucked. Part of the fantasy is the undivided attention of a lady out of your league. If you got half a working brain you know not to think she's wanting to date you for real. Just enjoy the ride, and let it take yourself to a different place. My A team ladies do that they bloody well make time stop. I don't feel my age around them. That's why they get my ...attention, and why I happily stand up and recommend them because they deserve it for knocking the socks off an old bugger like me.

However, in defence of the ladies, we blokes gotta make it easy for them to create the fantasy by understanding it's a biz and not ring them at all hours and only reach out if serious about booking.

 

[tesla-tesla]

Bless your delusional heart.

This is a job.

YOU contact US, not the other way around.



End of story.

We contact you only because you advertise to us.
This is a job where you are a sales woman and trying to ensure clients will come back so you have to package yourself and have a retain a certain image.
I never go back to SPs who are in just for a quick buck (not personable and don't actually love sex).