Has The Definition Of GFE/PSE Changed Over The Years? WTF
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Before 1995 BBBJ was very rare and usually only offered by street girls …..crazy ones at that. Never, ever thought i'd see the day when it would be considered a semi norm.
Exactly. 9 times out of 10 or more if you go with the flow and want both of you to have as much fun as possible you will attain a full GFE and often more with energy and passion.
I'm speculating here because I've never approached it this way but coming in with a laundry list of acronyms seems to me like handing her a work order. You may get your acronyms fulfilled but likely in a workmanlike fashion. I wouldn't consider this GFE.
Just define your terms and all is well.
I find it odd when you get different rates for GFE and PSE and VIP[whatever that is] without any mention of what is covered. Then if you were to ask you could potentially be labeled as a "time waster".
I'd rather stick with someone whose ads are more communicative and less vague.
I find it odd when you get different rates for GFE and PSE and VIP[whatever that is] without any mention of what is covered. Then if you were to ask you could potentially be labeled as a "time waster".
I'd rather stick with someone whose ads are more communicative and less vague.
This is all so silly. Some may have heard my sermon before!
I was one of the first to coin the term GFE, back on alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup before there were websites and we used 300 baud packet readers on dialups. It had absolutey nothing whatsoever to do with sex acts. It was a real connection for the moment between humans that often involved sensuality, hugging, carressing and a real connection for the moment . Since then it has been hijacked into all sorts of silly sexual, high risk acts etc that is far different from the orignal meaning. Gee, I should have trademarked it or something
GFE has always been my prime interest not just sex acts.
I was one of the first to coin the term GFE, back on alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup before there were websites and we used 300 baud packet readers on dialups. It had absolutey nothing whatsoever to do with sex acts. It was a real connection for the moment between humans that often involved sensuality, hugging, carressing and a real connection for the moment . Since then it has been hijacked into all sorts of silly sexual, high risk acts etc that is far different from the orignal meaning. Gee, I should have trademarked it or something
GFE has always been my prime interest not just sex acts.
Thank you for sharing your insight.This is all so silly. Some may have heard my sermon before!
I was one of the first to coin the term GFE, back on alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup before there were websites and we used 300 baud packet readers on dialups. It had absolutey nothing whatsoever to do with sex acts. It was a real connection for the moment between humans that often involved sensuality, hugging, carressing and a real connection for the moment . Since then it has been hijacked into all sorts of silly sexual, high risk acts etc that is far different from the orignal meaning. Gee, I should have trademarked it or something
GFE has always been my prime interest not just sex acts.
I’m think that I might write a review on what GFE means to me. To do that I’ll need to start a new thread.
After reading the thread I've got to say I'm surprised how many people agree with CIM being PSE. I could never even contemplate dating a girl who doesn't allow me to CIM, let alone call her my GF or wife. Every bj will end in a hj? No thanks.
GFE should be what it implies. A GF that doesn’t do bbbjcim and DFK in 2019 is not GF to date. However the increased prevalence of porn has blurred the lines between PSE and GFE, but I’d say FF, DT, going hard, rimming are some PSE services. Safe GFE May be a better term for cbj, no kissing, no cim type service or “why would I be paying for this” type service
I've had GFE dates that had some PSE elements to them.GFE should be what it implies. A GF that doesn’t do bbbjcim and DFK in 2019 is not GF to date. However the increased prevalence of porn has blurred the lines between PSE and GFE, but I’d say FF, DT, going hard, rimming are some PSE services. Safe GFE May be a better term for cbj, no kissing, no cim type service or “why would I be paying for this” type service
Even a few that had some S/M and domination elements to them.
Many of those "gentlemen" knows exactly what GFE meaning. They just hoping to get PSE , but they don't want to pay for it.
Nothing changed about those terms.
BULL SHIT.
PSE is not BB.
It's attitude and willingness offer a porn star like experience with CFS
Frankly, the escort and MA markets are saturated with providers and increased competition drives providers to be more liberal in what they will allow. I am not saying this is good but it is something I am seeing. PSE tends to mean greek, CIM, CIMSW and in some instances FS without a condom. Fortunately, the latter service is not sought by most men and, also, a line that most providers will not cross. Of course, there are always some that want to compete for the Darwin Award.
The problem with the acronyms GFE and PSE is that they don't properly define shit. Some girlfriends do some wild things and some pornstars are more constrained in what they do. Therefore, GFE and PSE are piss-poor ways to describe what is available in a session.
Of course, we wouldn't have to resort to such in-concise language if our society was mature enough to accept sex work as legitimate work.
Of course, we wouldn't have to resort to such in-concise language if our society was mature enough to accept sex work as legitimate work.
