Would an escort notice if she lost a regular client?

[Euro Male]

Why is mutual respect and empathy seemingly such a controversial concept around here?

Bro, it ain't brain-surgery . . . . .

You'll get it if you ever get PM's from good guys, sweet dudes who've been Scorch'd! Lot of these guys are socially awkward --- painfully shy! Hitting the streets, malls, gyms, clubs to hook-up with the honey-babies totally freaks them out, they're scared shitless!

In many cases, inhabiting the SW world is the one place they feel 'safe'.

Soooooooooooo when these same girls burn them, these poor dudes R--E--A--L--L--Y feel it!

Take a second, hit the 'SEARCH' button, punch in . . . . . . 'SCAMS'

They'll be so many pages of scam threads it'll make you're fuckin' Jaw Drop!


For every 1 guy who has the guts to post about getting Scorch'd --- 1000 guys Suffer in Silence. They feel humiliated. They end up saying . . . . nothing



. . . . . . It's about us Brothers having each others Backs!

 

[MidGuyy]

Bro, it ain't brain-surgery . . . . .

You'll get it if you ever get PM's from good guys, sweet dudes who've been Scorch'd! Lot of these guys are socially awkward --- painfully shy! Hitting the streets, malls, gyms, clubs to hook-up with the honey-babies totally freaks them out, they're scared shitless!

In many cases, inhabiting the SW world is the one place that makes them feel 'safe'.

Soooooooooooo when these same girls burn them, these poor dudes R--E--A--L--L--Y feel it!

Take a second, hit the 'SEARCH' button, punch in . . . . . . 'SCAMS'

They'll be so many pages of scam threads it'll make you're fuckin' Jaw Drop!

Kicker is . . . . . . . for every 1 guy who has the guts to post about getting Scorch'd, 1000 guys will suffer in silence because of feeling humiliated. They say, Nothing!


. . . . . . It's about us Brothers having each others Backs!

Scorch’d By their regulars? And how?

 

[DirtyMiind]

This feeling lasts about 5 minutes maybe . It also depends on the SP. I have cut off regulars for becoming to clingy & I have also had clients ghost me . When clients ghost you ; you think about this for about 5 minutes and then most of the time girls are over it.



THIS !. Lets be realistic here . The point of seeing an escort/ sp/ mpa is to get your fix with no strings attached & that is it. Most regulars pay anywhere from 100-150 $ HH ; which if we are being realistic is NOTHING to an sp. Unless she does not have a regular fan base ; it would not affect her negatively.



I would like to think this is true but unfortunately ; I have not yet met ONE escort who has dated a client and I doubt I ever will. Most of the girls / women I talk to have said that they can never see themselves dating a client . Yes they may think the client is cute , but to get involved in an EMOTIONAL level is a big NO-NO in the adult industry. There are like you said a few woman who may have done this but it is not common . I agree when you say SW's are the most loving people however we are technically here to provide an illusion that we are your girlfriend while you are with us.



Again she may think this for a minute but she will not dwell on it.



FALSE!!! I once had a friend who I knew from high school. We were really close & he knew I did this. He would then ask me if I would give him head and I told him that he has to pay me if he wants that ; even though we were friends. He paid me almost everytime he seen me & we still maintained a healthy FRIENDLY relationship.

The coach of the SW mental gymnastics team right here lol

 

[Dcoat]

I never bought a gift or booked multi hours. I do book my favourites a couple times a month for a year or more.

Why SHOULD she notice you if you're a guy who booked her 3 times in the course of 2 years. Why would she even remember your face? You have a customer who comes in to your office or shop 3 times in 2 years, do YOU remember him / her?

I worked retail for a number of years. Not only could I remember a client the second time, but I could remember what they bought the first time, especially if I had a longer conversation. But I didn't dwell on them if they never returned (with the exception of 1 or 2 very notable individuals). Today I can't remember where I left my keys!!

 

[sweetiepieexo]

The coach of the SW mental gymnastics team right here lol

Not sure whether this is a compliment or an insult LOL. I just try to be honest and upfront all of the time & whoever doesn't agree with me .. well..LOL. I guess that's life.

