Meeting female civilians is a waste of time

kherg007

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People are attracted to the likable...happy, upbeat, non cynical. Nice to be around. Look for the best in others. Engage in activities that draw nice people. I will admit this life may have ruined me for dating again lol. Too easy to spend time with a lady I got no business with based on her looks and age vs mine lol. Oh well. The only date I've had since was an sp back in Oz for a month...thus it wasn't...well, full blown civilian dating in many ways.
 

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The greater chance for reality is that majority of women realize how life works and are looking for a good partner as well.

Life nowadays cannot be this different as it was in my younger days... You'd go out into the night, hit a bar and scope chicks. You'd ogle the hot and slutty chick dancing, but you'd go back to the bar to get another drink, you'd see a nice looking lady who's not as outgoing, but has a nice smile... A friend/acquaintance would be around, you'd engage in conversation and involve her and ask questions, tell jokes, etc. She gives off signs of interest and you go from there. If you kept think about the dancing chick, you're not going to do well.


To me this all makes sense.

Thanks Ward! ;-)



 

Big Rig

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Thanks for explaining. I wasn’t judging your statement, but it just had me curious.
The integration process is more important than the trip and can be quite difficult depending on the depth of the trip so therapy may be required to help you understand the crazy stuff you experienced with the more potent medicines like DMT 5MEO


MDMA is very gentle and on the low end of tripping. No fireworks but a strong feeling of a surrounding consciousness and love. Great for PTSD resolution and that is its main focus in current studies but it is amazing when listening to classical music. You feel like you are composing it as your interpretation of the music is so intense and requires zero effort. If you are not a fan of classical music you will be. Composers often state they never wrote the music - it was given to them by the muse. I now appreciate what they meant

BTW, MDMA no more than once a month as it depletes serotonin in your brain which you need to replenish and serotonin affects your mood so be warned
 

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I understand it sounds grim but unless you've recently been out there trying to find a girlfriend you won't realize how much things have changed. It's really 80% of the women chasing the men at the 20%.

I think personally I am headed towards two areas in my life like others. I will likely have to figure out how to live my life alone forever if stuck here. It's ok now but what worries me is when I'm a senior. If I don't have enough money to pay people to care for me I don't know what I will do. The other idea is maybe I will ha e to survive a lonely life here and then hopefully retire abroad and maybe find someone to share my last ten or so years of life. I know it seems like shit to finally find someone late in life but what else can be done? It seems women don't want average not rich guys like me and others.

My biggest regrets will be my parents not seeing my children, not having children en, and having to live a lonely life because I live in this city in this time.

Thanks
Logically, this makes no sense. How can 80% of women successfully chase 20% of the guys that are attractive/rich? Honestly, 80% of the women out there are physically rather plain and unremarkable and many downright unattractive - just like the men out there. Those supposedly attractive males are not interested in them although they may sleep with them as a one off.s ...because they are available. Also, the women I know are usually brutally honest with themselves and their prospects. Most have a detailed inventory of their (supposedly) physical, personal and social faults and choose men accordingly. Women are harsh realists when it comes to dating. I suspect many men are not such brutal realists and expect attractive women to look past their average dumpy looks, average salary and social standing and love and support them despite their faults. Of course, many of those average men are dismissive and uninterested in average women because they're not hot enough and don't make themselves sexually available at the drop of a hat. It reeks of a double standard.
 

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I understand it sounds grim but unless you've recently been out there trying to find a girlfriend you won't realize how much things have changed. It's really 80% of the women chasing the men at the 20%.

I think personally I am headed towards two areas in my life like others. I will likely have to figure out how to live my life alone forever if stuck here. It's ok now but what worries me is when I'm a senior. If I don't have enough money to pay people to care for me I don't know what I will do. The other idea is maybe I will ha e to survive a lonely life here and then hopefully retire abroad and maybe find someone to share my last ten or so years of life. I know it seems like shit to finally find someone late in life but what else can be done? It seems women don't want average not rich guys like me and others.

My biggest regrets will be my parents not seeing my children, not having children en, and having to live a lonely life because I live in this city in this time.

Thanks
I don’t think life is as grim as you make it out to be. There are many options out there and more than you are aware of.

