Porn and masturbation is destroying masculinity

Spacealien2

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I spent the last year building my business. Few friends, no women. Relied on porn to satisfy my needs. Not realizing how much of a toll that was.

I did a little experiment. During the past week, I visited SPs whenever I had an urge. My last orgasm was two nights ago and even when I woke up today, I found myself balls full of life. Can't help but to look at the ads section hoping to find a succubus to drain me.

I will never watch porn ever again!
 

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, I found myself balls full of life. Can't help but to look at the ads section hoping to find a succubus to drain me.

I will never watch porn ever again!
Classy post SA. Although I agree it seems all men need is the right web site and a box of tissues
 

rhuarc29

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There are a lot of things destroying masculinity, porn just one of them.
 

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I spent the last year building my business. Few friends, no women. Relied on porn to satisfy my needs. Not realizing how much of a toll that was.

I did a little experiment. During the past week, I visited SPs whenever I had an urge. My last orgasm was two nights ago and even when I woke up today, I found myself balls full of life. Can't help but to look at the ads section hoping to find a succubus to drain me.

I will never watch porn ever again!
Interesting thread Spacealien2, I do feel everything in moderation. guys may watch porn once & a while without causing any problems concerning their masculinity. A little bit of relief is always a good thing!
 

danmand

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I spent the last year building my business. Few friends, no women. Relied on porn to satisfy my needs. Not realizing how much of a toll that was.

I did a little experiment. During the past week, I visited SPs whenever I had an urge. My last orgasm was two nights ago and even when I woke up today, I found myself balls full of life. Can't help but to look at the ads section hoping to find a succubus to drain me.

I will never watch porn ever again!
Tell us how your day went. Did your newfound alpha masculinity make you beat up any of your coworkers?
 

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Porn is a low cost adjunct to sexual satisfaction but it's easy accessibility invites a potentially problematic scenario to some.

It certainly can't come close to the ''skin touch'' feeling that most humans crave.
 
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Porn is a low cost adjunct to sexual satisfaction but it's easy accessibility invites a potentially problematic scenario to some.

It certainly can't come close to the ''skin touch'' feeling that most humans crave.
Yeah, it lacks both physical and mental intimacy.
 

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I spent the last year building my business. Few friends, no women. Relied on porn to satisfy my needs. Not realizing how much of a toll that was.

I did a little experiment. During the past week, I visited SPs whenever I had an urge. My last orgasm was two nights ago and even when I woke up today, I found myself balls full of life. Can't help but to look at the ads section hoping to find a succubus to drain me.

I will never watch porn ever again!
How is porn any different fundamentally than an SP?
 

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from 2015

Porn doesn't cause sexual dysfunction in men, Concordia researcher says
Anew study from Concordia University finds that viewing erotic stimuli isn't likely to cause erectile problems and may even help sexual arousal.

Sure, recent headlines have proclaimed that porn is ruining the sex lives of an entire generation — but a team of researchers at Concordia University and UCLA say their new study shows that simply isn’t true.

If this sounds like a way of giving men carte blanche to view all the pornography they want, no holds barred, the researchers swear it isn’t.

They just wanted to bring some science back into the burgeoning argument, stemming from a Psychology Today article a few years ago, that many young men are experiencing erectile dysfunction (ED) because their constant exposure to lurid images and films has desensitized them.

This has sparked a trend for men to “reboot” — that is, abstain from porn for several months to improve their sex lives and eliminate their ED. (After all, pornography is ubiquitous in this digital world; it’s been estimated that at least 25 per cent of Internet searches are about porn and kids start viewing porn online, on average, at age 11.)

But the new study, published in the online journal Sexual Medicine, found just the opposite: that viewing erotic stimuli isn’t likely to cause erectile problems and may even help sexual arousal.

“The study shows that if there is erectile dysfunction in a relationship, it’s probably not the porn that’s causing it — it’s more likely the quality of the sex,” said Jim Pfaus, a professor in Concordia’s department of psychology and Centre for Studies in Behavioural Neurobiology.

https://montrealgazette.com/health/...-dysfunction-in-men-says-concordia-researcher
 

art van dele

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Porn is a low cost adjunct to sexual satisfaction but it's easy accessibility invites a potentially problematic scenario to some.

It certainly can't come close to the ''skin touch'' feeling that most humans crave.
Thank you for being so eloquent.
 

explorerzip

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How is porn any different fundamentally than an SP?
They're both fantasies at the end of the day. But porn is nothing like being like being with another human being. You simply cannot do anything you like with another person as in porn. Either can be abused though.
 

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Depends on how your masturbation technique. If you use a tight grip, and become habituated to it, it will take time to ween off that technique and to be able to perform with a woman.
 
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Liquidity

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They're both fantasies at the end of the day. But porn is nothing like being like being with another human being. You simply cannot do anything you like with another person as in porn. Either can be abused though.
I have to disagree. An SP is generally playing a role and you almost never see the human element, unless it's the bad. The experience may be more gratifying, but it's two sides of the same coin.
 

explorerzip

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I have to disagree. An SP is generally playing a role and you almost never see the human element, unless it's the bad. The experience may be more gratifying, but it's two sides of the same coin.
You're still in the presence of another human being with all the touches, smells, tastes and interaction. Porn will never be that way and is totally one-sided. We will surely invent technology that can get us very close to reality, but it's always going to be virtual.
 

Spacealien2

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You're still in the presence of another human being with all the touches, smells, tastes and interaction. Porn will never be that way and is totally one-sided. We will surely invent technology that can get us very close to reality, but it's always going to be virtual.
Also, having feelings for my hand is just gay as fuck.
 

Tony Figaro

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Does anyone remember the mid-90's when the internet just became mainstream and how difficult it was to watch porn back then? It was almost inaccessible unless you were paying for it online. My how times have changed. LOL
 

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Yeah, it lacks both physical and mental intimacy.
You now what's even worse? Too many York Region mid-rank asian spas say thank you very much for 160 roses, but still leave you lacking physical and mental intimacy!! So maybe first class porn beats a second class mpa. [Quick - lets apply for a big research grant to explore this interesting hypothesis! lol]
 
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