 

[Euro Male]

The coach of the SW mental gymnastics team right here

Not sure whether this is a compliment or an insult

Sure you're not sure!

 

[lomotil]

Ah - but she wouldn't actually notice with her purse, because any decent escort will easily replace the money she'd lose with one regular. If she notices at all, she's going to notice that a familiar person is missing, not because she's earning less money suddenly because one guy stops seeing her.

If the lost regular is a deep pocket major underwriter, then the market could be rocked substantially. I knew of an mpa who was low mileage for the vast majority of her regulars but sp like in service for one particular guy who came often and paid a very generous premium for a long time. When he stopped coming, she was in financial agony. What I am trying to say is that some regulars are a dime a dozen and not really missed but some others are preciou$.

 

[kherg007]

Part of this biz for the best ladies IS the relationship business. The shop keeper who remembers you and seems happy to see you and remembers what you liked...you go back to. Same whether it is a barista, tailor, mechanic, or bank teller, it matters. Now, this biz we all enjoy is dead set in the heart of the relationship biz where you're starkers with your business associate, experiencing their private charms. Thus the best ladies would know when a reg stops visiting. The only question is whether she'd reach out to him. Although they realize that's life in this biz, there are at least a bit of rejection particularly if they see the reg posting reviews. But they move on.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

Sure you're not sure!

lol I really wasn't but I guess ill take it as a compliment lol

 

[Ben19]

Of course an escort would notice if a regular stops seeing them. Some clients develope a working relationship with their favorites and care about them as a person. We cant deny the fact that in many instances a healthy working relationship does exist between client and SP. I am not talking about falling in love, or a relationship which the end goal is trying to date the girl. That to me is unhealthy ... I am sure it has happened but I think its a dangerous game and it is a path to failure mainly for the client. If anyone is in this business to fall in love or thiks they are in love then they really need to have a reality check. It is almost in all cases an illusion of a GFE from both parties. As soon as the appointment is over, each go their seperate ways and that is the beauty of it and that is why many do this hobby. Sweetiepiee has expressed this from a SP standpoint well.



As an anecdote, I see my favorite girl upwards of 5 hours a month often with multi hour bookings. I do get her gifts and we do alot of social outings etc. I genuinely care about her as a person. In that I care that she is doing well and I would be sad if anything happened to her. I also know she does care about me as a person. Am I in love, no. Do I think shes gonna want to date me, no. DO I want her to date me no. If the answer to any of those was a yes I would not be seeing her. Its a Girl friend EXPERIENCE not a girl friend. I am really glad we know each other and each are professional enough to have this working relationship with strict boundaries. If I stopped seeing her I am sure she should be concerned. IF she stopped working also I would be sad, but I know that is eventually gonna happen, I am not delusional.

Having said all that, people are after different things. I like this kinda of GFE, some just want to have intimacy once in a while and there is nothing wrong with that. As long as people know WHY they are seeing a SP and their doing it for the right reasons. If you want to date DO NOT see SPs.

 

[MidGuyy]

Of course an escort would notice if a regular stops seeing them. Some clients develope a working relationship with their favorites and care about them as a person. We cant deny the fact that in many instances a healthy working relationship does exist between client and SP. I am not talking about falling in love, or a relationship which the end goal is trying to date the girl. That to me is unhealthy ... I am sure it has happened but I think its a dangerous game and it is a path to failure mainly for the client. If anyone is in this business to fall in love or thiks they are in love then they really need to have a reality check. It is almost in all cases an illusion of a GFE from both parties. As soon as the appointment is over, each go their seperate ways and that is the beauty of it and that is why many do this hobby. Sweetiepiee has expressed this from a SP standpoint well.



