Asking questions = time waster?

[VERYBADBOY]

THANK YOU. this is exactly what I was trying to explain !!! damn. lol.

You need to lighten up on your approach.

Btw, it's "Quantity" ... edit your footer/sig line

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[sweetiepieexo]

You need to lighten up on your approach.

Btw, it's "Quantity" ... edit your footer/sig line

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thanks didn't notice that. will fix it now..

BTW- lighten my approach? maybe he needs to learn how to respond to people instead of calling people illiterate and dumb. Just a suggestion. Once he does that - I will "lighten my approach" as you say.

 

[sempel]

Nice question Theobservantone,

I am one of the girls advertising safe services only so of course if someone's texting me asking for bbbj or other unsafe services , I will truly think that he's waisting my time. I am also advertising to ask for more services only in person..

There's the reason why : Imagine that you are a provider. You offer more services and decide to answer openly when a client ask about it by text. Of course the client book a session with you. He show up expecting services .
As soon as you open the door you can smell him. A strong smell coming from his armpit , a very disgusting breath , very long dirty nails. He looks like he didn't take a shower since 2010. But you already told him that you will provide more services so when you decline he's getting mad and disappointed. You would think that everybody takes care of their hygiene , but you would be surprised. As a provider I seen everything ....unfortunately..


So for a very obvious reason , some providers prefer meeting the client in person before saying that they're providing services...

It is not to be complicated or to make sure we won't lose a client by not offering more services so we stay vague ... It is simply to avoid that kind of gross situation.
The girls that are not offering more services will mostly say so and most of the clients will respect her limits.. The girls that are staying vague are probably offering more but they want to meet you to make sure you are a good client before saying anything that could create expectations..

Kisses
Ali

So I contacted two providers. One had the word safe somewhere in her ad so she got upset that I asked about BBBJ. Clearly some fault is hers for not being clear/obvious. The second provider indicated her use of "safe" was "safe and secure environment", not safe services. So while it's fair to say a person who asks questions where the answers are clearly given is a timewaster, that may not always be the case. The lady needs to ensure the message is clearly displayed and crystal clear. If it is (e.g. "SAFE SERVICES ONLY" in bold), then for sure the guy's a timewasting fool.

Now let's look at your example of smelly client. Do you think telling him the services in advance changed the fact that he stinks? No. If you had indicated X versus X, Y, and Z, in either case if you tell him to please leave, will he not get upset? He will either way. So if you choose to let him stay, you're still getting (and probably giving) a crap experience albeit one where you do less services.

So while I understand there is the need to kind of gauge a client before saying yes, I see no reason to be vague or say nothing. As mentioned, I think a lady who says maybe/YMMV depending on chemistry and hygiene is a perfectly acceptable answer. The key of course is the lady sticking to that so if the client shows up and is nice and clean and there's some chemistry, she doesn't turn around and say no out of the blue so the guy thinks he's been swindled. I think that's the concern of some guys such as myself - the idea of being swindled whether it's B&S, sudden and previously unmentioned upcharges, or denial of service(s) when the guy is a hygienic gentleman.

Personally of all the providers i seen i had 2 times an issue with BBBJ only. (i have over 75 meeting). The first time it was as sample as the provider trying to make more $. As soon as i mentioned giving extra for it CBJ turned into BBBJ+Cim lol. Since the price was lower than what i usually pay and the girl was model like beauty, i rolled with it. The second time BBBJ was provided but the girl was reluctant, i dunno, felt like she didn't like my dick. She was rather new too... Maybe she was used of 8 inch long perfect porno dicks... lol.

I try personally to stick to reputed agencies and indies. So it was never a concern to me when it comes to the money, usually i let the money on the night table under the hotel phone, this way she can see it but its collected at the end.

