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hoffa68

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It says she is a duo with Sophia Hills who is legit. Her Twitter @s_hills2018 states she us in Ottawa with her so I'm going to say she too is legit.
 
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I see melissa is advertised in transsexual section too
horwood is Correct. Being all positive here, she's likely come a long ways to get to that kind of female body. However, in this industry, I feel the sex MUST be stated clearly as such in all adverts.

https://instagram.com/melibarbiie?utm_source=ig_profile_share&igshid=1s3ebfwtyovm6

Google this before visiting, optional to view the links: Melissa Barbiie xo

I just have no tolerance for this to be not stated due to human rights, it's not like we're discriminating our selection for a position as a gardener? This is an intimate role, and the sex of the SP is a big deal. Yes life is hard for trans folk, but please be honest or trouble will eventually catch up to the deception unfortunately I feel, it's not cool. #nohate #behonest
 
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JohnnyFever

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Melissa is a post-op trans, she’s now all women...
That's fine in the sense of duly constituted rights, pronoun usage, etc, but when it comes to sex we have an equal right to decide for ourselves what "all woman" means.
 
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I think it's respectful to use her requested pronouns and gender here in discussion and communication about her. It's also now illegal under current c-16 law to purposefully misgender her.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/An_Act_to_amend_the_Canadian_Human_Rights_Act_and_the_Criminal_Code

I'm not giving a pass on her born sex not being disclosed as an SP, but recommend to all in using requested pronouns here in discussions.

I'm willing to meet her and others halfway here, but honest disclosure in this situation is vital for all involved and reduces issues.
 
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I'm not educated enough to elaborate further on c-16.

I'm just sharing what I understand to be true in regards to the bill summary and the associated regulations. No one wants to be hit with hate speech allegations.

"The enactment also amends the Criminal Code to extend the protection against hate propaganda set out in that Act to any section of the public that is distinguished by gender identity or expression and to clearly set out that evidence that an offence was motivated by bias, prejudice or hate based on gender identity or expression constitutes an aggravating circumstance that a court must take into consideration when it imposes a sentence."

I agree with your frustration here, but morally criminal and the criminal code are 2 different worlds, so proceed with caution.

Jordan Peterson discusses c-16 all over the web and how crazy it is to have the words we use to address each other as potential hate speech and criminal, and he's a lot smarter than most of us.
 

Melibarbiie

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Shut the fuck up lol i think u really need to stop saying some bullshit.
if you talk about transsexual women like that it's because you'd like so much to have the chance to live an experience with one or because you'd like to be a girl lol let me just telling you something I’m 1000% PASSABLE AND IM FULLY NATURAL and i am a lot more woman than a lot of cis woman and i look way better than other women. So next time think before talking ur a jerk open ur fucking mind daddy because we are in 2019 u probably fucked one and u didn’t know :) have a great night!
 

JohnnyFever

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It's ethically wrong not to disclose your background prior to a sexual encounter. That's true in the sex industry or any other circumstance. I have the right to choose not to have sex with a woman who was born a man. Period.
 
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Hey MeliBarbiie!

Glad you joined Terb, this is an awesome opportunity to get your feelings / opinions, and maybe bring this thread around here. I have no hate or prejudice here, you be you MB!

I'd really like to know how you feel about if you feel you should or shouldn't disclose that you are a Trans-woman when advertising on Leolist "female escort (specifically)" section?

I really want to hear your side on this as you've definitely thought this through more than anyone. I know you don't speak for all, just how you approach it as far escorting (only)?

Can I ask this? Lol. I like being informed.

I'm genuinely curious if this has caused you issues on client arrival or similar if not disclosed in the past?

Honesty here would likely increase your safety and security a ton I'd say, wouldn't it?

I have no idea where else this could be discussed, why not here?

PS -

"I’m 1000% PASSABLE AND IM FULLY NATURAL

So confused what NATURAL means I guess? Help us out. Is there a definition what it means?

MB if you want share go ahead, no pressure. peace.
 

Melibarbiie

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First i don’t have to tell to nobody what i am im a girl and that it i have a vagina some boobs and I’m 100% passable i never ad a problem in the past with clients every clients i see are happy when they go back home I’m fully naturel i have jo surgery in my face or butt or whstever !!!
 

jazzbox

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Yeah, the accused was trying to prevent him from running, discriminating against him from office. Totally different deal. I'm not backing down from wrongful interpretation of the new law as to what we are doing on this forum. Marxism is rapidly rearing its ugly head as cultural Marxism has thrived for decades and... I'm not giving them an inch we still own.


The alt right loons have arrived. I love how they always reference American shit.... Your fucking Canadian...why embrace the lunacy down south.
 

squeezer

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First i don’t have to tell to nobody what i am im a girl and that it i have a vagina some boobs and I’m 100% passable i never ad a problem in the past with clients every clients i see are happy when they go back home I’m fully naturel i have jo surgery in my face or butt or whstever !!!
Shame on you!
 
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Yeah, I have no idea when honesty and sharing the truth became this difficult and problematic.

It's an unsafe position to take. Whatever.
 
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