i'm so annoyed to be honest. although i stated i would still like to see her, maybe I'll just find someone else. I'm generally a nice person and tip well if I'm happy.I have actually only ever had one girl cancel on me once, and it was in Amsterdam, so I just said fuck it, and went out and visited one of my regular window girls instead. I really wish we had a good red light district here, it’d make things so much easier.
Is it common for girls to cancel here? I’m pretty new to the Toronto scene.
Look for consistent and or well reviewed girls. While shit happens to the best of em, its rare to never if you do research.i'm so annoyed to be honest. although i stated i would still like to see her, maybe I'll just find someone else. I'm generally a nice person and tip well if I'm happy.
This is like the 3rd time it's happened in the last year with new escorts. they're such flakes and then complain guys do them all the time.
I certainly understand about being upset but do you know if this girl has a history of this? Life happens, shit could have came up... family emergency, kid is sick, dog died, car trouble, there's a lot that can go wrong. My very first attempt at seeing an escort (defunct agency in Durham) their neighbours in the building they were hosting in happened to be moving that day and plugged up the entire hallway so the appt. was cancelled.I booked and spoke to an SP daily for the last 3 days trying to book some fun time for this friday night.
1 hour to go she sends an email saying something came up.
like wtf? i'm so annoyed at how girls can flake so easily.
I’ve had more than my share of cancellations and ghosting. I got Ghosted twice last week. Once by a lady I know, fell asleep, and the other by a new girl I was really interested in.I certainly understand about being upset but do you know if this girl has a history of this? Life happens, shit could have came up... family emergency, kid is sick, dog died, car trouble, there's a lot that can go wrong. My very first attempt at seeing an escort (defunct agency in Durham) their neighbours in the building they were hosting in happened to be moving that day and plugged up the entire hallway so the appt. was cancelled.
I'd keep your cool and try setting up another time. I would imagine if she is reputable she might offer some form of restitution, maybe either a little extra time or a slightly reduced rate. She emailed you prior to the time rather than ghosting so that says something.
Did you at least recover the deposit?I tried 3 times with an independent. Even sent etransfers (without the password) and a payment as well. As you know, they hold the money out of your account.
The third cancel she did not give a reason. It happened 30 minutes before and we confirmed the morning of. She advertises here and I was very nice and cordial all prior times she cancelled as she gave me reasons. This was over 5 weeks.
Move along I guess, but I really want to meet her...
Yes, etransfers expire after 30 days but they charge like $5 to cancel. I can wait the month for my money.Did you at least recover the deposit?
Is it a provider who moans and complains about the clients cancelling?
I don't mind being cancelled on because real world problems do occur but then again I never leave a deposit and I am always ready with a plan b.
The first 2 times she gave me good reasons, so I kept trying. The third, she didn't even bother to explain. No customer service. I actually would have tried again if she gave a good reason. But three is the most I will try.It really depends on the lady. Some are more reliable than others. If you stick to those who are well established and professional you can avoid a lot of headaches, but cancellations will happen. I think most providers keep the job secret and separate from their "vanilla life" so the occasional conflict will come up. I would much rather a lady cancel if she isn't feeling well or whatever than work and have the session be sub-par. I used to have a regular who gave very nice compensation when she had to cancel. The follow up session was so good I almost started to hope she would cancel because I loved how she made it up to me. If all ladies did that you wouldn't hear guys complaining lol.
Cancel would be to have an appointment booked so pls correct that. We never had an appointment booked. You reached out to me. Now if you would like to discuss why I didn't text back then you get do that in private.I've been around for about 7 years.
In that time I've been cancelled on by an agency when about 5 mins away. They threw $20 at me in an attempt to compensate, not impressed.
I was ghosted on by Sultry Sofia after meeting her a few weeks earlier (I guess she had second thoughts about working with me).
And I've had Parker of TDL cancel a couple of times well in advance for which she gave more than an ample explanation on this forum.
So not very often, and 2 out of 3 times with some "customer service" in response.
Now if you would like to discuss why I didn't text back then you get do that in private.