But if i was gonna do business with a backpage provider or someone im unsure, it would be payment at the end ONLY, as in not even laying it on display. Better be safe than sorry. I am assuming if i see someone from a reputed agency and for any reason she won't provide BBBJ, i can always call the agency. GFE is standard... its expected. Its not like cim where she may usually offer it but for any reason she decide not to do it with you (if your precum does not taste good for instance or whatever) I would NEVER EVER book in an agency that does not clearly state GFE on there ads. So im assuming if she decide she does not want to provide it with me for any reason, i can cut the meeting short and if she complain she want some partial payment, i can always contact the agency and they will deal with it. Agencies usually don't like waves and won't make shit for a mere 50$ or such. They will rather have a satisfy customer than someone, especially a known hobbyist, make a bad review on the board.

With a backpage provider you don't have this luxury. I am not one to usually go with backpagge, unless she is tremendously reviewed, but im just saying if i was gonna go that route i would be very carefull.

I know girls have a right to refuse a client or not do whatever they don't want to do. This is a given. BUT if you refuse to do what is paid for, therefore its "breach of contract" and why should i pay anything? If for instance she enter the room, we talk for 5 mins, start kissing and then she pull out a condom for CBJ, i will ask her whats with that. If she says she won't do BBBJ... ok fine but put back your cloathes on thats it. I have no interest to go further. Im not gonna pay even a partial sum for 5 min of talk and a couple kisses... :/

I know it may sound harsh at first glance but i just feel its important that both party respect the agreement. Obviously i am talking for ME and i know some hobbyist are slacky on many factors and things may be different.

But me PERSONALLY, i am a reliable client, i never cancel, i am always friendly, clean, i am pretty soft and cuddler too (unless kinkier stuff is discussed and agreed before in a dom session or something) , i am really an easy to please client. I try to make the job of the providers easier, so the bare minimum i expect is to get a good attitude and the services expected from the provider too.

But i am also a very carefull/safe hobbyist. I stick with reputed agencies and indies, and even in agencies i usually go for the ones with many positive reviews and very very little negative/neutral ones. That way i put the best chances on my side to have a good time. There was a time where i was more TOFTT but i been "burned" a few times with subpar meetings (nothing nightmarish, just meetings who where below average) and when you save money for months to have a good time, its pretty disapointing to leave the city like that.

Anyway, sorry if i got a bit off topic. But everytime services are discussed in threads, it often turn to that subject lol

I don't see how any of this is off-topic. It just adds a different dimension to the thread which comes down to services and delivery. I agree with everything you've said and actually think your BP advice makes sense. I stay off there though in general because of all the BS but sometimes there's a few good reviews in the classifieds section about the same provider so it seems ok to chance it.

BTW- lighten my approach? maybe he needs to learn how to respond to people instead of calling people illiterate and dumb. Just a suggestion. Once he does that - I will "lighten my approach" as you say.

Couple of things

1) When the first line of your first response is "No offense - but you sound like the type of client a lot of ladies would NOT book - myself included", it's going to be taken badly even if it's the honest truth. Pretty much everything you write after is going to be disregarded or taken badly, even if it's sound and logical stuff
2) Being the frequent target of a few haters myself, you just have to roll with it. Some people will not like you because you are a woman, some because you are an SP, some because of your responses. You have to ignore the first two because you'll never win. The last group really depends on what their disagreement is. Sometimes it is what you wrote and the side you've taken, in some cases it's misinterpretation, in some cases it's just personal dislike.

 

[TFZL1]

Being long winded in questions and responses makes you a time waster.

After a polite introduction, I can ask questions in one simple text or email.
Then reply politely yay or nay.

And the conversation is over. Simply really, doesn’t require a diatribe.

P.S. and no, I didn’t waste time reading any of the long winded responses above.

 

[Theobservantone]

Nice question Theobservantone,

I am one of the girls advertising safe services only so of course if someone's texting me asking for bbbj or other unsafe services , I will truly think that he's waisting my time. I am also advertising to ask for more services only in person..

