My budget is 10-12K a year for pooning. Is that enough to join Seeking Arrangments?

[4pack]

Thinking of joining Seeking Arrangements but not sure if my budget is enough. My hopes would be more of a pay for play or someone that I see two to three times a month. I know I'm nowhere near 'Sugar' status but I've heard some good things about the website. The downsides would be the time involved and all the flakes. The upside would be the hidden 'gems' but that takes a lot of effort and I really don't know if my budget of 10-12K a year is enough to be honest. Don't have a lot of spare time but can't really seem to find what I'm looking for on LL. For those that are on SA, how much you usually spend a year on there? I know it's YMMV but curious about it. I've seen some agency girls on there so I know it's not all non-pros.

Yes I did post a thread recently about if retiring with a million will be enough in 2038 but that was already factoring 10-12k a year I spend on this.

 

[koreanjames]

There’s only one way to know for sure - try and find out.

Also based on your threads you seem like a reasonably smart guy re finances, are asking the right questions and are thinking ahead. Don’t cut yourself short asking if 10k is Enough to play in the SA scene. Somehow I feel that it’s a lot larger then many peoples hobbying budgets

 

[squeezer]

I think you may find it difficult with a budget of only $1000 a month. I pay $300 to $350 for overnighters but I make sure I see each lady, (3 ladies at the moment) at least twice to 3 times a month plus I supplement my activities with escorts. It took me a while to find hot young ladies that were ok with this arrangement. Luckily I've been able to keep these 3 happy so far. You also need to factor in entertainment expenses and if you require a hotel or will you be hosting at your place.

 

[shack]

That is enough.

I had one girl on monthly at $800. I always start PPM since who can make a monthly commitment without meeting and knowing what the compatibility level is, including sexual compatibility. I started seeing an 18 year old foreign student from Russia a few weeks ago. $250/meet. She's very horny and loves smoking pot.

Admittedly, a lot of girls want more, but if you are careful and smart it is doable. Get them to name their price first. And, as squeezer alluded to, it depends on the frequency of visits.

 

[Ben19]

Yes it is possible. I have tried that site and there are girls that would be okay with that just depends what you are interested in.

Edit: I will add though that you will need a significant time investment there to find what you are looking for. Most girls are okay with meeting wtihout any commitments so there is no monetary cost other than the drinks/coffe for the meet to see the girls. Just be warned there are alot of immature "unstable" people there.

 

[squeezer]

That is enough.

I had one girl on monthly at $800. I always start PPM since who can make a monthly commitment without meeting and knowing what the compatibility level is, including sexual compatibility. I started seeing an 18 year old foreign student from Russia a few weeks ago. $250/meet. She's very horny and loves smoking pot.

Admittedly, a lot of girls want more, but if you are careful and smart it is doable. Get them to name their price first. And, as squeezer alluded to, it depends on the frequency of visits.

Perhaps I'm looking at it from a different perspective. Even at $250 a night that's 4 nights in 30 days if he sees her once a week. This is definitely possible but looking at it from my greedy POV, I can't live happily ever after with sex only 4 times a month. LOL

 

[doggystyle99]

Thinking of joining Seeking Arrangements but not sure if my budget is enough. My hopes would be more of a pay for play or someone that I see two to three times a month. I know I'm nowhere near 'Sugar' status but I've heard some good things about the website. The downsides would be the time involved and all the flakes. The upside would be the hidden 'gems' but that takes a lot of effort and I really don't know if my budget of 10-12K a year is enough to be honest. Don't have a lot of spare time but can't really seem to find what I'm looking for on LL. For those that are on SA, how much you usually spend a year on there? I know it's YMMV but curious about it. I've seen some agency girls on there so I know it's not all non-pros.

Yes I did post a thread recently about if retiring with a million will be enough in 2038 but that was already factoring 10-12k a year I spend on this.

4pack check your PM.

 

[riskybusiness]

Just about possible. Used to see a SB for $300 for the evening (didn't want her staying overnight) and saw her about 3 times per month. So with dinner it was about $1200 per month.

 

[Garrett]

That is, like, 3,000 McDonald's Happy Meals so you should be good.