As an anecdote, I see my favorite girl upwards of 5 hours a month often with multi hour bookings. I do get her gifts and we do alot of social outings etc. I genuinely care about her as a person. In that I care that she is doing well and I would be sad if anything happened to her. I also know she does care about me as a person. Am I in love, no. Do I think shes gonna want to date me, no. DO I want her to date me no. If the answer to any of those was a yes I would not be seeing her. Its a Girl friend EXPERIENCE not a girl friend. I am really glad we know each other and each are professional enough to have this working relationship with strict boundaries. If I stopped seeing her I am sure she should be concerned. IF she stopped working also I would be sad, but I know that is eventually gonna happen, I am not delusional.

Having said all that, people are after different things. I like this kinda of GFE, some just want to have intimacy once in a while and there is nothing wrong with that. As long as people know WHY they are seeing a SP and their doing it for the right reasons. If you want to date DO NOT see SPs.

This guy gets it

 

[wazup]

These girls are not robots, they are live human beings with feelings........has that been stated yet, that is the go to response in these types of threads.

 

[Jasmina]

Yes they do and can. If you had a friend who did house painting for a living and decided to have your house painted, you would pay him. He may give you a discount but you'd pay him. Just like an escort turned friend may give you extra time, or do dinners/lunches off the clock.

If this hasn't been your experience that says more about you than it does sex workers.

Friends don't pay friends for sex. You know this.

 

[Jasmina]

Yes. Absolutely. I could easily list off all my regulars names and not miss a beat. Some of us have the capacity to care for more than one person at a time.

among your 30 other guy clients? yeah.

 

[Jasmina]

Even the ones who dropped in for hh over lunch semi-weekly, if we had a good time, I remember them. And by good time I don't just mean great sex, but that look in their eye, even if we didn't hang out and "chat" after, there is that look that says, "I am so glad to see you, you are taking some stress off my hands" has value.

It really sucks to see so many jaded men on here. I am thrilled to see some who get it.

Sensible. And I've had the same experience.

What client have you been. As oagre said, if you're a 30 minute booker, you're definitely client #3 on Wednesday.
Just like anything else in life, I guarantee you, escorts do become friends with the majority of their regulars who are their not just to "bang".

 

[Bob2019]

One SP told me her friend also an SP married a client.
So anything and everything is possible in this game

 

[yermama]

One SP told me her friend also an SP married a client.
So anything and everything is possible in this game

So the escort is probably having unsafe actions with a client now and must be avoided. I bet the client is rich, and she will divorce to take all the money she can. Anything is indeed possible if a hooker sees enough money at the end.

 

[deep_blue]

I paid my four bits to see the high-diving act and I'm a-gonna see the high-diving act!

 

[Amaro]

It really sucks to see so many jaded men on here. I am thrilled to see some who get it.

What I don't understand, Jasmina, and this maybe something that will never be answered, is why do clients who are in fact Jaded, why do they see escorts, and then come on here and rant negatively about them?

If a man believes that an escort girl is there just to "trick" you and take your money, why on earth would you see her? Just avoid seeing the escort. But to go see her, and then rant about how they are just "hookers" is very derogatory and hypocritical.

If you're the type of client that looks at the escort as a "hooker", then NO, she will not remember you when you leave, except for a sigh of relief. On the other hand, if you understand that the SP is someone that has the ability to alleviate all your stresses/worries, then you begin to understand what an SP truly is.

 

[MidGuyy]

What I don't understand, Jasmina, and this maybe something that will never be answered, is why do clients who are in fact Jaded, why do they see escorts, and then come on here and rant negatively about them?

If a man believes that an escort girl is there just to "trick" you and take your money, why on earth would you see her? Just avoid seeing the escort. But to go see her, and then rant about how they are just "hookers" is very derogatory and hypocritical.

If you're the type of client that looks at the escort as a "hooker", then NO, she will not remember you when you leave, except for a sigh of relief. On the other hand, if you understand that the SP is someone that has the ability to alleviate all your stresses/worries, then you begin to understand what an SP truly is.

Not calling anyone a serial killer but it kind of falls into the same line of asking “If this guy hates women/escorts so much why won’t he just avoid them and stay away instead of meeting up to still fu** them and sometimes kill/stalk/Harass them”.... yea.