There's the reason why : Imagine that you are a provider. You offer more services and decide to answer openly when a client ask about it by text. Of course the client book a session with you. He show up expecting services .
As soon as you open the door you can smell him. A strong smell coming from his armpit , a very disgusting breath , very long dirty nails. He looks like he didn't take a shower since 2010. But you already told him that you will provide more services so when you decline he's getting mad and disappointed. You would think that everybody takes care of their hygiene , but you would be surprised. As a provider I seen everything ....unfortunately..


So for a very obvious reason , some providers prefer meeting the client in person before saying that they're providing services...

It is not to be complicated or to make sure we won't lose a client by not offering more services so we stay vague ... It is simply to avoid that kind of gross situation.
The girls that are not offering more services will mostly say so and most of the clients will respect her limits.. The girls that are staying vague are probably offering more but they want to meet you to make sure you are a good client before saying anything that could create expectations..

Kisses
Ali

Thanks for your response Ali!

However you seem to have brought it back to YMMV but thats not what I mean. Let me give a concrete example to hopefully clear this up.

A lady I booked recently only offers safe sessions, but used to do BBBJ. Reviews were mixed and confusing because of the change so I asked her directly. Had she responded as sweetiepie did, I would have laughed and moved on. She confirmed only safe services and I saw her that night. My beef is with not even being able to ask before I book you. If you reply, "Hey hun, yes I offer BBBJ but its YMMV" Id be completely fine with that. You could even leave out the YMMV part as that is assumed, by me, regarding all services.

Another example. Well reviewed SP used to offer greek all inclusive in her price, but that wasnt my experience. I read a review suggesting as much, I asked for clarification in the thread and got a PM complaining that I didnt ask her directly. Then theres the thread that sparked this one. Lastly, most girls offer MSOG as 2 shots in the hour, if I want to know if youre okay with 3 but its not usually advertised, nor commented on in reviews, how do I find out? Surely 3 vs 2 shots isnt a YMMV issue...

Confirming a "menu" (not a fan of the word) doesnt mean I will get everything on offer, no disagreement there, I just want to know what is on offer to see if we are likely to match in sexual preferences and boundaries should mileage not be an issue.

If I sent you an email asking if you would allow 3 shots in the hour, then booked or didnt when you gave the answer, would that make me a time waster? If it would, how can i get that info and not be a time waster considering its not advertised or discussed in reviews?

 

[sempel]

Thanks for your response Ali!

However you seem to have brought it back to YMMV but thats not what I mean. Let me give a concrete example to hopefully clear this up.

A lady I booked recently only offers safe sessions, but used to do BBBJ. Reviews were mixed and confusing because of the change so I asked her directly. Had she responded as sweetiepie did, I would have laughed and moved on. She confirmed only safe services and I saw her that night. My beef is with not even being able to ask before I book you. If you reply, "Hey hun, yes I offer BBBJ but its YMMV" Id be completely fine with that. You could even leave out the YMMV part as that is assumed, by me, regarding all services.

Another example. Well reviewed SP used to offer greek all inclusive in her price, but that wasnt my experience. I read a review suggesting as much, I asked for clarification in the thread and got a PM complaining that I didnt ask her directly. Then theres the thread that sparked this one. Lastly, most girls offer MSOG as 2 shots in the hour, if I want to know if youre okay with 3 but its not usually advertised, nor commented on in reviews, how do I find out? Surely 3 vs 2 shots isnt a YMMV issue...

Confirming a "menu" (not a fan of the word) doesnt mean I will get everything on offer, no disagreement there, I just want to know what is on offer to see if we are likely to match in sexual preferences and boundaries should mileage not be an issue.

If I sent you an email asking if you would allow 3 shots in the hour, then booked or didnt when you gave the answer, would that make me a time waster? If it would, how can i get that info and not be a time waster considering its not advertised or discussed in reviews?

