Seeing an SP you recognize from "real life"

[c0rpse]

There must be a thread about this, but I can't find it.

What's the consensus on seeing a SP who you know from real life? Is it creepy? I mean, it kinda is. But it's also so fucking hot.

Long story short I ran across an agency girl that I 100% used to work with. Not directly, at least not exactly, but she definitely knows me. We worked on a few projects together.I never really thought of her in a sexual way... Until I realized it was her And now my mind is running wild. TBH she was kind of a jerk and not in a sexy way.

So what would you do? Just book and show up? Contact her in advance?

I was always kind of hoping this would happen.

And don't worry, this is all post covid! Just planning ahead ?

 

[jckyoung]

Let her know ahead of time. If you show up and she decides she doesn't want to see you what Then. Waste of time and effort. But yes do it. It is hot.

 

[luvyeah]

This is a good question. The obvious answer is don't mix the two, fight club is fight club and we don't discuss it private life.

Firstly why would you want to see her if she was a jerk?

I know one girl that told me guys from her high school tried to book her and she wouldn't allow it. It depends on how open they are about the work.

I'd be inclined to just show up, but I'm a shit disturber and don't mind an adventure. She could just recognize you and not even open the door. Now you both have a secret. Or you could fuck and catch up, maybe extend this civie relationship if you can both be mature about it with guidelines. You guys fuck and there is regret, and now you both have a secret.

Go for it don't tell her ahead of time and then enlighten us. Everyone needs a surprise in their life.
Plus the urgency to open the door or risk giving up a potential hour of pay is on your side.

How can she out you?
If you can out her?

 

[grandtheft]

don't be a jerk, if you have to ask us obviously no don't do it

 

[kherg007]

Yair wouldn't do it. She'll also know that you engage in this life...and that might come back to haunt you.

And if you did it as a surprise, knowing who she is, be prepared to pay something if you get refused. It would only be fair.

If it was accidental - you did not know the lady "Mia" who you booked was actually "Sally" who you knew from accounting - and you get refused - that's not your fault and nothing should be exchanged.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

9/10 the fantasy is better then the reality. Maybe just keep it to that.

With her being an agency girl, do you even have a way to contact her?

If you insist on seeing her, make sure you can contact her first. It is the respectful thing to do and I am sure you are a gentleman by nature and would want to be respectful of her choice in this matter.

 

[daytimelover]

Don't do anything unless you are alone with her. Happen to me at a entrance of a condo it was just me and her, we said hello, she gave me a hug and we parted ways, no one else was around.

 

[DaleyDDD]

You’ve made the connection already but she hasn’t. The last thing you want to do is show up at the door and send her into a panic. You have no way of knowing how she will react and it could go very poorly for both of you. Same goes for if you piece together that you have a neighbour (just for example) that you find in an ad.

I had an old boss show up at my door during my agency days and neither of us knew before we were face to face (I did make the decision to open the door when I realized it was him). But we did take a moment to make sure we were both comfortable with the situation. (We knew a lot of personal information about one another...this is very risky).

And for those wondering, the fantasy wasn’t all that.

Whether you pursue a date or not, transparency is key.

 

[shack]

There must be a thread about this, but I can't find it.

What's the consensus on seeing a SP who you know from real life? Is it creepy? I mean, it kinda is. But it's also so fucking hot.

Long story short I ran across an agency girl that I 100% used to work with. Not directly, at least not exactly, but she definitely knows me. We worked on a few projects together.I never really thought of her in a sexual way... Until I realized it was her And now my mind is running wild. TBH she was kind of a jerk and not in a sexy way.

So what would you do? Just book and show up? Contact her in advance?

I was always kind of hoping this would happen.

And don't worry, this is all post covid! Just planning ahead ��

I'm going against everyone else. Play innocent and that way she could not consider it creepy. Just practise your look of surprise

Someone else mentioned her keeping your money. Pretty sure that won't happen. The topic of feeling comfortable or not will come up as soon as the recognition hits. Again, you play innocent and say you are comfortable if she is. If she says she is, then hand over the money. If she says no, you walk and the money never left your pocke.

And as far as the wasted time factor, you will know going in that she might not be good with it.

And actually, it might be an extra hot session if she looks at it as a bit kinky.

Very little down side.

 

[Tashki]

This has happened to me several times before but mostly with MPAs and Strippers.

I've been knocked down by rejection from so many beautiful women in my life; I'm talking about over a hundred of them. I happened to stumble across some of those same women at massage parlours and strip clubs. I'm thankful that those women were sex workers. Otherwise, they're would have been no way for me to been able to spend time with those beautiful sexy women. I don't regret it at all.

The whole point of me coming into this hobby is to spend time with women that I would not have never been able to get in my personal life and to spend time with the women that I have failed to get in my personal life. It goes to show how much power money really has.

 

[MrPrezident]

Just wear glasses like Clark Kent. Nobody ever recognized him.

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