 

[shack]

Perhaps I'm looking at it from a different perspective. Even at $250 a night that's 4 nights in 30 days if he sees her once a week. This is definitely possible but looking at it from my greedy POV, I can't live happily ever after with sex only 4 times a month. LOL

It depends on the individual, obviously. If he's determined to keep to his budget and can get by with once a week, then it's doable.

 

[LickingGravity]

Doable maybe, but the odds are long if you want to meet attractive women. Most know their "value" in a no-strings arrangement somehow.

 

[squeezer]

Doable maybe, but the odds are long if you want to meet attractive women. Most know their "value" in a no-strings arrangement somehow.

That is the thing, everyone has a different value perspective for themselves and of others.

Many of us have been doing fine ranging from $250 to $350 and I'll put my SB's looks and sexuality up against any of the overpriced indy's any day. There is actually no comparison in my opinion.

Also worth mentioning is SB's come with the highest ymmv component. Much has to do with who you are and how you present yourself. If they do not feel comfortable with the SD, the money doesn't matter, they still walk away.

 

[shack]

Also worth mentioning is SB's come with the highest ymmv component. Much has to do with who you are and how you present yourself. If they do not feel comfortable with the SD, the money doesn't matter, they still walk away.

So you're saying that you still have to have some game. I find that to be part of the thrill. They are not a guarantee. It is still a bit of a conquest.

 

[shack]

Part of your SA budget....

….should include the cost of the membership. $90USD/$125CDN per month. That's over 10% of a $10,000 budget.

 

[kherg007]

It's one of those questions though...a bit impossible to disconfirm....like Steven Wright's line about "everywhere in the world is walking distance, if you have the time."

It is of course enough...but....for how much? If you had a goal of one sleepover per week for the entire year....gunna be super tight if not impossible unless you get super lucky. If one per month, no problem. I suppose time to factor all that in...at 250-300 ph you get 40-48 SP visits, or almost one per week. Thus, like many things in life, it becomes a maths problem. Good luck!

 

[BAMan 55]

Lots of information (good and bad) in this thread.

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...ement-My-advice&highlight=seeking+arrangement

 

[J.A. Prufrock]

….should include the cost of the membership. $90USD/$125CDN per month. That's over 10% of a $10,000 budget.

Didn't realize it was that much, slightly more than $1,000 per year U.S. I sometimes ponder it, now in my 50s, being with a young attractive co-ed type, and they seem to be plentiful on this site. But I don't know if I'll ever go through with it. Just seems like a lot of hoops to jump through, a time-consuming process to find the right one and the potential for ROBs, noise and headaches. Of course, the end reward is great.
So much more easier and convenient to see an SP or MPA, though. Maybe I'm just lazy.

 

[shack]

Didn't realize it was that much, slightly more than $1,000 per year U.S. I sometimes ponder it, now in my 50s, being with a young attractive co-ed type, and they seem to be plentiful on this site. But I don't know if I'll ever go through with it. Just seems like a lot of hoops to jump through, a time-consuming process to find the right one and the potential for ROBs, noise and headaches. Of course, the end reward is great.
So much more easier and convenient to see an SP or MPA, though. Maybe I'm just lazy.

I have a girl (just took her home) and I've transitioned her from a SB to fuck buddy.

I have another girl, we have never met, who agreed to come to my place for a first date tomorrow. There has been zero discussion of money to this point. Maybe not good enough for the sharks, but for the nice girls just trying to make a few extra bucks, if you are polite, respectful and witty they will meet you. Not too many hoops.

 

[LickingGravity]

I have another girl, we have never met, who agreed to come to my place for a first date tomorrow. There has been zero discussion of money to this point. Maybe not good enough for the sharks, but for the nice girls just trying to make a few extra bucks, if you are polite, respectful and witty they will meet you. Not too many hoops.

I agree with this. The woman I am currently living with I met as an SB. The on

The only downside was in order get her to quit her job so she could travel with me in the winter it cost about the same as a wife :biggrin:

 

[squeezer]

I have another girl, we have never met, who agreed to come to my place for a first date tomorrow.

You have bigger balls than me! I would never have them come to my place on the first meeting. I've come across during my search many bipolar ladies who I would have to sleep with one eye open if they knew where I lived. LOL