Thanks for clarifying. Don't think it's wasting time asking a question where the answer is not clearly available or there is conflicting information (your contradicting reviews example). However, as mentioned one SP got bent out of shape when I said a previous review said she did X when now she didn't. I politely asked to clarify and qualified it with the answer possibly being a YMMV thing or perhaps a bad experience (it was the latter but she still went off for just asking). So beware whenever a question is asked, you might get an unexpected response but at that point as you've stated just move on. I have realized there are SO MANY providers between indies/agencies, and that's ignoring BP or any other board/site. There are plenty of women who'll answer the question direct or come back with "It's all good". So if a lady is less a honey and more a hassle, move on.

The funny thing is there are a number of providers, some who advertise on this site, who clearly list their yays/nays on their sites. Clear as day what acronyms are in/out.

 

[Theobservantone]

you cant be that naiive and hard headed can you ? anyways. this is why I hardly come on here. its like u guys let anything set you off and when u don't like something u hear/ read you go ape shit. lol not sure what answer your looking for but you got a TON to pick from lol. good day.. SIR.

You said good day sir in your last response so I said K lolol and then you write this, but Im going ape shit? Im not even upset. I was put on the defensive by your first response but by your second response it became clear to me what level youre operating on and I am wholeheartedly uninterested in continuing my discussion with you so I chuckled at your response and moved on....perhaps you should too unless youre going to actually read what is written....but I dont see that happening so, as youve said twice now, good day.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

You said good day sir in your last response so I said K lolol and then you write this, but Im going ape shit? Im not even upset. I was put on the defensive by your first response but by your second response it became clear to me what level youre operating on and I am wholeheartedly uninterested in continuing my discussion with you so I chuckled at your response and moved on....perhaps you should too unless youre going to actually read what is written....but I dont see that happening so, as youve said twice now, good day.

LOL :blabla: this is too funny. Trust me ive stated this before the opinions of others that do not know me do not bother me.

 

[Theobservantone]

Being long winded in questions and responses makes you a time waster.

After a polite introduction, I can ask questions in one simple text or email.
Then reply politely yay or nay.

And the conversation is over. Simply really, doesn’t require a diatribe.

P.S. and no, I didn’t waste time reading any of the long winded responses above.

I intro myself, compliment her, and ask my questions in a single email, 2 paragraphs long max Id say, maybe 3mins to read for the average reader. If I like the response I book in my next email. If shes open for a bit more back and forth, awesome, if not no worries i know what I need to know. So would you not find it off putting to be called a time waster for asking a question or 2, as you do?

 

[Theobservantone]

LOL :blabla: this is too funny. Trust me ive stated this before the opinions of others that do not know me do not bother me.

Cool?

 

[sempel]

I intro myself, compliment her, and ask my questions in a single email, 2 paragraphs long max Id say, maybe 3mins to read for the average reader. If I like the response I book in my next email. If shes open for a bit more back and forth, awesome, if not no worries i know what I need to know. So would you not find it off putting to be called a time waster for asking a question or 2, as you do?

This is also a catch-22 - length. I write "full" emails. Full sentences, explain some of my statements, etc. Why? Because (1) it proves I can hold a conversation (2) I think a short, simple email will communicate requests but not intent/understanding and lack of explanation can make one look aggressive/demanding.

E.g. If I say "Please let me know your restrictions" I don't know what the response will be. Will she think "great, he want's to know" or "he wants to know what limits to push" or "he's very inquisitive/pushy". If I add "so I know what you don't like and we avoid awkwardness and being uncomfortable" I think that sounds better (I could be wrong). But now the email is slightly longer.

What I've find is the better approach is a short first email where you introduce yourself quickly and just indicate you would like to discuss services in greater detail. If she agrees, then let loose in your follow up response. I used to write a single email that contained everything but was told it was a lot and overwhelming.

 

[Alison_xox]

Thanks for your response Ali!

However you seem to have brought it back to YMMV but thats not what I mean. Let me give a concrete example to hopefully clear this up.

A lady I booked recently only offers safe sessions, but used to do BBBJ. Reviews were mixed and confusing because of the change so I asked her directly. Had she responded as sweetiepie did, I would have laughed and moved on. She confirmed only safe services and I saw her that night. My beef is with not even being able to ask before I book you. If you reply, "Hey hun, yes I offer BBBJ but its YMMV" Id be completely fine with that. You could even leave out the YMMV part as that is assumed, by me, regarding all services.