Being alone is better than the vast majority of relationships. If half end in divorce, there is likely another 20 percent not happy but committed and therefore a partner is not the answer to life.

Work on self improvement, accept and love yourself. Find happiness all around you.
 

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Logically, this makes no sense. How can 80% of women successfully chase 20% of the guys that are attractive/rich? Honestly, 80% of the women out there are physically rather plain and unremarkable and many downright unattractive - just like the men out there. Those supposedly attractive males are not interested in them although they may sleep with them as a one off.s ...because they are available. Also, the women I know are usually brutally honest with themselves and their prospects. Most have a detailed inventory of their (supposedly) physical, personal and social faults and choose men accordingly. Women are harsh realists when it comes to dating. I suspect many men are not such brutal realists and expect attractive women to look past their average dumpy looks, average salary and social standing and love and support them despite their faults. Of course, many of those average men are dismissive and uninterested in average women because they're not hot enough and don't make themselves sexually available at the drop of a hat. It reeks of a double standard.

It makes perfect sense and describes the modern dating scene exactly.
 

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Not sure if I agree with you. The ugliest hag can go to a club and get dick at the end of the night. Not always the case for the ugliest male. The western world has created a monster. A lot of 4-5-6 women think they are worthy and deserving of men that are 7-8-9.
 

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I don’t think life is as grim as you make it out to be. There are many options out there and more than you are aware of.

Being alone is better than the vast majority of relationships. If half end in divorce, there is likely another 20 percent not happy but committed and therefore a partner is not the answer to life.

Work on self improvement, accept and love yourself. Find happiness all around you.
Einstein..."I live in solitude which is painful in youth,but delicious in the years of maturity"
 

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The western world has created a monster. A lot of 4-5-6 women think they are worthy and deserving of men that are 7-8-9.


I think that as many 4-5-6 MEN think they are worthy and deserving of WOMEN that are 7-8-9.




Not sure if I agree with you. The ugliest hag can go to a club and get dick at the end of the night. Not always the case for the ugliest male.

Are you whining about not being able to get into the pussy of the ugliest hag at the end of the night? :confused:
 

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I think that as many 4-5-6 MEN think they are worthy and deserving of WOMEN that are 7-8-9.







Are you whining about not being able to get into the pussy of the ugliest hag at the end of the night? :confused:

Society, ergo men, have a tendency to attach greater amount of social market value to attractive women and women in general much more so than men. Jordan Peterson illustrates this a number of times referencing a Canadian study that showed women consistently rate men as unworthy than most men rated women. So in the bioevolutionary tract you have a creature that has already scratched off 80% of a given male population as unworthy. Men don’t think like this but we are programmed to maximize our spread.

Your ad hominem about my alleged whining is not logical. In my example I was drawing a parallel to the ease with which women can find men by multitudes should they drop their standard for one readon or another.
 

coolmorrisguy

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MGTOW is for angry men who fail to coup with reality - LOSERS. A flight response to the reality.
Not sure I agree. MGTOW started as an honest attempt by males abused by a judicial system that puts females on a pedestal and faults men by default for all sins alleged or real. Anyone who has been chewed through and spit out by the kegal system during divorce knows how warped the system is
 

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MGTOW is for angry men who fail to coup with reality - LOSERS. A flight response to the reality.
If you believe this, you should be thrilled. The more MGTOW, the fewer men competing for women, which increases the pool of women for you to have a serious relationship with or potentially marry.

You've coped with reality. You are a winner.
 

Smallcock

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OP, check this out.

Life of a Chad using Tinder (i.e. a fake profile of an attractive guy was created by Reddit users with the bio describing how he's a life-long criminal and an unrepentant child rapist, and he has non-stop attractive females trying to connect with him). Ditto for a profile of a stud who claims to be an actual Nazi. The fun starts at 3:57.

 

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I wouldn't care if the girl I'm fucking is a Marxist supreme or a Trump supporter. I'm only fucking her. She only needs to have a pretty face and a banging body.
 

Platon

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I wouldn't call it a waste of time but if you are only doing to get her in bed then in many cases seeing an escort is a lot more efficient and in some cases cheaper. However, if you are looking for a lifelong partner then keep trying and you will find her, eventually.
 
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