Another example. Well reviewed SP used to offer greek all inclusive in her price, but that wasnt my experience. I read a review suggesting as much, I asked for clarification in the thread and got a PM complaining that I didnt ask her directly. Then theres the thread that sparked this one. Lastly, most girls offer MSOG as 2 shots in the hour, if I want to know if youre okay with 3 but its not usually advertised, nor commented on in reviews, how do I find out? Surely 3 vs 2 shots isnt a YMMV issue...

Confirming a "menu" (not a fan of the word) doesnt mean I will get everything on offer, no disagreement there, I just want to know what is on offer to see if we are likely to match in sexual preferences and boundaries should mileage not be an issue.

If I sent you an email asking if you would allow 3 shots in the hour, then booked or didnt when you gave the answer, would that make me a time waster? If it would, how can i get that info and not be a time waster considering its not advertised or discussed in reviews?

I get your point .. Personally I clearly describe my session on my website with all the services that are offered on my basic rate so I rarely have questions like that... If I do , it means that the client didn't take the time to read before texting so I politely redirect him to my website or advertisement where all my services are clearly listed... For more services I still prefer meeting the client in person before I take a decision.. If I am going to charge more for more services I want the services to be mutually enjoyable.. I am not offering more services if I think that it would be a task and that I will not connect with my client...
It is a big part of hygiene , but it could be that he's making me feel awkward... You never know to what kind of person you will open the door.. If the client seen me before and I am ok with him , I will send him my price list with extra services no problem... I actually mention it on my website.. If you are on my client list , send me a text and I'll send you my price list for all the extra services...

kisses
Ali

 

[Theobservantone]

I get your point .. Personally I clearly describe my session on my website with all the services that are offered on my basic rate so I rarely have questions like that... If I do , it means that the client didn't take the time to read before texting so I politely redirect him to my website or advertisement where all my services are clearly listed... For more services I still prefer meeting the client in person before I take a decision.. If I am going to charge more for more services I want the services to be mutually enjoyable.. I am not offering more services if I think that it would be a task and that I will not connect with my client...
It is a big part of hygiene , but it could be that he's making me feel awkward... You never know to what kind of person you will open the door.. If the client seen me before and I am ok with him , I will send him my price list with extra services no problem... I actually mention it on my website.. If you are on my client list , send me a text and I'll send you my price list for all the extra services...

kisses
Ali

Okay, so if I'm assuming correctly, if a client wants to know about something that is not listed on your site clearly or at all, they have to see you in person first, then you can make a judgment call from there?

I just checked your site and like 99% of other sites it just says "multiple releases". If I want clarification on that, i.e. does it mean 2 in the hour only? Does it mean as many as I can muster in the hour, 2hrs etc.? Do I really need to see you first to ask that question? I don't see how 3 vs 2 shots is a YMMV issue but if it is correct me, if not then hopefully it gets rid of the YMMV part of this.

 

[sempel]

I get your point .. Personally I clearly describe my session on my website with all the services that are offered on my basic rate so I rarely have questions like that... If I do , it means that the client didn't take the time to read before texting so I politely redirect him to my website or advertisement where all my services are clearly listed... For more services I still prefer meeting the client in person before I take a decision.. If I am going to charge more for more services I want the services to be mutually enjoyable.. I am not offering more services if I think that it would be a task and that I will not connect with my client...
It is a big part of hygiene , but it could be that he's making me feel awkward... You never know to what kind of person you will open the door.. If the client seen me before and I am ok with him , I will send him my price list with extra services no problem... I actually mention it on my website.. If you are on my client list , send me a text and I'll send you my price list for all the extra services...

kisses
Ali

I also checked out your site and after 30s I had the answer to most common questions. The other thing is you clearly state if interested in other services not listed, please contact me. So you are doing things the right way. There are plenty of examples where SP's haven't taken some or all the steps you've taken which is what causes the problem IMO.

 

[Halloween Mike]

So I contacted two providers. One had the word safe somewhere in her ad so she got upset that I asked about BBBJ. Clearly some fault is hers for not being clear/obvious. The second provider indicated her use of "safe" was "safe and secure environment", not safe services. So while it's fair to say a person who asks questions where the answers are clearly given is a timewaster, that may not always be the case. The lady needs to ensure the message is clearly displayed and crystal clear. If it is (e.g. "SAFE SERVICES ONLY" in bold), then for sure the guy's a timewasting fool.

Oh yes i hate those sentences. I mean i often read "Clean and Safe" in ad, but what does safe mean, is it safe services only or it mean she is clean (well its to be expected) and its a safe environement? Cause i kinda find it funny, if it was a thief/scammer, obviously he wouldn't put in the ad "unsafe place, ill rob you". The fact that safe is put in ads mean nothing for me regarding if it will be safe for me or not lol.

There's the reason why : Imagine that you are a provider. You offer more services and decide to answer openly when a client ask about it by text. Of course the client book a session with you. He show up expecting services .
As soon as you open the door you can smell him. A strong smell coming from his armpit , a very disgusting breath , very long dirty nails. He looks like he didn't take a shower since 2010.

I know we are all different but personally i would simply refuse to see him ! Ori would be honest, telling him he stink and its not a way to present yourself to a meeting with an escort, i would basically teach him on etiquette. Even if you go incall and expect to shower at her place, your not supose to stink when getting there... lol. If you showered in the morning, use deo and such, you shouldn't smell fully cloathed.

I never understood this mentality to "roll with it" and offer a limited crappy service because of stuff like poor hygiene. Nobody win. The guy will make a bad review because he got crappy service and he will be unsatisfied. The only thing you "win" in that is the $ wich lead me to believe you where money hungry on going as far as demeaning yourself doing it with a disgusting client for a bit of $.

I guess im lucky in all my years i never got a smelly lady (i know this happen the other way around too, not just client) maybe because like i said im carefull on who i see but also i don't do daty so my nose never goes super close to between the legs lol.

If the client seen me before and I am ok with him , I will send him my price list with extra services no problem...

At least your honest about it. Personally i can't afford a "try out" meeting before i know if i can get the full experience lol, so in that case i wouldn't book, but since your honest about it its cool, no problem there. Im not saying i didn't got "an extra mile" after repeating meeting like one girl i asked her on the seventh time we met if she could swallow, i would really love it and since we had good chemistry she did it, even tough its not something she often did. But i must be sure at the bare minimum ill get GFE. And usually i aim for GFE+ , at least CIM (without swallow).

 

[sempel]

Oh yes i hate those sentences. I mean i often read "Clean and Safe" in ad, but what does safe mean, is it safe services only or it mean she is clean (well its to be expected) and its a safe environement? Cause i kinda find it funny, if it was a thief/scammer, obviously he wouldn't put in the ad "unsafe place, ill rob you". The fact that safe is put in ads mean nothing for me regarding if it will be safe for me or not lol.

I know we are all different but personally i would simply refuse to see him ! Ori would be honest, telling him he stink and its not a way to present yourself to a meeting with an escort, i would basically teach him on etiquette. Even if you go incall and expect to shower at her place, your not supose to stink when getting there... lol. If you showered in the morning, use deo and such, you shouldn't smell fully cloathed.

I never understood this mentality to "roll with it" and offer a limited crappy service because of stuff like poor hygiene. Nobody win. The guy will make a bad review because he got crappy service and he will be unsatisfied. The only thing you "win" in that is the $ wich lead me to believe you where money hungry on going as far as demeaning yourself doing it with a disgusting client for a bit of $.

If I don't see "SAFE SERVICES ONLY" I think anything is up to interpretation and one cannot be faulted for misinterpreting. I also know a few women who use that as a deterrent only to reveal that they are ok with BBBJ. My biggest peeve is actually seeing someone who has an upcharge for BBBJ.

I don't think $$ is the only reason a girl doesn't kick out a client. I'm sure many have gone with lesser of two evils - stay with the client and have crap experience OR client gets mad/violent. It's very easy to say refuse service and kick the client out but it's coming from a guy who if push comes to shove will likely win in a fight versus a female. Different if you are the female.

But yes, I don't understand how some guys feel you showing up stinking is ok, even though you shower. It's different at an MP where you won't see the lady until after you shower so she'll never know (I've gone after sports and one thread was discussing biking to the MP). But with an SP, you are being greeted at the door, possibly being hugged/kissed and it's a horrible first impression if you stink. And I will disagree, regardless of showering/deodorant, elapsed time results in odours. You constantly sweat, your breath gets bad, and any active movement even walking results in perspiration. If you can't shower direct before an appointment, change your shirt, spray some light cologne, use mouthwash/mint/gum, and then clean yourself up good when you arrive.

 

[Theobservantone]

Careful of your responses guys....this thread is now on SW Twitter and apparently Im some guy from CAERF that has made a new handle to come on TERB and act like a pompus asshole lololol. I legit LOLd when I saw it on twitter today. The icing on the cake? Amber aka Foxxy Lady retweeted it saying she knew there was something off about me but yet she acted as a reference for me no more than a month and a bit ago....I guess she doesnt care for her fellow SWs as she referred a guy she thought there was something wrong with.....or shes just making shit up on Twitter.

So be warned...say what the ladies dont like and you will be lied about on Twitter in an obvious attempt to muddy your handle....lol I feel like Im in highschool. The handle that tweeted it is @cristylonglegs I think...something like that for anyone who wants to look, its some SP from halifax. My guess is its sweetiepieexo, but thats just a guess. Its quite hilarious. Oh, and apparently Im just a Jessica Rain ass kisser lmao. Not my fault she actually speaks sense and addressed the question at hand...I just acknowledged it and appreciate it.

 

[Ffm_BV]

Answering questions is just good customer service. When clients reach out to my business with inquiries, it doesn’t help my cause to catch an attitude with them even if it is regarding something I’ve addressed in my Q&A page. There’s a diplomatic way to handle any situation and I just happen to think you catch more bees with honey. Just my $0.02.

 

[peepingtom]

Careful of your responses guys....this thread is now on SW Twitter and apparently Im some guy from CAERF that has made a new handle to come on TERB and act like a pompus asshole lololol. I legit LOLd when I saw it on twitter today. The icing on the cake? Amber aka Foxxy Lady retweeted it saying she knew there was something off about me but yet she acted as a reference for me no more than a month and a bit ago....I guess she doesnt care for her fellow SWs as she referred a guy she thought there was something wrong with.....or shes just making shit up on Twitter.

So be warned...say what the ladies dont like and you will be lied about on Twitter in an obvious attempt to muddy your handle....lol I feel like Im in highschool. The handle that tweeted it is @cristylonglegs I think...something like that for anyone who wants to look, its some SP from halifax. My guess is its sweetiepieexo, but thats just a guess. Its quite hilarious. Oh, and apparently Im just a Jessica Rain ass kisser lmao. Not my fault she actually speaks sense and addressed the question at hand...I just acknowledged it and appreciate it.

These twitter SPs are your everyday sherlock holmes. lol

 

[Halloween Mike]

Careful of your responses guys....this thread is now on SW Twitter

I see lot of SW saying negative stuff about clients on twitter to be honest ever since i started following more SPs. Sometimes its not directly one you follow but its retweeted by one you do. Sometimes they don't even realize how its offeding for us clients. Honestly i think its a big turn off when it happen and it would not make me want to see that person either. Basically its a win win... In this specific case she seem to think your a guy name demian who get SW pregnants??

As for the risk of a client being violent, you can't let that interfere with your decision... I mean what else could that asshole do? If he is to get violent because you decide to refuse him... chances are he may get violent for another reason too.